How to think clearly!? How can you think about getting married?

As we all know, buyers need to prepare a large amount of money before buying a house, in addition, buying a house also involves deed tax, insurance premiums, maintenance ** and other costs, about 3-40,000 yuan, and decoration costs generally range from 4-80,000 yuan. The insurance point has to leave 30,000 yuan plus to prevent accidents such as job changes and illness, so young people should do their best to buy a wedding house and avoid impulsiveness.

2. Lock the purchase area.

In many cases, the wedding house is the first time for young people to buy a home, and most of them do not have a large budget, and due to economic constraints, it is generally not suitable to choose a real estate in the city center. The nature of young people to love to play and go out also determines that it is not suitable to buy real estate with inconvenient transportation. Therefore, the supporting facilities are convenient, the housing prices are moderate, and it is an ideal area for buying a wedding house.

In addition, it is also necessary to consider factors such as the home of both parents, the location of the company, etc., generally speaking, the former is more important, because the company will always change. In addition, it is convenient to take care of each other by being close to the parents, and it is necessary to negotiate which parents are closer. These factors, combined with the regional housing price factor, can basically lock in the area.

No matter what happens, we must consider its causes and consequences, whether it is good or bad, we must be thoughtful, we must be prepared for the worst, and we must be prepared.

First of all, what is your problem? You need to think it through, because there are a lot of things that you need to think about right now.

From the perspective of a person who has come before, with my own experience, I will only give you two suggestions: 1The difference between the north and the south, I didn't believe this sentence at first, but later I found out that it was not a little bit, the two sides lived in different environments since childhood, different living habits, different family education, different ways of dealing with people and things, and they can't see it when they are in love, because the advantages in love are infinitely magnified, and the disadvantages are infinitely reduced, but living together after marriage will be reversed; 2.

Age difference, although now age is not a matter of marriage, what I want to say is not for marriage, but life experience, you are different in age must have too much experience difference, it is not an exaggeration to say that if you fall into the middle of the situation, you probably don't know, because people think differently at different stages, so if you want to make a joint film, it is like buying a lottery ticket, the ideas are not synchronized, and naturally I always feel that there is no common language, once or twice there is no problem, and the accumulated contradictions will reach enough to be excessive to the amount of qualitative change. At that time, the only thing to do was to accept the harm and drink the bitter fruit of yourself; Therefore, the words of people who have come over are not empty talk but personal experience, and the words of young people are always a beautiful yearning for the future, but can the future really be controlled? No, when you reach such an age, your thoughts will make you understand the value of your behavior, the two suggestions here do not directly mention your emotions and discord, before marriage, you must be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings, so that you can only barely get married, but it is difficult to do this, the other party is so shiny before marriage, how can you see the shortcomings.

I have a friend who is in a similar situation to you, she is also a college graduate, very young, in her twenties, her father died early, she has a father-lover plot, that is, she likes a more mature man who can take care of her, and she is with a divorced old man in her forties who is much older than her. Because the old man has experienced a lot of things, he also said that if he can't make it with her, he will have to prepare for another one.

It is not a shameful thing to have a father-love plot, and it is not a shame to like to find an older mature man, it is because of a psychological need caused by special childhood life and family relationships, most of such children lack the guidance and education of their parents from an early age, so their psychological growth is eager to find care and guidance and teaching from other ways of mature opposite sex. What you actually like is that he can replace your ideal father's position, because your father has always been absent, and he is highly educated, knowledgeable, experienced, mature and stable, and can give you good guidance.

But if you get married, the difference of more than 20 years is too much, and there is indeed a future where he dies before you get old, leaving you alone in the world, if you love him, then he will die from you sooner, you will be very painful, if you have a child, you pull the child harder alone. Of course, now you feel like a child in front of him, and you may feel that you are all children now, how can you be a mother to a child. In fact, his feeling is also the feeling of adopting an adopted daughter as a wife.

Because his ex-wife did not bear him a child, he wanted the child very much and would even want to adopt it.

You feel that old men are more selfish, and that's right and normal. Because men are usually more selfish, mature older men know that taking care of themselves is the first priority. If you feel that he is not as selfless as you are to him, you need to master the way to communicate with him, so that he understands your needs, so that he understands what you want him to do, but try to be calm and tactful and not quarrel.

He has a lot more experience than you, and it is normal for you to feel that you don't know him so well in front of him, and that you often feel lost and confused. Maybe in the process of getting along and falling in love, you need to find a way to grow up quickly and mature yourself to grow up in order to communicate and get along with him better.

He will be in a hurry to urge you to get married, and once you get married, you will belong to him. And for you, your best youth is in these few years, and he doesn't care. If after ten years of marriage, he doesn't want you again, and then it will not be easy for you to marry again.

Don't be superstitious about the eight characters of the horoscope, your fate is in your own hands.

So you have to weigh the pros and cons well, and be mentally prepared for what may happen in the future, true love and happiness are the most important. Considering your situation, it is recommended that you do not rush into the step of marriage with him now, no matter what way he urges you, you can say that the two of them should run in better, and wait until you feel that the two of you are almost in love before getting married. Then in the process of falling in love with him, you can satisfy your psychological need for a father-love complex until you feel that you no longer need this complex, then you can reconsider your future choices at that time.

Tell you, it's not wrong to like older men at all!

Men, you don't have to be handsome, but you have to have connotation.

I believe that young boys in general have not gone through the years.

There is no such thing as the vicissitudes of time. Ripe.

The man knows how to take care of you.

Seriously, if you change to the young boy now. Want.

If you don't have a career, you're even more squeamish than you! Place.

Therefore, a man must have gone through the tempering of the years. Just.

