When do you find out that you have completely lost someone

I was with him for a long time, and then I was in a different place, and I lasted for a long time, although both of us were tired, but I never thought about breaking up, at least I wanted to continue to maintain this relationship, but we didn't think of a way to alleviate this situation. After that, he really couldn't hold on, so he broke up and never contacted him since.

Completely losing her is not that you have lost her at this moment, but that you have lost her in your memory. Completely losing a person means that the characters and scenes in the memories seem to be there, but they can't remember the corresponding throbbing. Losing someone completely means that you still repeat the words you used before when you talk about her, and suddenly feel like a limerick.

Completely losing someone means that you have also permanently lost a part of yourself. ‍‍

When he posted his ** with his current girlfriend, I immediately realized that there was no longer a possibility between myself and him.

For three years after she left, I didn't really realize I had lost her. Because I didn't have a chance to see her, I just felt like I couldn't meet, and I thought I was unkind. Until I went to see her, I didn't know which district she was in, I looked for more than an hour, and I had no choice but to ask the uncle of the park if I knew, and the uncle took me to find her based on the impression of the description.

When I saw her 19-year-old**, I burst into tears. ‍‍

A girl who has liked her for a long time, every time he calls her out, he will dress up carefully and come out to meet me, until the end of last year to ask her to eat together, but she refused, and has never been in touch since. Knowing that moment, I realized that I had completely lost her.

People who have not experienced a long and gradually disintegrating relationship cannot imagine it. It's not necessarily that I don't love it at all, maybe I will think about it in the future, and I will remember it in any moment, but on the day I waved goodbye, there was indeed endless tiredness and powerlessness coming from all directions, enveloping you and turning around into the crowd, and since then the mountains and seas have been separated, and you can never turn back. ‍‍

When he left me, I felt completely lost.

Three months after breaking up with her ex-boyfriend. Suddenly, I couldn't remember what he looked like. Crazy looking for **, crazy recalling.

Why is it that this person who has been with me for so long is even vague in terms of general outline. Forgetting is far more painful than losing. I remember all the details of what we went through together, every word you said, every place we walked through.

But I can't remember what you look like.

When I forgot his name with my input method. The most popular Highway 1 bridge connecting Los Angeles and San Francisco along the way was broken; Vegas, who goes every Thanksgiving, is no longer the paradise on earth where there is only laughter and laughter; His face faded away in the swirl of memory; Even I like to play abbreviations,I found that the input method didn't remember his name.,Forget it completely.。

He blocked me. I wanted to ask if I was doing recently, and I found that "you and him haven't turned on message verification......：

Before we broke up with our ex, we had lunch. Korean barbecue. We used to eat that shop all the time, but we're used to it.

And because the restaurant is very good, every time I go to eat, it is a very warm atmosphere. But on the last day, the two of us suddenly felt very embarrassed, and when we spoke, we became polite to each other, repeating a lot of politically correct things between the two of us. Trying to prove again and again that they need each other very much.

When I came out, I was already tired. The two of us each called a taxi, and neither of us kissed anyone reluctantly goodbye, but just glanced at each other and got into the car, without making ** or texting all the way. It was the last time we saw each other, and we were ordinary, like two strangers who only had work to do with each other.

Send a birthday gift to a friend who used to be very good, and finally the courier shows that the recipient cannot be contacted.

My friend told me that he posted his wedding ring and wedding photos on Moments.

Summary. The sudden disappearance of a person represents several situations. First, the person is out of love and wants to find a place to be quiet by himself, so that his emotions can calm down.

Second, this person has suffered a lot of setbacks in his life, his life has suddenly become very down, his self-esteem is very strong, and he is afraid that others will look down on him and suddenly disappear. Third, this person suddenly broke out, and he had a lot of money in a short period of time, and he suddenly disappeared for fear that others would think about him. Fourth, this person may have broken the law, and he is afraid that others will know about it, so he quietly hides alone.

Fifth, the person may have been taken or lost, and he could not find his way home for a while. If you are young or old, it is more likely. Sixth, this person may have been killed or had an accident and is no longer alive, but it has not yet been exposed.

All of the above may disappear suddenly.

A person disappeared inexplicably.

Hello dear! If a person disappears inexplicably, what does this person have to do with you?

The sudden disappearance of a person represents several situations. First, the person is out of love and wants to find a place to be quiet by himself, so that his emotions can calm down. Second, this person has suffered a lot of setbacks in his life, his life has suddenly become very down, his self-esteem is very strong, and he is afraid that others will look down on him and suddenly disappear.

Third, this person suddenly broke out, and he had a lot of money in a short period of time, and he suddenly disappeared for fear that others would think about him. Fourth, this person may have broken the law, and he is afraid that others will know about it, so he quietly hides alone. Fifth, the person may have been taken or lost, and he could not find his way home for a while.

If you are young or old, it is more likely. Sixth, this person may have been killed or had an accident and is no longer alive, but it has not yet been exposed. All of the above may disappear suddenly.

The moment that really realized that someone had really lost someone was an ex-girlfriendThe moment he turned and left.

When you realize that everything you have done has never touched her, and she has even been annoyed by it, you know that you have lost this person.

However, it is not enough. Even if you start your life in despair and don't have the strength to contact again, there will still be moments when you go crazy to contact her and see how she is doing. Even you will still have the delusion that she will be with you again.

In love, if you really have to say that there is a moment when you realize that you have completely lost the other person, I think, when you decide to be with another person.

Later in the story, I didn't stay where I was, as I thought at first, and waited for her to come back.

I started a new life and found my current girlfriend. My current girlfriend has also asked a question before: "Do you still like her?" ”

No. When you realize that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you just want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

Trust me, you too will meet someone who will make you willing to say goodbye to the past once and for all.