I m a very old fashioned boy who likes a very trendy girl, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What do you think of her? In fact, anything is possible! It's just, what's the use of liking.

    The key depends on your attitude, if you want to chase her, you will be brave to confess, girls like brave boys. How afraid of losing her, if you just want to be a good friend, then don't say anything, care about her silently, and action is more important than everything. Soil is not inevitable, it can be changed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is no distinction between high and low professions, no distinction between high and low personalities, love to say, if you don't say it, how do you know what she thinks of you, does Su Dongpo know? Very talented, however, Su Xiaomei is more talented than his brother, one day, Su Dongpo was sitting in meditation, and there happened to be a monk who was also sitting in meditation, after that, Su Dongpo got up and asked the monk, please ask: "What does the monk look like me.""?

    The monk said: The donor is like a Buddha, Su Dongpo smiled and said, do you know what I think you look like? I see you like cow dung.

    That's the way it is; If you look at others like Buddhas, it means that you have a Buddha in your heart, and you have become a Buddha, so when you look at others like cow dung, all you think about in your heart are distracting thoughts, but in fact, you yourself are such a person, aren't you?

    Don't care what you are, you see what others are, and don't care what others are. It's all about seizing the opportunity!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Damn, how can you come up and lose a piece of momentum?

    I patted her on the shoulder and said, "Niu, are you willing to go with me?"

    If she wants to say that she doesn't want to, you sigh and say, "What a mistake you made!"

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The most direct thing is that you are incompetent and can't give him everything he wants! Because this world is too realistic.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello landlord.

    One of the best reasons not to love ......It's as simple as that.

    If you don't love it, isn't it the best choice to leave?

    If you leave, it is impossible for both parties to like it, and all the separations are liked by one party and sad by the other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because she met a second male who she owed and loved her deeply.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We won't be happy together.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    is seriously ill, and he doesn't want the boy to see it or is afraid of dragging him down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Become friends first.

    Be good friends again.

    Only by entering his circle of life can he have a chance.

    If all of the above is done.

    Just be nice to him, but let him know secretly that you like him.

    Don't be in a hurry, because he has someone he likes now.

    You're in too much of a hurry. will make him disgusted with you. ok?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fight for what you should fight for, so that no matter what the outcome is, you will have no regrets.

    Emotional matters cannot be forced, and if he really doesn't like you, you should wish him to find his own happiness.

    You should also choose someone who loves you and lives happily. When you think simply, things will be simpler.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Fair play! That's fair to the guy you like! In this way, even if you fail, you will not regret it, at least you have tried!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What do you look like, boys like drifting, let him feel that you care about him very, very much, don't overdo it, it will annoy people, if he is annoying, it proves that he doesn't like you at all, you don't expect him to like you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Maybe he thinks of you as a very iron buddy.

    If you really can't, be your best friend!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hint first, and if he doesn't give you a response, don't continue, or you might not even be a friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ask him if he likes you, if he doesn't like it, he can't help it, after all, he already has a girlfriend.

    If he says he likes him, he's a flowery man, or not!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Fall in love with someone, you can give up everything for him, but who knows that creation makes people, life is precious and love is more valuable, you have to believe that you are really in love and deep love only he does not love, then you will work hard to recruit him for love, and one day he will understand your love! Persistence, unremitting persistence! Believe in yourself and you won't succeed!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, tell him your heart, if you don't accept you, then you can only recover your mentality, adjust your mood and be an ordinary friend with him!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everything depends on fate, what can be fought for, and what can't be stopped in moderation.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Give it up! If you put yourself in that girl's shoes, she's going to hate you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Continue to chat like this, talk more about the topics you are interested in, but you are now in the third year of high school or it is better to focus on your studies, you can also talk about learning every day and discuss together, encourage each other, and work together to be admitted to a university, and you will definitely have a very tacit understanding in the university.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should not wonder if she likes you or not, but whether she likes her partner or not.

    This is the only way to know if you have a success rate.

    If you like it too much, wait until she gets it.

