What are the taboos when communicating with children?

When communicating with children, many parents do not know what the taboo is. Today, I will talk to you carefully about what it is best not to say when we communicate with our children.

We need to know that every child is unique, and every child has their own strengths. If we always compare our own children with other people's children, it will also lead to the children being very unhappy, and it will make the children feel that their parents do not like them, which will also lead to a very bad relationship between two people. If parents often compare boys with others, children may also compare themselves with their parents, and may feel that their parents are not good to them.

Some parents will always instill in their children the idea that our family is very poor when their children ask for things from their parents, so that the children are very inferior. If the child wants something better and something that must be purchased, then as parents, we should not choose to refuse, nor should we always deny the child. We should buy something for our child, and if we say that we buy something boring, something that we don't particularly need, then we can tell our child that there is no need to buy it.

If you think it's really useful, your parents can buy it for you, but you have to know that you already have one of these things. Then at this time, the child will be able to develop a good habit of thrift, parents should not come up and say that our family is poor, can't afford it, etc.

There are many precautions in educating children, and when we communicate with children, we should not deny children, do not instill a poor mind, and do not always reject children. Otherwise, it will also hurt the child, and it is indeed very difficult to raise a child, but there are many things that are not easy.

The taboo is not to yell at the child, not to be too hasty, not to say things that hurt the child too much, and not to scold the child too often. You can't spoil your children all the time.

Don't talk loudly, be irritable, get angry, be noisy, or swear with your child.

Taboos include disrespecting children, feeling that children don't understand anything, insulting children, beating and scolding children, and making jokes about children.

Don't say why are you so stupid, why are you so stupid, I don't have any hope for you, I'm so disappointed in you, you look at other people's children.

We often say that there are no children in the world who are not taught well, only parents who do not know how to communicate. Through good parent-child communication, it is the goal of all parents to help their babies develop self-confidence, emotional intelligence, expressiveness, thinking ability and other multi-dimensional abilities as soon as possible. Of course, many parents are still plagued by poor parent-child communication, and always feel that they and their children are very open-minded, and there is little communication between them, and there is no heart-to-heart collision with each other.

Children are indeed different from adults. They have a hard time understanding abstract things. So, if we are used to asking very broadly, children may behave like they don't know what to do.

Sometimes we wonder how the kids are doing at school. We can ask more questions with simple and clear answers, grasp the details and ask them, so that parents can judge for themselves how their children's day is. When we want to ask a child a question, we want to know not only what the child is in, but also the environment he is in and how the people around him behave.

This is the time to ask "how are others?" For example, who eats the slowest in the class, who is often criticized, who writes homework well, and so on. Through this little question of "starting with others", we can know how the child is positioned in the environment and how he perceives others from his own perspective.

In my opinion, this is how we live) so that when we fully understand the child's behavior, we can substitute the situation at that time and avoid being completely different from what we imagine and the environment in which the child finds himself at that time. After understanding their environment, the children will naturally feel that Mom and Dad understand me, and the parent-child communication will be smoother in the future.

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Don't be a pair of prepared in a way, that is, parents ask their children, this kind of boring question children will not be willing, don't keep silent, that is, the child comes back from school, and tells you that the school is happy, parents are either playing with mobile phones or keeping the foundation silent, occasionally fighting for a roll or two, so that the child's words will become less and less.

When communicating with children, do not impose your thoughts on your children, but also pay attention to your children's mental activities, and at the same time should adjust your own state of high level.

When communicating, don't use the tone of command and accusation to communicate with the child, you must pay attention to the way and method of communication, you also need to pay attention to the tone of communication, don't compare your own children with other people's children, don't give too much pressure to the child if you don't accompany the pants, don't use the way of scolding to educate the child.

Avoid sarcasm and ridicule as you speak, even if others make mistakes or make mistakes. Ridicule will always hurt your self-esteem, especially in crowded situations, don't be half-hearted with people outside of the conversation. When you say bad things about others, you will also give them a reminder.

I can't tell you you're going to say bad things about him behind his back, and your relationships shouldn't be so good that to ***. It is also important not to take other people's physical defects as a joke, it is simply insulting to someone's personality. Don't be indifferent to your words.

Since you can directly express your dissenting opinions, overtones and compliments will only make people think that you are hypocritical. Not thoroughly. Incompleteness refers to the fact that the respondent narrows down the scope of the question or only covers a certain part of the question.

Sometimes the other party asks questions, and all of them are not good for us. Not right away. For some questions, you don't have to be right away.

Especially when it comes to topics that may reveal our intentions and purposes, we need to be more careful. I don't care what my heart thinks.

When most parents say something to their child, Kiga doesn't pay attention to the child's feelings and thoughts. Even if the child has his own ideas, the parents will interfere in the child's own affairs and hope that the child will develop according to the parents' wishes. It seems that only the things of adults are the most important.

In life, parents always feel that their children's affairs are not important. When a child asks for help from a parent, the parent does not pay attention to the child and does not comfort the child. Sometimes they will even laugh and say that it doesn't matter what's wrong with this little thing.

