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Passed away at the age of 80**, that's itJoy and mourningA 90-year-old grandmother passed away on her birthday, and it is regrettable that her children and grandchildren ordered her birthday cake.
Before it could be delivered, the people had already left, and it could be seen that the scene was very serious, and there was a multi-layered cake on the table, which showed that everyone attached great importance to the matter.
First of all, we can often hear the word "happy funeral", and many people may not understand why the word "happy" should be added when the death of the old man is a funeral? In fact, this is mainly because the old man is highly respected, full of children and grandchildren, the family is prosperous, and he is relatively old when he dies, and he does not feel pain when he dies, which is also something that most people want to see. Normally, the joy and mourning not only will not wear linen and filial piety, but will also make a joyful appearance, and even the neighbors will cast envious eyes.
And there is also a definition of joy and mourning.
Secondly, not all elderly people who die can be called happy and mourned. The so-called happiness actually refers to the full return of longevity, and the three conditions of full life, full happiness, and full end must be met, all of which are indispensable. And the old man is obviously satisfied, he has enjoyed the joy of family when he is alive, and his children and grandchildren accompany him, which refers to Quanfu.
It is difficult to have a standard for the definition of full life, and many places believe that the elderly can be called full life when they are over 80 years old. As for the full end, it actually refers to a natural death or a good death, without being tormented by disease, and completing one's life with merit and merit.
In the end, although the death of the elderly is a painful thing, and the family members also feel sad and lonely, we might as well think about it the other way around, birth, old age, sickness and death itself is something that everyone must experience, and the old man can achieve the end of his life, which is already the best result. So instead of grieving, the family should happily send the old man on the road. The customs of each place in our country are different, and the standards for joy and mourning will be different, but basically there will be no mourning halls, mourning music, and so on.
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This is indeed a joy and mourning, this old man is 90 years old, he is very old, this age is already very high.
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There was a woman whose grandmother died on her 90th birthday, and the cake was left before anyone could deliver it. Netizens have said that this is a joy and mourning, the old man is a blessed man, and his children and grandchildren have arrived.
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This is indeed a happy funeral, I think this grandma is really a pity on this day, and his family is also very sad.
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The old man is happy and mourning, after all, the old man is very old, and his physical function is slowly declining, although this time the old man did not eat the cake that his children and grandchildren bought for him, but this kind of feeling also made many viewers very moved.
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He was the end of his life. The death of the old man on the day of his 90th birthday is the end of his life, after all, he is already 90 years old, this is a normal death, and it is the natural law of human beings. It is also a very happy thing for the old man to die on this day of his 90th birthday, on this day his family came to celebrate his birthday, all around him, the old man had seen his relatives before he died, and he left quietly.
The old man is because he is dying, damp, and there is no need to be overly sad, and when he encounters such a thing, his family can let the old man go with peace of mind. This kind of interesting story is a person who many people can't ask for, birth, old age, sickness and death are unchangeable laws, people inherently choose the most comfortable way to die once they die, and it is rare not to experience pain and not be tortured by illness. The old man is 90 years old, and many organs in his body have begun to fail, and his family should be mentally prepared that he may leave this world at any time.
This 90-year-old man chose to die at the age of 90, it can be regarded as a complete life, on this day the descendants have returned, originally wanted to spend a birthday with him, but it became the last goodbye, although the children and grandchildren feel very sad in their hearts, but the old man should feel extremely satisfied, there are so many people to send him, to see him for the last time, this is his happiest and happiest thing. The old man's greatest wish is not to increase the burden on his children, he thinks that the happiness of his children is the best reward for him, and finally the old man passed away quietly, which makes people sad and feels lucky for him.
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He is dying, after all, he is 90 years old, and his body functions are gradually declining, probably because all his organs have lost their vitality and reached the limit of life, so he passed away.
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A girl in southwest Qianxi, Guizhou Province shared that her grandmother died on her 90th birthday, and the last cake left before she could eat a bite. The old man died on the day of his 90th birthday, and his family gathered around the cake to grieve and mourn, why did he die?
1. Event content
In the picture, the cake is placed on the dining table, with 7 layers, and the word "longevity" is written on it, which looks very atmospheric and beautiful. People gathered in front of this big cake, with mixed tastes and solemn expressions. The granddaughter said
Grandma's cake didn't have time to take a bite, and she still wanted to go home early to accompany her, but she didn't expect to receive the news of her grandmother's death on the way.
2. Why did he die?
It is estimated that he is old, and he died naturally at the age of 90 after all, but how sad the family must be to die on his birthday. In the face of the woman's sadness and regret, netizens said that this is a joy and sorrow, when you are older, dying away without illness or disaster is the greatest blessing for the elderly, not to mention that at the age of 90, leaving in such a way, the children and relatives are by your side, this is the blessing of the previous life! Grandma went all the way.
3. Companionship is always the most important
In fact, the old man in the incident was really happy, and the family loved her so much. You know, no one is an island. Whether it is family, love, friendship or other long-distance social relationships such as colleagues, acquaintances, and customers, it takes money, energy, and time to maintain.
But many people often ignore that there is also a "companionship" that is also very important. Companionship has become scarce and a luxury in today's fast-paced society, so many people feel lonely. Not everyone loves loneliness, most people are afraid of loneliness.
But no matter whether you can be alone or not, no one in normal people will refuse high-quality companionship.
Postscript: So for me, as long as I am old, there is no illness or disaster, and I will leave the world naturally, which is the greatest blessing, I think I will not celebrate my birthday when I am old, and cherish every day as the best day.
The age of 90 is called "the year of mackerel", and it can also be called "the year of old age". The mackerel in the year of mackerel originally refers to mackerel. Because the folds on the back of the elderly resemble the markings of mackerel, it is extended to mean "long-lived old man". >>>More
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