What should I do if my boyfriend doesn t have a good job and says he wants to break up with me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My boyfriend doesn't say he wants to break up with you because of his work, I think your boyfriend may feel that his financial ability is limited, so in order not to bring you hardship, so he wants to break up with you, I think you should talk to your boyfriend. To understand his thoughts. Communicate with him more so that I think you can have a better future.

    So you talk to him about his heart and see what kind of idea he has, so that the problem can have a targeted breakthrough and be solved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If your boyfriend breaks up at work, you can only adjust this situation by yourself. Because you can't help him, and you can only adjust your mentality by yourself, the two of them may continue. Therefore, many problems cannot be solved by oneself, and those that cannot be solved can only be viewed correctly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your boyfriend's work is not going well, it may be because he is not working well, he feels that his feelings have affected his work, or he may have lost his self-confidence in front of you, if he wants to break up with you, you can temporarily separate the two of you for a while, and then be willing to be separated when he works well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    At this time, you can face your boyfriend rationally, not really want to break up, but because you are in an unhappy mood, communicate more with your boyfriend, and ask your boyfriend to talk about the problems you encounter at work, and you can face and solve them together, so that it is conducive to the relationship and not break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At this time, you can separate from your boyfriend for a while, and let your boyfriend do a self-adjustment and self-reflection.

    If he really loves you, then he will definitely take the initiative to come to you when he calms down, so you just have to be patient and get the answer you want.

    If he still wants to break up with you after he calms down, then it is recommended that you let go.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If your boyfriend wants to break up with you because of a bad job, then you simply agree to his breakup. Personally, I think that your boyfriend can't use you as a person to vent to. You can't break up with you because your work is not going well.

    Because if you don't have a good job, you have to break up, so the relationship between you is too cheap.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, you can't break up in such a situation. You'll just tell your boyfriend that a breakup is impossible. Then you have to comfort and comfort your boyfriend, who is now at a low point and needs your comfort and encouragement the most.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a boyfriend broke up with him as soon as possible, forget it, right? He doesn't work well, he still has to get angry, he has no ability and is angry with his girlfriend, what kind of person is this? In the future, if you get married, work outside the home is not going well, and you will be beaten and scolded when you come to the house, how will you live?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This proves that she is very irresponsible, and if she says that the work is not going well and she needs to trouble you, it proves that this is very disgusting, and you don't need to say that you are together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If your boyfriend's work is not going well, he will inevitably be depressed, so what he needs at this time is companionship, thoughtfulness, and care, so you should be by his side when he is in trouble, and not break up with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My boyfriend is not working well now, and when he comes back, he says that he wants to break up with you, I think he may also be under too much pressure outside, just casually, you should also comfort him, after all, two people have feelings, how can they say that they will break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your boyfriend wants to break up with you because of a little bit of unhappiness or unhappiness at work, then it is recommended that you really need to consider this relationship with him, because such a man is too unreliable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then it depends on whether you can accept such an emotional boyfriend, and push it on your girlfriend when everything happens, can you accept him like this?

    If you can accept it like this, and can tolerate him like this, then talk to him well.

    If you can't accept such a boyfriend, break up as soon as possible and stop the loss in time, which is good for both of you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What happens when humans lose their associations? "This classic advertising slogan accompanied Lenovo, an IT giant, to embark on a glorious road. Indeed, association and imagination are very important.

    There is no hope for a nation that lacks imagination, and a person who is not good at imagination is also lacking in vitality. "Students, please close your eyes, and when you open your eyes, observe carefully.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's very irresponsible to yourself and you, one way of saying that I broke up with you if my work didn't go well, what should I do for other difficulties I encountered, and it was right to break up with you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Breaking up with you if you don't go well at work is one thing, maybe your lack of care about him is also the reason why he wants to break up with you, you need to reflect on whether you usually support him and understand him, if you don't do enough, you can correct it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You need to explain this situation to him, and then comfort him, after all, he is fighting for the future of the two of you, so since you have all walked so far hand in hand, I also hope that you can continue to walk, come on!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It can only be said that your boyfriend is too inferior, too sensitive, and not going well at work will make you look down on him, at this time you should give him more encouragement, more support, and more warmth.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My boyfriend didn't work well, so he said that he wanted me to break up with you, proving that this boyfriend doesn't love you, and when he encounters problems in life, he always takes your feelings as the price.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Such a man's ability to resist pressure is too weak, the word breakup can't be said casually, since he doesn't care about each other's feelings, then there is nothing to be nostalgic about.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't have a good job and says he wants to break up with me? I think such a boyfriend doesn't have much self-confidence, he doesn't work well, he vents with his girlfriend, such a man is not enough, and a man has no ability.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The boyfriend's life is too stressful, the main economic pressure is too great, and it may be that you don't understand how to pay, he doesn't want to pay for you anymore, he doesn't want to bear anything.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If the work is not going well, he said that he was going to break up, but he was under too much pressure, so you should talk to him well, help him resolutely put pressure on him, and believe that he still likes you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Every time my boyfriend doesn't go well at work, he will mention breaking up, and he should be in a bad mood, so he will mention breaking up, and this situation is not necessary.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up, if you don't have a good job, you will break up, and if you get married, if you don't have a good job, it's hard to get a divorce, and my ex just doesn't want to pay attention to me if he doesn't work well.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Sisters should be divided, don't be with this kind of man, he will only keep consuming you, you have to work hard with your positive person.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    With a boyfriend like this, I don't think there is any need for you to continue to get along, because he has no responsibility for such a man, and if there are some problems, he will break up, what is the point of getting along with such a man?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't have a good job, you have to break up with me, what should I do? How can there be a job that does not go well. What does it matter if you break up or not, such a man means that he has no responsibility, and he is angry with you, just break up like this, don't be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    My boyfriend is not going well at work and says that he wants to break up with me, and it is precisely because of this situation that he should accompany his boyfriend through the difficult period.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It is helpful to let your boyfriend rest more, and you can also talk more happy and relaxed topics to your boyfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your boyfriend feels that there is no hope, no future, he doesn't want to drag you down, hurt you, and wants to break up with you, so that he can not drag you down, not hurt you, and feel better in his heart, as a girlfriend, don't do what he says, still stand by his side, support him, encourage him, comfort her, let him come out of the huge pressure, return to normal work and life, experience these boyfriends will love you more, and the relationship between the two of you will be stronger

