Why do many young people not like to go back to the countryside for the Chinese New Year?

There are several reasons why young people are reluctant to go home for the New Year:

1. Unwilling to face the pressure of family members to urge marriage.

Young people go home for the New Year, and it is inevitable that they urge marriage, and in recent years, marriage urging has become more and more serious, and parents have enough to urge marriage, plus seven aunts and eight aunts, young people feel too much pressure.

2. The New Year's expenses are large, and the comparison is too strong.

The Chinese New Year is consumption, in just a few days, a few months of salary is gone, not to mention, young people have to face the vanity of relatives and friends, and visit various comparison scenes, it is really human tired.

3. Everyone's inconsistent views are easy to cause quarrels and displeasure.

Many people may only see this side in a year, and when everyone gets together during the New Year, the three views are inconsistent, and various points of view are touched together, which is easy to cause quarrels and misunderstandings, and it is even more tiring.

The Chinese New Year was supposed to be a good day, a day for the whole family to reunite, but various problems were mixed together, so that young people were exhausted and more and more reluctant to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

Parents should also be more considerate of their children, not think about their own face in advance, children earn less, their faces are disgraced, children do not get married, and they are embarrassed, such thoughts can only increase the distance between children and parents.

On such a good day as the Chinese New Year, the whole family eats and chats together, and should talk more about light-hearted and pleasant topics, and parents should give their children a certain amount of space and understand their children more, so that children are willing to return home.

1.The wind of comparison is getting more and more serious. I don't know when it began, going back to the village for the New Year has become the most serious time for the comparison, neighbors, relatives, classmates, etc., when they meet, they all compare who earns more money outside, who drives back the car better, and whose daughter-in-law is the most beautiful.

Even the New Year's money given has to be compared to see who gives more New Year's money, and the New Year's money is from the past.

Five. Ten or one hundred has become the current two, five hundred, or even one thousand, and although some young people do not earn much every month, they do not want to be inferior in these things, and they have to give it hard. Sometimes the Chinese New Year mahjong entertainment, but also to compare the money, itself is for the purpose of entertainment, I didn't expect to play very big, bad luck, can lose thousands at a time.

2.The Spring Festival Gala is getting less and less. Originally, in the thirtieth year of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the family sat together to watch the Spring Festival Gala, and they were happy.

Now, with the rapid development of the mobile Internet, young people are watching the Spring Festival Gala less and less, and the common language with their parents is becoming less and less.

3.Toilets in the countryside are too dirty and unhygienic. Although they all grew up in the countryside, some young people have lived in the city for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will not be able to adapt to the toilets in the countryside when they return home for the Chinese New Year.

First, it is inconvenient to go to the toilet, and I have to go to the toilet in the middle of the night. Second, it is too cold, and the toilets in rural areas are generally open, and it will be cold when you go to the toilet; The third is that the toilet is too dirty.

Every year to celebrate the New Year, but go back to the New Year of the young people are getting fewer and fewer, after reading the reason why they are reluctant to go back to the countryside for the New Year, it is really sad, they are all children who grew up in the countryside, with the changes of the times, they are indeed unwilling to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

There are many reasons why many young people do not like to go back to the countryside for the New Year, however, there are generally the following reasons:

The first reason is because the holiday is only a few days, the traffic is very congested, the journey is particularly tiring, all the way back to the rural hometown is more difficult, go in a hurry, go back in a hurry, stay in a few days, you have to return, unwilling, he is a hard young man is not willing to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

Second, communication is particularly convenient now, and you can use mobile phones and computers to get in touch with your rural home at any time, and you often learn that there is nothing important about the situation in your rural hometown, and you can go back to the countryside to do it, but fortunately, you will not go back to the countryside during the Chinese New Year.

Thirdly, due to the special richness and variety of cultural life, the countryside is not as New Year's as it used to be, so the attraction of returning to the countryside for the New Year has weakened, and it feels that there is no great meaning, and young people are fortunately reluctant to return to the countryside for the New Year.

