How can I communicate with a rebellious child?

I'm just a rebellious child, I know in my heart everything I do, but I just can't control my heart, my mother cried many times for me, I wanted to be better for a man, I wanted to study hard, but he left me, I have no confidence in everything, these days the mood is also in a trance, I used to go out on weekends and Sundays, but since I met him, I haven't been with those friends again, and during that time I like to spend money lavishly, every child around me is like this, so I learned to do it, In fact, sometimes adults can understand children from the perspective of children, every child will go through such a rebellious period will not always be like this, time and age will always understand, now you are at most to persuade not to forcibly stop will only make the child more disgusted and even have the idea of running away from home, just like a dog is anxious and jumps over the wall, think about it from a good angle, every adult is a child, why don't you understand and understand the child.

1. Be fully respectful and do not deprive children of the opportunity to make choices. Parents should not make any "good for their children" decisions on behalf of their children, but should communicate with their children to inform them of the pros and cons of things, actively guide their children to make the right choices, and try to let their children and parents be in an equal communication relationship.

2. Tolerate with love and create a good family atmosphere. A family atmosphere has a huge impact on the mentality of a rebellious child, and the parents' emotions, words and deeds will affect the child's body and mind all the time. Pay attention to your words and deeds, and avoid condescending words and attitudes.

Parents and children should have a sense of commitment to each other, and it will be more harmonious to grasp the family atmosphere.

3. As a parent, you must know how to control your emotions. Parents try to be emotionally stable when dealing with their children's affairs, and do not blame their children when they are excited, which exacerbates conflicts. The mentality of children in the rebellious period is bipolar, easy to be impulsive and low, parents should know how to control their emotions, and do not vent all their emotions to their children.

4. With the help of external positive behavioral forces. You can appropriately take your child to participate in some positive behavior activities, so that children can feel positive behaviors psychologically, so that children can develop better psychological positive behavior habits.

Parents are prone to misunderstandings in educating their children in the rebellious period.

Hit the child often. When children talk back to their parents, most parents will suppress their children's behavior. Worried that if they are not controlled, this kind of rebellious psychology of the child will become more serious, and they will often force the child to obey through the behavior of beating and scolding.

The heart is to guide the child in this way and avoid the child going further and further down the right path. But what parents don't know is that it is often this kind of behavior that causes children to have some extreme behaviors. In the past, I was also anxious to control my children, and I relied on beating and scolding, which was basically in vain, and made the children even more disgusted.

It wasn't until I took a parent-child course recommended by a friend that I finally knew how to get along with my child correctly, and my child was no longer as antagonistic and disobedient as before, and now my relationship with my child is more like a friend!

No discipline of the child. Some parents still can't stop their children's rebellious psychology after preaching to their children, so they lose confidence in their children, so they begin not to discipline their children, and as the children develop freely. Children at this stage are very easy to be taken in, coupled with the fact that their parents do not restrain them, resulting in a wrong idea in the child's heart, thinking that the parents do not love themselves, which will make the child's rebellious psychology more serious, and eventually cause unnecessary impact.

Why children are rebellious.

As children grow up, they will become more and more self-conscious, and they will be dissatisfied with their parents' control over them. They are anxious to prove their independent existence, and when they do not get this recognition from the outside world, they will develop a rebellious mentality, and try to prove that they are already "adults" through all kinds of outrageous behaviors.

In this case, I think the best thing to do is to communicate openly with your child. As angry as you may be, try to be calm and rational and understand that your child may not be hiding it from you. They may have made this decision for a variety of reasons, such as stress, influence, or misunderstandings.

First, you can ask your child why they are hiding from you and listen to their thoughts and feelings. You can then explain your feelings and concerns and help them understand why you want them to communicate with you before making such a decision. You can also talk about the long-term consequences of tattoos, including health and personal image considerations.

At the same time, you can also consider working with your child to find a solution. For example, you can help them find ways to express themselves that are more suitable for them, or provide him with other options, such as participating in other activities with their friends.

During communication, it is important to respect your child's feelings and opinions, and to remember that they are growing and learning and are not intentionally making bad decisions. You can try to build trust with them and help them make informed decisions.

In conclusion, the key to solving this problem is to build communication and trust, and to understand the child's feelings and needs. If you are able to establish a healthy line of communication with your child, then you have the opportunity to help them grow and learn, and be able to cope with the challenges ahead.