This will make the child feel that he is not important at all, and who would have the desire to communicate like this.

I am asked to do all kinds of things, and I can't do it myself, which is the most common state in daily life. Parents ask their children to do this and that every day, and as role models for parents and children, they can't do these things. Over time, the child will become resistant.

I don't have the patience to listen to my real thoughts, many children will feel that there is no opportunity to communicate with their parents at all, parents will always feel that their children's ideas and opinions are ridiculous, and they will not listen to their thoughts and opinions on some things.

1.Can't communicate some of the things that children in this age range can't hear, 2Some of the more difficult things, 3

Things that cause the destruction of children's three views, 4Create a good environment for the children, 5Don't ask questions about emotions and communicate with your child.

Pay attention to the tone, and don't be irritable, but also should be patient, to be good at communicating with the child, and to grasp the child's psychology, not to lose your temper.

When communicating with children, don't always force children to agree with their own views, don't always beat and scold children, respect children, and then communicate with children should listen to what children's needs are, know what children's inner thoughts are, don't always laugh at some of the children's ideas, because children and adults are different, so some children want to laugh at the rent law is also very naïve.

Don't deny your child completely, don't attack your child with insulting language, etc. Because this will make the child have an inferiority complex, and the parent-child relationship will not be good.

Communicate with your child on an equal footing, be patient with your child, and encourage your child to speak up. It is forbidden to speak to the child in a commanding manner, not to force the child to do things he does not like, and not to discourage the child's self-confidence. In the process of educating our children, we must choose the right way, communicate with the child on an equal footing, and do not give the child any burden, so that it is easy for the child to be brave enough to speak his mind and be willing to open his heart to his parents.

1. Communicate with your child on an equal footing.

Children are also an independent individual, but also need our respect, we should communicate with children on an equal footing, can not order children because they are elders, force children to do things they don't like, when we respect children, they will be willing to make friends with their parents, tell their true thoughts to their parents, and we can be more concerned about children's lives.

2. Be patient with your child.

Children are constantly growing, they are at different ages, will be exposed to different education, these education are making them slowly better, we must not be too anxious when communicating with children, be patient with children, listen carefully to children's thoughts, and then answer the questions raised by children, and at the same time enhance the relationship with children, we should be patient with children, let them grow up slowly.

3. Encourage your child to speak up.

In the process of communicating with children, children may not dare to say their true thoughts to their parents because they are shy or afraid of their parents, so we should communicate with children with an equal attitude, encourage children to say their true thoughts, provide assistance to children, and extend a hand to children when they need help.

When communicating correctly with children, if you want your child to listen to your own words, you must enter the child's world, and adults put down their tall bodies and squat down, and sit on an equal footing with the child, so that they can have the same vision as the child and communicate well. Adults should learn to listen, don't talk about it yourself, listen to what kind of thoughts and opinions children have when communicating with children, and whether they have their own goals for life and learning.

Be sure to communicate with your child in a timely manner, and you should pay attention to the ways and means of communication, don't hit your child's self-confidence when communicating, and don't insult your child, don't compare your child with other children, and you should also respect your child when communicating, don't hurt your child's self-esteem.

First of all, it is necessary to be at the same level, and do not give the child a feeling of being overbearing, we must learn to listen to the child's thoughts, and it is necessary to strengthen communication with the child, the attitude should not be too tough, and the communication must be calm, do not get angry.

You should communicate with your child from an equal point of view, and don't have some extreme emotions. When communicating, you must not yell, and listen to some suggestions from your child, and do not blindly think that you are right.

Introduction: Parents are the first teachers of children, and any behavior of parents will be imitated by children, so in the process of communicating with children or in the process of interacting with family members, we must pay attention to our words and deeds, and play a good role model for children. Today, let's learn about what taboos not to encounter when communicating with children.

Some parents will be condescending when communicating with their children, feeling that they are parents and their children must listen to themselves, so what is the meaning of your communication? You might as well directly enforce the request or give the answer directly and don't communicate with Huiyuan's child, which makes both of you very unhappy, you are a parent, he is a child, you are all independent individuals, don't feel that who is inferior to whom. And such a state will make children especially dislike to communicate with their parents, and they are reluctant to talk about their own affairs, and later you will find that the distance between you is getting farther and farther away, and the parents of the child's growth have some unknowns.

Secondly, don't scare the child when communicating with the child, feel that if you don't go down, the child will not listen to the parents, then your communication is meaningless, although the child's language comprehension ability is limited, but for what the parents say, the child will still believe in Duan Bifang, which will only cause the child to lack a sense of security, and will be very afraid. Talk to your child from a friend's point of view, or from your child's point of view, and don't be silent all the time when communicating. In this way, the child will lose the desire to communicate, and will become particularly silent in the future, parents must hold the fiber to guide the child to express, and to respond in a timely manner, understand the needs of the child, let them say their thoughts and confusion, under the guidance of parents to solve these confusion, so that the child can grow up healthily.