Fourth, I didn't earn much money, and I still need to spend a sum of money to go back to the countryside for the New Year, because there is a more traditional habit in the countryside, you must buy gifts for the elders, and give red envelopes to the younger generations, which is a small burden compared to young people, so there are many young people who don't like to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

Fourth, some young people have not yet found a partner, especially parents, because the children are old, they are anxious to urge their children to marry, and the children feel very troubled and go back to the countryside for the New Year, and it is very unpleasant to encounter these situations, so they will not go back to the countryside for the New Year.

Because if young people grow up in the countryside, they are already familiar with the land, the countryside is not developed, the Chinese New Year is not lively, in the past they may go to relatives, but now that they have grown up, it is meaningless for them to go to relatives, it is more comfortable to stay in the city, and it may not be convenient to return home.

Many people used to like to go back to their rural hometown for the New Year, thinking about being lively, but now the reality is: there are great expectations in their hearts, but they are also disappointed. originally wanted to meet Fa Xiao and classmates and have a good greeting, but in the end, it was just a "Happy New Year" and passed by; I wanted to have a good heart-to-heart talk with my relatives who were related by blood, but I spent time on the mahjong table, and in the end I don't understand you, you don't understand me, come in a hurry, go in a hurry.

This is still a good situation, after all, everyone is still familiar with the world and takes care of each other's faces.

When everyone is as poor, they are happier. Nowadays, when the class and income gap is getting wider and wider, the Chinese New Year party has become a group of people with different incomes, different concepts, different social statuses, and different positions, and they have to get together. ”

During the Chinese New Year, it is naturally a little embarrassing to visit relatives and friends, and people with different values and lifestyles get together.

When you go back to your hometown for the Spring Festival, you may find that everything in your hometown is good, the mountains and rivers are good, and the ingredients are natural and delicious, but people's hearts seem to be wrong. Many people like to compare and show off more and more, dislike the poor and love the rich, dislike your family for being poor, but they are afraid that your family will be rich.

It is in response to the old saying: "The poor are in the downtown and no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains."

So you will see a very hypocritical side: many relatives and friends, see people talk about people, and talk about ghosts; The knowledge is not high, but there are many eyes; Bad things spread thousands of miles, rumors spread everywhere, and so on. Perhaps, this is the real reason why more and more young people are reluctant to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

Our rural hometown is the place where we were born and raised, it is our roots, it is full of beautiful memories of our childhood, and our most beloved relatives live. However, with the development of society, the diversification of values, people's hearts are changing, and many good things are no longer human.

Nowadays, more and more young people like the outside world, like the life of the big city, they have been accustomed to the convenience brought to them by the city for a long time, so they do not like to go back to the countryside to live or celebrate the New Year, because the living conditions in the countryside are definitely more difficult than in the city.

1.After staying in the city for a long time, I am not used to the life in the countryside and do not want to go back.

2.Young people are busy with life, and many of them have to go to work until around 30 years old, and they can't go home for the New Year.

3.Some young people will be urged by their parents to marry and arrange blind dates when they go home, so they will be very annoyed and want to escape.

4.There are fewer and fewer people in the countryside, and there is no one to play with when they return to the village, so going back to the countryside for the New Year will make young people feel very bored.

There are many young people who do not like to go back to the countryside for the New Year because they are cold, and the rural New Year is not as lively as the city for the New Year, and the entertainment and cultural life is not rich, except for eating and drinking is gambling, so they are reluctant to go back for the New Year.

The city is richer in resources, entertainment, and life. Celebrating the New Year in a corner of the city, next to the park, and in the community is more lively than in the countryside. Especially after a long time in the city, you have been integrated into the city and enjoy the atmosphere of the city.

Many young people don't like to go back for the New Year, and another point is that their marriage will be questioned, especially young people who have not made money, when they buy a house and a car and fall in love, the seven aunts and eight aunts above will take the trouble to chase and intercept the bombardment, which is really unbearable.

Especially under the influence of the epidemic in recent years, for their own safety and not to bring trouble to the society, they are reluctant to move around, let alone travel long distances back to the countryside for the New Year.