    Or find another target... It's only one year of high school. There is still plenty of time... For example, foreign schools.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first time she ignored you may be because she didn't want too many people to know that you liked her, so she ignored you, and then you changed this embarrassing scene, but not every girl will say the words I love you, you need to ask her out, whether it's dinner, watching a movie, or sitting at a table during dinner, give her some hints, when she's embarrassed, you take her down, here I wish you a happy love, hope to adopt.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's good to make progress together, if you hurt yourself, don't force it, students still have to focus on their studies.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Confess to her, I think the same way as you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you have a fashionable mother, but the child is very dirty, it's a personality problem, but it should be better to meet different friends and go out to play.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why did your mother say that about you? What age are you and your mother? If you're just trying to be a little more trendy, then you just need to spend more time with your mother! Or don't care too much about what other people think!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Go to prosperous places and stay with friends. Go for entertainment.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Choose whether you like to laugh on the bike or cry on the BMW!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Looking for someone who is rich, it's not that you like money, you will know it after you get married, you don't understand it at all if you are not married, whether the life after marriage is very important to the Xinfu economy, the main thing is that men like you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    How can feelings be swayed by money?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It can be said slowly, not everyone rich is arrogant.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's better to be poor, at least it's more reliable, that's my idea.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Take the initiative to confess to a poor boy.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Do you like money, or do you like people you like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Do you know that the most lacking thing in girls is courage Many times they lose a lot because they don't dare to say it When you talk about other girls, because not saying it will make him think that you don't care about him When you say other boys, he will get angry Prove that he cares about you So the landscape doesn't dare to say it anymore Keep your head down and say what you care about Let him know that you care about him Sometimes you can also try not to take the initiative to talk to him Occasionally look for it occasionally If you leave it Understand, you have to be brave Let him know that you care Let him know what you like When he tells you about other girls, maybe he wants to see the reaction, don't show it, even if you just pout, you'll let him know that you care about him, you know, you don't show it, will he know? If you want to write a letter, it's okay not to say it to your face, but it depends on your courage Come on, support you, I wish you happiness, hehe.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your relationship is very confused. He is very immature and doesn't know how to take care of your emotions. If there is anything that is best spread out and explained, if you continue like this, you will only be very wronged, and when you can't stand it, there is only one result: breaking up.

    Take more time to go out and walk together, tell him that you don't want to see him get too close to other girls, avoid unnecessary arguments, and preferably talk about life face-to-face, and don't hope for other methods.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Leo boys are like this, domineering, you should be brave to show him when you write a letter, at least let him know, don't let yourself regret it.

    In fact, according to what you said, I think he probably wants to get your attention, Leo men still love face, so he won't express it directly, and generally tell you through some roundabout methods, at that time, it depends on whether you can understand it...

    Good luck...

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Leo·· It's good to get used to it...

    Actually·· He's just a little flower heart, and when he is still special to you, · You have to pay attention to the details... There's a lot of stuff to say...

    Hidden and hidden... In the end, it's just going to be boring... Enn ·

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Boy with a heart of flowers. ,I don't know about the horoscope, he's supposed to be the kind of boy who is very strong.,If you don't like it, it's useless to do anything.。。

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't rush at all, take the time to check true love. I guess people are not mature at all, my three-year-old son often says that he likes the girl in the class, and fights with others to protect him, but this is not love.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, it is estimated that this kind of person is

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Some girls' personalities are like this, this is her freedom, although you like her, she can't change, it's not her if you change, so since you like her, accept everything from her.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You have to restrain this mentality! You must not be very old, you were like this when you were an adolescent, just try to restrain yourself!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You just speak your mind.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You're just like me, which shows that you care about her, but you should have the courage to ask her if she likes you to decide if you should be jealous. If she likes you, don't care, it's normal for a person to have a few friends of the opposite sex, and I believe you also have a few very good friends of the opposite sex who are easy to misunderstand.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Aha, your sister, I seem to be this kind of person.

    That's why I know best.

    Well, in fact, in this girl's heart, love and friendship are clearly divided, if you and she are already in love.

    Then please love her well.

    If you haven't started yet.

    Then chase her.

    I believe in your charm.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It was the same when I was in junior high school.

    At that time, even if my girlfriend was a good friend of mine, I had been playing with it for a long time.

    I'll be jealous.

    You should give yourself a little confidence.

    Believe that she really loves you.

    Trust your feelings.

    You have to think about the bright side yourself.

    It's not a big deal to laugh.

    Maybe you're too young now.

    Don't know what love is.

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