I don t like my current life, and I live completely in a world where I only have my husband!

Can understand your feelings!!

A person lives in this world, many things are involuntarily, but there are two sides to everything, if you think about it from another angle, you may feel different!

Now that you're in a very special time, I'm from the past, and you can imagine that if you still think from this perspective, then you will have a period of more pain after giving birth! But for these things that have become established facts, what problems can you solve by being uncomfortable and painful? It is better to use this time to enrich yourself and plan for the future of your unborn baby, such as establishing a baby homepage, making some reserves and plans for your future entry into the workplace, such as learning about the ...... that is more suitable for you in the future through the Internet, newspapers, TV and other channelsYour frustration and discomfort are because you can't find something to realize your self-worth and can't find a sense of accomplishment, so find a way to create something

There is also a very important point, I guess another reason for your discomfort is to shrink your space too small, which will make you feel suffocated, so, contact relatives and friends more, even if it is a fight, eat occasionally, when your life becomes more than just family, your depression will be sent out a lot, you can try it!

It's still the same sentence, I understand your mood very well, but to change the status quo, it is not okay to complain! I wish you very, very heartfelt that you can live a happy and happy life! I also wish you a smooth birth of a healthy and lovely baby, and you can live a happy and happy life with your dear family!!

Anyone will have such an experience, but your husband still hopes that you can live happily, be happy, and be good to the baby.

Live happily. Closing one window opens another! Maybe when your child is born, you will feel how much it is worth the suffering at this time!

The child is the most important thing, and when he is born, you don't have time to think about it.

When the child can get away from you, go out, women should have their own careers, but such a career must focus on the family, for the sake of the career, it is not good to lose the family.

You can't think too much about getting pregnant now, it's not good for the baby. After the baby is born, there will be a different life.

Have you ever tried to infect him with your laughter? If you can't communicate with him directly, then you don't have to talk to him seriously, which is likely to backfire.

Didn't you say you're an extrovert? Then you can express every bit of your life in a semi-self-talk way, so that your husband can also infect your mood and happiness. For example, when you are cooking, you can cook a good dish, and you can praise yourself, "It's so fragrant!"

I can't resist eating a piece first! Husband, do you want to try it too? Then she gave it to him to eat.

Or when you are decorating the home environment, you pull him to give advice, is it good to put this flower here? Do you feel warm with a new sofa cover? It's good to hum a song while doing things, and go around in circles or something.

In short, find a way to pull your husband into the state of your life, and don't become a pattern of taking care of each other. Since your husband is introverted, it is up to you to work harder from the extrovert! I'm like this to my husband, even if I'm playing on the computer, I call him every once in a while, not necessarily looking for something to talk about, but at least showing that I care about him.

Many family problems are actually not complicated, the key is to change from oneself first, usually change will improve.

In this case, there may be autistic tendencies and a dislike of contact with the outside world!

You can communicate with him more often, let him know what you think, and let him understand you.

Nowadays, the Internet is very powerful, even if you can know the world at home, you can also make friends all over the country or even the world.

I'm like that, I don't go out every time for ten days and half a month, but I have friends all over the country.

Obviously, your bai husband already dislikes you! Even you think so, it seems that there are still a lot of lessons to make up, the development speed of today's society is advancing by leaps and bounds, if you don't advance, you will retreat, or hurry up to enrich yourself, strengthen yourself, and strive to keep up with your husband's footsteps, I believe that your husband's heart can still be pulled back by you, support you!

It is recommended to go to the library to borrow some books on interpersonal communication, pay attention to your emotions when interacting with people, think more about whether you should say it before speaking, what consequences it will be, and look at the problem from the perspective of others, and treat others how you want others to treat you.

That's life! Stand for yourself!

Participate in more social activities and chat with a few netizens.

Communicate more, communicate more. Don't think that you don't know if you don't get in touch with him.

Inspire him to rely on himself in everything, and his parents can't care about us for a lifetime.

Sympathize with him, love him, care for him, guide him, and let him grow up healthily.

It's good to be self-reliant, but I think it's better to communicate more with your parents.

You should take the initiative to talk to your parents ...

Self-reliance. Enrich yourself. Love yourself. One person can also be good.

In fact, if you want me to say, your man is already very good, he has his own career, a fixed income, and a stable home, all the necessary conditions for a normal family are met, but you still want to cry in pain? Don't you think it's your own problem?

Women want to do their home well, is to do their own thing, let the husband do his job freely, not interfere with his work, the current state is that you want to do everything possible to interfere with his work, you can't interfere with yourself and it is very painful, is this normal?

Maybe it's too easy for your man to raise you, you feel too lonely, too boring, too much to do. What you need to do is to enrich your life and do something meaningful for yourself, such as doing something for the child born in the future, and then going out and socializing with the neighbors next door or so, etc.

Furthermore, women should live for themselves, live a meaningful life by themselves, don't just know that they only circle around their men all day long, they can't create value, they can try to reduce the consumption of the family, and try to create their own value from the affairs of the family. In addition to taking care of the housework, you can also do something that creates value for the home, so that you don't feel bored all day. Many women from poor families need to do a lot of things in their daily lives, housework is just a daily necessity for them, and creating a little income for the family is the burden of their busy work all day long.

