How to deal with the mother who left you more than 10 years ago and now wants to make up for you?

I don't think I'll forgive them. Since they left me many years ago, they have not fulfilled their responsibilities as mothers, so I will not care about them.

Since you have hurt at the beginning, if you change your mind, go and accompany her, people will change, a person with a full personality and full of self-confidence will naturally pay attention to the quality of his life, and make his life dynamic and interesting, because he thinks that he deserves to enjoy all this.

I don't have such an experience, if my mother left me 10 years ago, I must ask her clearly, what is the reason, is the family discord or something to leave, if I have my own hardships I can still choose to forgive, if my mother herself did something wrong, then forgiveness is not easy!

When you encounter such a situation, it is natural to have resentment in your heart. But I don't think I would hate it if it were me. I will communicate with the other party and find out the truth about what happened back then. That is, why did she abandon herself back then.

If her behavior back then was really forced to do so, then I would forgive her and accept her. After all, at the end of the day, she is her own mother.

In fact, in the face of this situation, everyone is a little sad, ten years ago I left myself, and now I think of myself, my heart is indeed a little unhappy, for such a compensation, I think it is redundant, there is no need.

Although I know that she left herself more than ten years ago because of her hardship, but I can't bear it, he didn't come to me for more than ten years, didn't come to see him, let himself not have a complete childhood, let himself lose his mother's love.

As a result, now my character has become very isolated, no one believes in it, and the personality has been flawed, this has happened, and now it is too late, and I will not choose to forgive.

Since he left you more than 10 years ago, and now he wants to make up for you after many years, what did he do in the more than 10 years of motherly love that you lacked? So I think you can ignore him if you don't want to.

I think all mothers in the world love their children the most, even if they abandoned themselves at that time, there must be a lot of hardships, we should understand our mother, after all, she is the one who gave birth to us, no matter what, we should face her with a grateful heart.

I won't accept her help to me at will, since she abandoned me ruthlessly, now that I'm grown up, I want to make up for me. It was a bit late for me, and I hated that she didn't accompany me through my childhood, leaving a lot of shadows on my childhood.

Although my mother left me 10 years ago, after all, she gave birth to me, which is a kind of kindness, even if he didn't raise me, I should repay the favor. <>

What's more, my mother is trying her best to make up for me now, and I gladly accept it. The love that was once missing has now been made up, so I am still a happy child.

Parents love their children, even if it was a mother who left you alone ten years ago, I believe that this kind of mother has its own difficulties at that time.

We should first understand the reason why she abandoned you in the first place, but no matter what the reason was, to make up for it now, we should also need to get the responsibility she should pay as a mother.

If it were me, I would choose to accept my mother, after all, I am my own mother.

When my mother and father divorced 10 years ago, my mother cruelly abandoned me, leaving me to live with my father, and then my father found a stepmother, in fact, my childhood life was not very happy, without my mother's love I felt very missing, and the desire for mother's love in my heart never stopped.

After 10 years, my mother came back to me, and the moment I saw my mother, I felt very kind, I didn't have any hatred for my mother, and I hoped that my mother would care about me again.

My mother said that she wanted to make up for me, and I accepted it, and now I feel so happy living with my mother. <>

Summary. She said that seeing you for the last time is just an excuse, and when you see you, there will be a second and a third.

When I was abandoned by my mother, I came to me twenty years later, just to see the last side, what should I do.

Would you like to meet her?

She said that seeing you for the last time is just an excuse, and when you see you, there will be a second and a third.

In my heart, I want to see what she looks like, and I am afraid that my father will be sad, and I don't know how to do it.

Not really. It's really critically ill, the very serious kind.

The teacher advises you to communicate with your father, see his opinion, and if he disagrees, you should also tell him, as a sign of respect for him.

That's going to be seen.

After all, I gave birth to you.

No matter how hateful it is, you have to meet when the soldiers are heavy.

I can't get past the inverted slash in my heart.

I think if you didn't go to see her, you'd spend your whole life in regret, wouldn't you?

This thing is something she didn't do right, but after all, if you are born, there would be no you without her, and I believe you can make the right choice.

Follow your heart.

Go see her, but tell your father, even if he doesn't agree, let him know.

Your father will understand you, too.

I don't know what I'm going to do now, I just want to see what she looks like, and the rest doesn't matter.

Well, then go and meet her and round out your thoughts.