My girlfriend didn t go well in graduate school and wants to break up with me, what should I do?

With all due respect, she didn't take your feelings very seriously at all.

Although feelings are only a part of life, we should not spend all our time and energy on children's affection, but learning is only a part of life, and the two need to coordinate with each other to find a balanced state.

If you say that because you didn't get into the graduate school entrance examination, you are in a bad mood and don't have the heart to fall in love, then what does she think of you? A pastime in your spare time?

To put it mildly, wouldn't she be able to be admitted to graduate school if she didn't fall in love? To put it another ugly way, even if she is admitted to graduate school, won't there be more worrying things in her future life than the graduate school entrance examination?

Could it be that after surviving this graduate school entrance examination, will you break up next time because of something else? Is this the right attitude towards feelings?

Like is like, and you should never be together because of loneliness, emptiness, and coldness. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and you shouldn't make excuses for other external reasons.

In other words, she may really not like you that much. It's just that I took advantage of this juncture to find an excuse to break up with you.

At this time, even if you still have feelings for her and still like her, I'm afraid you can't get it back, right? She didn't face up to your feelings from the beginning and didn't give you enough respect.

I've always embraced the idea that all breakups make way for true love. Don't get too hung up, either. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower? Maybe fate will make you miss her, and you will meet a better half.

All the turning points of experience are just an opportunity for life to give you a new beginning. I hope you can seize this opportunity to find the true love that truly belongs to you.

I'm in my senior year now, and there are a lot of people around me who are preparing for graduate school, and they are really emotionally unstable every day, and the pressure of first-year students and their busy study tasks make them almost break down.

If your girlfriend is preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, or the road to the graduate school entrance examination, and the result is not smooth, I hope you can understand his feelings and accompany him more. At present, if he wants to break up with you, he must be angry for a while, or he has no way to vent his unhappiness but to you.

At this time, if he breaks up with you, you should not be too excited to refute her, or want to theorize, which will make him more energetic, and you will not get any good results. What you have to do is to talk to him carefully, tell him that you are emotionally unstable now, let's not talk about this issue first, you must come to me at any time if you need anything, I am still your boyfriend, and my shoulder will always be leaning on you.

No girl will speak ill of such warm words and care, so you still have to try to tell her that you can give her enough security.

Even if the graduate school entrance examination does not go well and it is difficult to find a job, you are willing to keep him and accompany him.

If both of you are in a better mood, you can take him to relax a little, go to the places he wants to go, and help him relieve the huge pressure in his heart, which will also be good for your future path, and it will also be beneficial to his own physical and mental development.

There will always be stumbling times when men and women get along, if there is a little bit of breaking up, and the other party can't accommodate it, so they will be separated in a daze, then there won't be so many legendary and sincere love stories. There is no time when the tongue does not touch the teeth, and it is in the critical period of finding a job and going to graduate school, everyone's mood may not be so smooth, and understanding each other and understanding these little things will pass.

There may be two reasons why your girlfriend wants to break up with you, one is that she is not going well in the graduate school entrance examination, the pressure is too great, and she feels that she is with you and is not worthy, so she wants to bring it up with you.

The second situation may be that you two are together, and you affect him to go to graduate school, so you let him go to graduate school, and he has repeatedly gone wrong. In other words, all the faults for failing the test are attributed to you. <>

I don't know how you and your girlfriend are on a good relationship.

If the relationship between the two of you is very good, then he feels that he has repeatedly failed to be admitted to graduate school, and he feels that he is under a lot of pressure with you, and he is not worthy of you.

Then at this time, you should make your girlfriend feel that there is not much pressure to be with you, because, if you are admitted or not admitted to graduate school, you will not dislike her, if he is willing to continue to take the exam, then you will be him, a solid backing, and you will always encourage him and help him in the back.

That way, your girlfriend's heart won't be too stressful.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for two people to meet, know each other, and fall in love, a fate that not everyone will have, so since they have met, then cherish it well, encourage your girlfriend a lot, let him be admitted to graduate school as soon as possible, and you should also achieve positive results as soon as possible.

If it's your girlfriend, I don't usually like you very much, and the relationship with you is not good.

Then it is possible that he is trying to dump you on the pretext that he will not be admitted to graduate school this time.

At this time, there is no need for you to be nostalgic for this relationship, because it is not suitable for the two of you to be together at all. It's better to end the inappropriate relationship as soon as possible, otherwise both of them will be very painful.

We all know that life is based on comfort, if two people are very uncomfortable together, then the future will definitely not be good.

First of all, the graduate school entrance examination is not child's play. Some people are single and concentrate on the graduate school entrance examination, but they still can't pass the exam. What's more, you have to find time to spend with your girlfriend?

Secondly, how do you say you don't care? Is it because I don't talk to you every day, or do I don't talk to you at all? Is it that I go shopping with you less often, or do I don't go out with you at all?

Since you have chosen to go to graduate school, you must give up some things other than studying. It's normal to talk less and go shopping less, there is nothing right or wrong.

Maybe your boyfriend doesn't care about you as much as he used to, and you feel like there's a gap. This is also normal. But if your boyfriend is going to graduate school, as a girlfriend, you should also support his ideas and actions. You have to know how difficult it is to get into the graduate school entrance examination every year in the country.

A few suggestions: 1. You can also learn a little bit and enrich your life when your boyfriend doesn't have time to spend with you. The more you stay, the more you will feel that your boyfriend doesn't care about you, and if you continue like this, you will definitely quarrel or even break up.

So, find something else to divert your attention and don't rely too much on your boyfriend's company.

2. If you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, you have to have a break, you can make three chapters of the law, such as what time period every night you must put down your study and talk to you. Or you have to go to the movies once every two weeks. Other times, it's time to study, so that not only will you be with you, but your boyfriend will also combine work and rest.

3. He is going to graduate school, and he has the idea of working hard to create a better life for you. So, be more understanding, be more tolerant, and get through the difficulties together. Your relationship will be stronger.

When my boyfriend was in graduate school, I had a fight with him, thinking that he didn't care about me or anything, and clamored to break up. By the time I was admitted to graduate school, I studied and almost didn't care about anyone, so how could I have time to chat. I regret dying of it.

I felt that I was too bad a thing at the beginning, and I wanted to apologize to him but I haven't said it yet. So generally speaking, it should be true, be considerate of him, or you can take the exam with him.

I don't think it's a waste of time like going to play a game. The Graduate Record Exam is also a big deal. She should be fully supportive and communicate well first.

If it's really unreasonable, you really need to think about your relationships and relationships. After all, there are so many places to understand and support each other in the future.

I don't have time to accompany my girlfriend to quarrel with me when I am going to graduate school, so I can talk to the other party seriously, let the other party know the importance of the graduate school entrance examination, and strive to get the other party's understanding and support.

Learn to communicate and communicate more with your girlfriend, and make your thoughts clear to him, take the initiative to explain your academic pressure to your girlfriend, and spend more time with him during the break, so that he will understand you.

It would be much better for two people to open up and talk about each other's affairs, and if they could take a step back and understand each other, it would be much better.

I think you can give the other party a breakup fee, but you have to make it clear to the other party, you must take the initiative to break up and apologize to the other party.

I don't think you should break up with him, you can communicate with him, show that you want to focus on going to graduate school during this time, and reduce contact, instead of simply breaking up with him.

If you feel ashamed of her, then take the initiative to find her after the graduate school entrance examination, and make it clear to her what you thought at the time, I think women who are not so rigid will still be obsessed and will eventually be understood. Marriage is a major event for men and women, and don't forget love when you reap the success of your career. It's okay to have both fish and bear's paws, and I hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married.