If your question is related to your previous question, or the "boyfriend", it's just separated, really, who can't live without whom?? ~

Husbands and wives should communicate with each other. Inclusive. Understand.

His fault is his own fault.

Once you know what the problem is, talk to him directly.

The relationship is good when both parties are happy, and then if you feel hard, you can completely give up the relationship.

Everyone is different, just like there are no two same leaves in the world, miss your ex, because you are used to it, and your husband you can get to know him again from a different angle, he does not have the advantages of your ex, but he has his own advantages, you don't like it because you look for it according to your ex but find that he is still different from your ex, you are used to your ex, you are not used to him, you should let go of all your baggage, get along with him in a new way, maybe he will do better, You need to get along, just like when you and your ex first met and didn't get used to him, marriage is not easy, don't give up easily.

Everyone is different, and your mindset is wrong. You were irresponsible to yourself when you got married. And they all say that they are exes, don't always can't let go of the past, you should look at the longer term.

As for whether you want to let go of this marriage, it depends on what you are going to pursue, and whether it is worth your current effort.

Your mentality is not right, some things can't be compared, people have to die compared to others, and goods have to be thrown away, so it's better to change your mind first, no matter how good your predecessor is, it's someone else's, and it's over.

You are really good at hurting others, hurting your husband, hurting yourself, why did you separate in the first place? Why get married? Are you sure you can get your ex back after separation?

Or do you want to hurt others again? You always live in memory, how can you be happy in reality? And how can you be sure that marrying your ex is free of marital quarrels?

The road of life is very long, so it will only suffer yourself, there is no need, you don't always think about the ex, you have to find the advantages of the current one. If it's a scumbag, divide it up to avoid trouble in the future.

If you change yourself to love him, it won't work, then separate early. But I want to say that all you have to change about your ex-boyfriend. You will do it for the rest of your life.

Since you like your ex, why break up, what women always can't get is the best, and if you're really with your ex, you don't feel like you're going to be good.

Don't ruin your life, it's already wrong once, don't be wrong twice.

It's really with your ex, and you're going to feel different.

Sanba, the rotten thing still has the face to say here.

Is your ex still willing to want you?

Have you ever watched "A Woman's Epic" played by Zhao Wei and Liu Ye? Let's see, it's similar to yours, you can learn from it, but your situation is much better than in the TV series.

You have to give up something in life, even if it's painful, even if it's something you've worked hard all your life on, why do you want to cling to it if you're not happy.

This kind of wood head is not sharpened, maybe after losing it, he will understand your importance, if it is really like you said that the two people together are mutual torture, and they are painful and tormented together, and they will not forget about each other.

I know you're reluctant.

But you can't feel his love for you, and I still advise you to be rational about this relationship.

Seven years is not easy, but the road ahead is longer, and it's good to see the change, but not to see it? Will it continue like this?

There is a lack of communication between you, and although living together every day does not mean that you both understand each other's hearts, you first find a suitable opportunity to communicate with him and see what he thinks, and then you can make the next step.

What do you like about him? I'm afraid that such a person will be like this in this life, and you still have a long way to go!! Now there's still a chance. If you want to live like this for the rest of your life, then live it. If you don't want to, what should I do? I'm weird, what do you love about him??

If you really love him, I hope you can sit down and talk about it first, and tell you what you really think and how you feel about him. Let him talk about it, and the two people can sort out their emotions for each other through communication. If you really can't do it, you can always see a psychiatrist.

If he insists on his ideas, it can only be said that he no longer loves you, and there is nothing to say about this kind of man who only lives in his own world. Parted! Such a person does not expect him to take good care of you.

Love is not a person's responsibility, nor is it a burden to a person. You can find someone who truly loves you, can take care of you, and gives for you.

The watchtower lord is happy.

Love is not only happiness, pain is also wanted, and only after being burned by fire can a phoenix appear!

The more I look at it, the more I feel that I am very similar to your husband, and I don't know whether I love her or not, but I have a heart-to-heart communication with her, which is very important, and it also allows us to understand each other.

I can see that you have given a lot, and I sympathize with you.

But nothing can be done. Seven years, it's really hard to imagine.

Such a man makes him lonely, and a woman like you turns back.

Maybe he loves you, but maybe he hasn't even found out yet... Maybe after a while, he will know if it is love.

Don't break up for any reason if you can do everything.

Or you'll regret it.

See if he is worthy of your love and then decide.

Because it is impossible for people to live a lifetime, everything cannot go smoothly, and only when they are positive and confident can they overcome the helplessness in real life.

Because the world is not your own world, you always have to deal with your colleagues, friends and relatives, even if you don't socialize with them, but the trivial things of your daily life will connect you.

In fact, it is commendable for people to live and have a healthy mentality.

It is also a kind of satisfaction to live happily in your own world.

No matter how helpless real life is, just face it calmly.

It's good to understand, you can live in your own world for a while, but you can't live in your own world forever, because people's bodies are material, and at the same time, people are also social beings, and it is impossible not to communicate!