That unique vicissitudes! It's talking about his current economy.

The force is very strong. And he loves you so much, and he's not old.

It's small. Being able to propose marriage to you shows how much he is there.

It's up to you. This may also be the last time he will get married.

It's too old to get married at once. So.

What he is looking for is a stable life!

I'm actually the same as you, and I don't like those breasts either.

Sleeve for dry little boy!

So I'm rooting you down, saying that you like him a lot, too.

What else are you thinking about!!

If you miss something, you won't have it!

Finally, I wish you a happy family!

There are 4 questions that you must consider carefully before getting married, which is very important.

I understand it as follows: in a word, it is a final and decisive affirmative answer to oneself.

To think clearly is to use careful thinking, to synthesize the pros and cons from a comprehensive perspective, to express the attitude of the problem faced, not to go back, regret and so on. . .

Know the pros and cons of it, or recognize it as an adult.

It is to prepare you for the worst ...

You can ask like this.

Hello, is there anything you don't know about this thing? If you have any questions, I can answer them in time. Moreover, you can also discuss and discuss, and you will be given the most preferential treatment.

It's not too much, it's good to have something to say without wasting each other's precious time.

Being able to really help you is our greatest happiness! If you still have doubts, although you can ask questions again, there are a large number of enthusiastic netizens here to answer your questions!

You need to have a good attitude and ask others with an open mind. Don't pretend to understand, it's fooling yourself. As long as you have a good attitude, it's his business whether others tell you or not. It's someone else's right not to tell you, but to tell you, others don't have this obligation, you have to know how to be grateful.

First of all, you can say hello first, and then ask her if she is still dissatisfied with this thing, so as to dispel her concerns.

Learn the protagonist of "An Home", and read more books to increase knowledge.

Do you have any ideas and we can talk.

You have to ask specific questions and analyze this concretely.

To determine the relationship between men and women, she said that she also thought about it clearly, how to reply?

A: The behavior you said proves that she doesn't love you anymore, so it's best for the two of you to let go of each other. But in the end, it's up to you what you think.

Maybe he doesn't want to continue with you as a boyfriend and girlfriend yet, but is it okay to start being a regular friend?

Now that the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend has been determined, the woman said to think about it clearly, explain herself or let you think about it, and then make a decision.

Tell him to give you twenty-four hours, and if you don't agree I'll keep chasing you. If you think she wants to think about it, she just doesn't like you, and you feel uncomfortable, so you don't have to pay attention to her.

If the relationship has been confirmed, if he still has to think about it, I think he may be very tangled and not very sure about your love.

Determine the relationship between men and women, he said to think about it clearly, you can tell him that I will always wait for you, as long as you look up. I'll be there for you.

In fact, he meant to make sure that you want to be sure that it is a relationship between men and women? And there are some things that must be made clear.

That's where she still doesn't feel at ease, find it carefully, or talk about it honestly, if you also agree with her point of view, you can try to adjust yourself. If you don't agree, try changing the girl's mind. In short, when the two are together, it is a process of adapting to each other.

When you have to think about it again, it shows that she is intentional, and you can just have a normal relationship with him.

If you are sure that you want to establish a relationship with him, you can say that you are waiting for him.

Now that you've confirmed why she said that, you can take a look at her attitude lately.

Hold your breath and take your time.

She likes you without rejection

Understood, after all, this is a responsibility for yourself, and I will always wait for your reply.

If a woman doesn't look down on you in her heart, has no feelings for you, and doesn't take you seriously, she won't allow you to get close to her, when you make some more "ambiguous" jokes about her, women will seem very disgusted, and when you want to get close to her, women will often resist you and deliberately push you out.

On the contrary, if a woman pretends to be you in her heart and regards the relationship between you as very important, she will trust you very much, do not "defend" you, she will open her heart to you, sincerely associate with you, in daily life, her attitude towards you will be very enthusiastic, if you ask her for help with something, she will be very cooperative with you.

Then wait for your reply. Think about it slowly!

She hasn't thought about it yet, let's wait for that!

Eighty percent of the time is out of play.

This is Cantonese, just put the word first in front of this sentence, which means to think about it first.

In other words. I don't agree with what you said. So I want you to think about one or two.

If you decide to go, you can contact the interviewer and tell her that after her own careful consideration, she feels that she is more consistent with your company's ideology and is willing to work in your company and contribute to the development of your company.

If you're sure you won't go, just refuse. If you don't think about it, don't tell the interviewer directly, you need to think about it.

If you don't want to go, just find a reason.

Are you asking about QQ space?,After entering the space,Automatically enter the personal space.,The top blank space is where you can type.。

You can send it however you want, horizontally, vertically, standingly, lying, arbitrarily.

Others say that he thinks about it first, which means that he is more cautious in handling things, but in fact, he can't pay attention to it in a short period of time, and he has to decide on changes over a period of time, or it is a way to refuse you, which generally appears among adults.

You said that you thought it through, reflecting that you were anxious for him to give a reply, and you were an anxious person.

It's nothing, it's all a normal mentality.

Someone else thinks about it first.

First, I didn't think it through and hesitated.

Second, the strategy of delaying the army, I hope that after a while, the situation will change, and I don't have to promise you anything.

Third, refusal, for fear of hurting you, generally among strangers.

Think about it.

First, I am afraid that the other party will regret the decision I just made, and I hope that the other party can confirm it.

Second, to test whether the other person adheres to a certain view.

Third, care, hoping that the other party can make a more wise choice.

The reaction is usually manifested in the listener not guessing the speaker's true intentions, which can cause embarrassment for both the listener and the speaker, and sometimes mess things up.