I always like my professors and don t look down on boys my age, what should I do?

In fact, there is a certain pattern of what kind of person everyone will like, which is related to our established concept of love and aesthetics, and the formation of the concept of love is closely related to a person's growth environment and experience.

If a person always likes older people in life, but lacks interest in the opposite sex of the same age, and does not consider individual differences, such as whether the professor and the student related to this incident are due to some special reasons, and if in addition to this professor, there are also the same emotional entanglements with other similar men, then it is necessary to consider whether it is a father-love complex.

Many children from single-parent families, because of the lack of fatherly or maternal love since childhood, so when they become adults, they are always easy to fall in love with the older opposite sex on emotional issues, but in general, most of the older opposite sex already have their own families, which will inevitably lead to conflicts that are difficult to solve, and even cause many family and personal tragedies, which is the outcome that everyone does not want to see.

In fact, people's lives are very long, and they will meet many different people, if they are destined to be inappropriate, don't be too entangled, because you will meet better people in the future. Another example is this professor, even if you barely break all difficulties together, the age difference between you will inevitably bring about differences in living habits, older people have their own interests and living habits, these young people may not be able to adapt, rather than waiting until that time to regret it, it is better to stop the loss in time, not only responsible for yourself, but also will not affect the lives of others.

In many cases, instead of forcing the impossibility in front of us, it is better to look at the thousands of possibilities in the world.

Everyone has their own choices, and I don't think it's a topic to worry about.

I also like the mature type, the uncle type, haha. I think you'll like your professor, probably because the range around you is too small, the professor is a more suitable person for you to meet, and you don't have too many opportunities to meet other mature people.

The so-called turnip greens have their own love, this is the type you like, girl.

If you think this problem is realistic, you have to be brave enough to pursue it, and there are no such examples around you. If you don't think it's realistic, expand your social circle, or if you're not in a hurry, you can wrap yourself up through the platform of the university to make yourself better. When you enter the society and go to work, it is not too late for you to fall in love, believe me, girl, you will find the man you like.

There is another question, let's discuss why I like mature men, I think it must have something to do with the father's love that I have enjoyed since childhood. Maybe it's because of the lack of money, maybe it's because of the disappointment in the father. Whether you are the former or the latter, girl, you can face your heart bravely, and this is not an abnormal state of mind.

It's like someone likes Lu Han and someone likes Gao Yixiang.

Girl, are you really sure that you don't like boys your age at all? Actually, you take a closer look at the people around you. It is true that there are many boys who are younger and more naïve, but there are also mature children, and if you communicate with others, you may find that you have never paid attention to the scenery.

Usually mature people's experience must be relatively rich, born is a blank slate, as you grow up, slowly leave a variety of imprints. If you like mature people, don't care about their past, how can people who don't have a story be mature.

You can't have it both ways, girl, keep your eyes open and think about whether you want a man with a story or a man who accompanies him to become a story.

You are too high for your self-position.

Because of his high self-esteem, he feels that boys of the same age are very naïve, ordinary, and unworthy of himself. Only professors with successful careers, houses and cars are their own equals.

This is now almost the norm among all female college students and graduate students.

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Quite simply, because when you go to college and graduate school, you will have the highest value of your marriage in your life.

At this time, you are the youngest and most beautiful; Your ornamental value and residual value are at their best. That's why there are a lot of rich people who like to go to college to find a junior.

And the boys at this time are the most pitiful. He was in the darkest period of his life and the lowest value of his marriage.

There is nothing to want, the material basis is zero. It hasn't been honed, so a lot of the ideas are particularly naïve. There is no youth and blood. Then a strong sense of self-esteem and inferiority complex mixes into a bizarre and touching emotional intelligence.

Compared with the boys who have been working for five or ten years, they are simply weak. As a result, it is common for female college students to abandon their boyfriends at school and join the arms of successful men on college campuses.

Although they are very inconspicuous now, you must know that all successful men come from this stage. A few years after graduation, they will enter a period of rapid growth and maturity. The value of marriage increases linearly. And as you get older, you will gradually get lower.

It's normal for you to look down on them now, because in a few years, they will look down on you too. That is to say, people often say that only by not bullying the poor and bad can we not be ugly when we are old.

You just have a feeling of admiration, and you feel that you admire such a person, and you feel that other people are much shallow.