In fact, the Chinese New Year is a kind of nostalgia and family affection, and there are still most young people who run in the direction of home with all odds and go home for the New Year to reunite with their relatives. It is recommended that young people go home for the New Year to be with their parents no matter what the reason, no matter how mixed it is.

As the most important traditional festival in China, the Spring Festival must not be said to be worth it. Spring Festival Gala, Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, firecrackers, Spring Festival gift boxes, etc., can be seen to be specially set up for the Spring Festival. But with the development of the times, we seem to gradually find that the taste of the New Year is getting weaker and weaker, and it has gradually become a very normal phenomenon for young people not to like to go back to the countryside for the New Year.

The most unacceptable sentence during the New Year.

The elderly at home asked the young people who were working outside the home if they wanted to go home this year, and many times they couldn't, choosing to work overtime in the class or live by themselves.

In fact, this kind of plot is not only in TV dramas, but also abounds in reality. If they choose to go home, they not only have to buy tickets home early, but also give red envelopes to the children, and give New Year's greetings and gifts to the older generation. In this way, we have to weigh the pros and cons and carefully consider whether it is worth going back to the village for the New Year.

2. Rural environment.

The environment and transportation in rural areas are not as convenient and developed as in cities, which is why many young people say that "it's too much trouble, so don't go back".

3. Avoid socializing.

When we celebrate the New Year, as young people, we will inevitably go to pay New Year's greetings, so when we meet familiar villagers and relatives of the seven aunts and eight aunts, we will inevitably have to carry out a series of negotiations. And young people are in the transition period of life, and a series of fingers and fingers are certain. "Do you have a partner?", "Have you found a job, how is the salary, is the treatment good?", and a series of questions are bombarded, if young people are really not as good as they are, it is better to work overtime and make more money than to go back to accept the "criticism".

The seven aunts and eight aunts bombarded indiscriminately.

But in general, the Spring Festival is a traditional festival, and it is very necessary for us young people to go home to accompany the elderly.

The road is far and home is close (**Excerpt from).

First: If you don't make any money, whether it is Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, or Wuhan, Zhengzhou and other new first-tier cities, the pressure of life is relatively large. When you work in the city, your monthly salary is fixed, and you basically don't have any money left except for daily rent and expenses.

And it also takes a lot of money to go home, and after you get home, you need a lot of gifts and clothes to buy, and you can't get down without a few thousand yuan. In addition, there is also the New Year's money, favor expenses, etc., which are increasing every year, and when I finally go home, I have to spend all the tens of thousands of dollars of savings for a year, and I am afraid to think about it, so I still don't go back. Second:

I can't stand the comparison Nowadays, the wind of comparison in the countryside is prevalent, and this thing is the most unbearable. Even if you don't have money, you will go home for the New Year with a gritted tooth and a stomp of your feet, and you can endure spending a lot of money, but when you encounter these people who love to compare, it will make you lose face. For example, when you say hello to the people in the village, the cigarettes that others take out are all Chinese or something, and you still take a box of cigarettes for more than ten yuan, isn't it a bit shameless.

In addition to this, I have to compare houses, jobs, and money with you, which seems to be talking and laughing on the surface, but in fact, the situation is already very embarrassing. You say, what's this homecoming New Year's picture? Third:

Nowadays, there are more and more young people who are not in a hurry to get married and have children, and they pay more attention to self-exploration, pursue personal values, and be faithful to their hearts, and do not care much about the eyes of the outside world. However, in the parents' generation, most parents do not think so. Therefore, for those young people who are not yet married, the most heard nagging during the Chinese New Year is to get married early, and for young couples who have not yet had children, the most heard is urging them to have the next generation as soon as possible.

Therefore, it is precisely this reason that many young people have a resistance to going home for the New Year, and they don't want to go home for the New Year because they don't want to hear these nagging and urging. Fourth: The New Year has lost its flavor With a generation of young people gradually becoming the mainstream of society, this group of only children themselves lacks the feeling of the former brothers and sisters, coupled with the concept of commodity economy is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, the indifference of human feelings, and the contact between relatives is becoming less and less.