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, I think if you love him to encourage him. Some boys will complain in their hearts that their girlfriends are not able to help them when they encounter financial difficulties. If your boyfriend doesn't want you to suffer just because of financial pressure, then you can tell him that you don't mind and that you will wait for him.

    Then the boyfriend must be confident.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have to make it clear whether he really wants to break up because of work or if he wants to break up and find a reason. If it's the former, you can comfort him, understand him, support him, and if it's the latter, then break up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Is the pressure on your boyfriend due to financial pressure?

    Many lovers can only break up when they talk about buying a house, buying a car, getting married, and starting a family, because there is too much pressure, which squeezes the already unstable relationship to death.

    If my girlfriend routinely asks to buy a car and a house regardless of my family's actual situation, then I can only break up with her.

    Money is the best litmus test, is it to ask for people or money? Realistic women often choose to ask for money, so they will naturally lose each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think it's all an excuse for your boyfriend to say that he is stressed at work, either he has something he likes outside, or he just doesn't like you anymore, and I think you should break up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's understandable that the pressure at work is high, but there is no conflict between breaking up with your girlfriend, and it's not that your girlfriend dislikes you for not having time to accompany her and mentions the breakup first, your girlfriend is trying her best to redeem it, for such a boyfriend, persuade you to let go, it's rare for him to meet a reasonable object like you, let him go!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    1.You can ask him how to do it first, which can reduce his work pressure.

    2.What can I do to help him.

    4.Communicate well with him Be willing to give him time and space, adjust your state, and you can not break up 5If he still insists on breaking up, then the pressure is just an excuse for the breakup, and the mutual may not be suitable or he has other ideas.

    6.In short, try to redeem it, and it is good to have a clear conscience.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    My boyfriend is under a lot of pressure at work, and he broke up with me directly, he said that he is not in the mood to fall in love, which is also the living situation of many young people now, if you want to redeem it, give your sincere feelings, and make him feel that you can accompany him all the way out of the predicament.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    My boyfriend is under pressure at work, and he broke up with me, he said that he was not in the mood to fall in love, how to get it back? First of all, you have to be nice to him. Enlighten him.

    Let him tell you about the difficulties in his work. You're going to help him analyze. I enlightened him in a targeted manner.

    Just he relieved the pressure. I won't be so annoyed. You will be reconciled.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    All you need to do now is to accompany him like a friend, study with him, try to get better together, and then slowly create common interests and the same topics. In fact, it's not difficult, it's just that you need to spend a lot of energy to do this, maybe you won't get a return, this kind of problem is unacceptable to many people, since you choose to redeem him, you don't have to be afraid of failure at this time.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    My boyfriend is under pressure at work and says that he will break up directly, so they will be separated for a while and calm down. Wait for him to recover and talk to him again, if you still want to break up, there is no room for saving.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You can tell him more humorous jokes to make him happy, make him relax, and slowly he will get better.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You can tell him that you are willing to wait for him, and now that the work is stressful, you will not bother him, and then be more understanding, and I think it will be redeemed.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you redeem it, you can only say that you will accompany him. Accompany him through this stressful time at work. Give it a while longer. Calm down and think about whether to break up.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    My friend was under pressure at work and directly proposed to break up with me, he said that he was not in the mood for love, how to redeem it? Then he is under a lot of pressure, you must help him and comfort him, so he will be in a good mood, you have to communicate with him, you have to adjust his mood with him, so he will not break up with you, that's all a lie.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If I were you, I would tell him that if I can't be with you when you're at your lowest, then when you make a comeback, what qualifications do I have to be by your side?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I've also had a situation like you, we broke up, it's not that I have someone else psychologically (I'm a man) at the beginning I'm similar to you, it's her chasing me, but I'm very good to her, and later, for various reasons, the most important thing is that we don't get along, and she thinks differently Listen to me when I'm there I can make too many jokes when I'm not there (shameful thing) I begged her to let me go Feelings are many ways I can't comment on what you can summarize in just a few sentences The personalities of 2 people are too much It's best if you can be calm Use the appropriate method to let him listen to you first At that time, the final showdown, I didn't pick her up**. But sometimes the power of text messages is great. Reminiscing about your past, everyone will see each other softly.

    And then there was a showdown, and I couldn't get back together even if I met at that time, so I won't look for it now, and I'll wait for God to give me fate.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then you give your boyfriend a certain amount of time to calm down. But don't promise to break up with him.

    Because he has been under a lot of pressure at work recently, he is not in a very good mood, so what he says and makes at this time is more impulsive. Only when you are separated and calm down for a while before making a decision will you not regret it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you are a very good man, you can redeem it, encourage him, support him, tell her that she is the best, and give him confidence first.

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