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That's not a good sign. If you don't do it, it will become a mental illness.
You need to find something to increase your self-confidence.
Find something you're good at, or something you really enjoy doing. Try to make it the best it can be. At least do it better than many people around you. Let everyone else envy you and affirm you. Slowly faith will be there.
Destroy the cauldron and sink the boat to the place of death and come back to life.
These are all old sayings, and I always follow them when I do things that I don't have confidence in. Put yourself in front of the problem. If you can't allow yourself to escape, you will take the initiative to solve the problem.
Now, I would like to encourage you. Be bold and go to the appointment. Just go with the flow.
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It's okay to be ugly, as long as you're thick-skinned and can make the other person laugh, it's okay.
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Face it with confidence! Believe in yourself, not in the outer beauty, but in the inner beauty, go your own way, let others say go! Tomorrow it's better to dress up yourself and go confidently, maybe it won't be as you think, everything is possible!!
Well, it's not too early, I wish you success tomorrow!!
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It should be properly improved and improved- How to say it, The problem of appearance is sometimes really paid attention to when engaging in the object, blind date is the first impression, if you think you don't look good, don't be introverted, introverted, see the girl doesn't talk, the scene must be very embarrassing, have confidence.
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Hehe, a confident man is very good, my buddy is not handsome, his eyes are small, his face is big, but there are many people who like it, because he is confident, humorous, considerate, and can do things.
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The outer is not the inside. Besides. If the other person cares about this.
That means she won't live with you honestly for the rest of her life. Brother, there is always such a person who doesn't care about your appearance and falls in love with you with your appearance. There is always someone who wants to spend the rest of your life with you.
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Hehe, you say so, ugly and destined to be single?
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Looks determine whether they can be together! Reality dictates how long we can be together!
If people are still single at a certain age, they will naturally be a little anxious and want to find a partner, not only because of the urging of other people in society, but also because of the oppression of peers who are in love and married, and are afraid of being eliminated. So I will go on a blind date, meet a lot of people, and want to meet a suitable one.
I've been on a blind date several times recently, and most of the blind dates are too vulgar, too ugly, and too boring. I think it's strange that there are so many beautiful women on the street, on the subway, and in life, why do blind dates meet all very ugly people. I finally realized that blind dates have never been a place for handsome men and beautiful women to meet.
Excellent people can easily find a suitable partner in life, and they don't need to go on a blind date, and people with slightly better conditions will also end their singleness quickly in the blind date market. The more difficult it is to find a partner, the more blind dates there are, so most of the people encountered in blind dates are such people, so most of the people who meet in blind dates are not too satisfied. Blind dates are just a lot of people who don't have an advantage in the marriage market, compare the conditions with each other, and find someone who is similar to make do with marriage.
And the biggest disadvantage of blind date is that a person will be hit by too many failures on a blind date. As a result, his positioning has become lower, the standard of mate selection has become lower, and he is forced to choose a person who is not attractive to him at all, to understand, to fall in love, to get married, and to spend the rest of his life together.
When I was young, I liked to watch a lot of sensational love stories, and those love stories were either love at first sight, childhood sweethearts, or a hundred turns and thousands of turns, or liver and intestines. I love the tenderness and touching in those stories. When I was younger, I also liked and admired many people, and I was liked and loved.
I thought that the tenderness and beautiful feelings I had should be love, marriage, and the rest of my life.
Now that he is mature enough, and society has become realistic enough, although he still thinks that the touching love of his youth is beautiful, he no longer expects that kind of love. Just want to find a suitable person to live with. However, it does not mean that there should be no requirements for the future half of the other half.
The World's Greatest Father" says, "I used to think that the worst thing in the world was to die alone." Not really. The worst thing is to grow old with someone who makes you feel lonely. ”
Many of us have not yet made up our minds to live our lives like this.
Because the circle is narrow and the contact surface is too narrow, blind date is a very important way to know the opposite sex. So you may still get along a lot of relatives and still meet a lot of people until you meet someone you are satisfied with.
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This is related to your own mentality, don't feel that you don't look good, just feel that you are not worthy of others. Such an idea is wrong. You should be confident that you don't think you look good, that's because your own conditions are not good, but you can't stop dressing yourself up and improving your inside because your appearance is not good.
You have to read more and learn more things to make yourself better. That's how you'll meet better people.
You have to participate in more social activities and meet more excellent people, and you will slowly find that you are actually very good. Just because you don't think you're good-looking, others will think you're not good-looking. You should be confident, you have to believe that you are good-looking.
You have to have faith in yourself, you have to believe that you are charismatic.
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The boy is average-looking, and he can look at it well. No matter how good you look, you can't eat it as a meal, we don't rely on our appearance to eat. It's not a problem for a boy to be ugly, as long as he looks pleasing to the eye, he's not good to you.
Do you like him, do you have a heartfelt feeling for him? Others can only help you advise, and it is you who make the decisions.
As the saying goes: "Men are talented and women are good-looking, and it is not a problem for men to be ugly, it mainly depends on you, whether you can talk on a blind date, boys' words and deeds, everyone's cultivation, family education, and character ability are the most important." Nowadays, most family conditions are average, and we still have to rely on the joint efforts of husband and wife after we get married.
Boys are smart, capable, and brainy, and such boys can also make their families happy through their own hard work. The family conditions are good, if the boy is not doing his job and is lazy, I can't continue with him, let alone entrust him with my life.
I just met on a blind date, but I just have a preliminary understanding, as girls, we can't look at the ugliness of the boy and don't want to continue to get along, so denying a boy is not a good way. We understand that a person still has to continue to get along with him, and get along with him comprehensively and deeply, rather than betraying others to death just by being ugly. It's not fair to you to the boys.
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If the blind date is good, but it is particularly ugly, I think you can try to chat with him first, if the two get along, you can continue, if you don't get along, you can prepare for the next blind date.
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The body is honest, don't force yourself. Don't believe the nonsense that looks unimportant, it's not your parents who sleep with him at night. In fact, when you ask this question, you already have the answer in your subconscious, just to find more recognition.
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First of all, from the appearance of the dress, no matter what the final result of the blind date is, girls should show their respect for others, don't wear heavy makeup, light makeup is fine, just dress simple and generous, don't pay too much attention to it, and don't be too cumbersome.
When chatting, you can talk about some of your hobbies and the like, don't ask some heavy and too realistic topics, after all, you are looking for a person who is in love, don't be too aggressive, chat about some light topics, and you will be comfortable with each other.
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Blind date not only depends on the external material conditions, but also depends on the eye, if the light conditions are good, but you feel ugly and have no eyes, then don't delay others or wronged yourself.
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It depends on whether you care about his money, or his appearance, if you want to live a down-to-earth life with him, if his appearance is very ugly and ugly, then it doesn't matter, anyway, you just care about his money, but if you say that you care about her outside, and then scold him for not being very sensitive to money, then it is better to leave as soon as possible.
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Actually, these are secondary, you have to see how he treats you? If he can be nice to you and can make you feel the sweetness of love, then don't care about his appearance.
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You have to see how much you accept it, if it's the kind of thing that makes it uncomfortable to look at, it's better to change it, and refuse it tactfully.
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It's up to me, if I feel that the other party is good, I can go on, but if I really feel that the other party is ugly from the bottom of my heart, I am still very unhappy together, and I completely rely on my own ideas.
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Fish and bear's paw can not have both, a good look, the conditions are good but there has been no object, this is worth people's attention to think, now it depends on which side you value more, whether you want to live a relaxed life, or want to find a good-looking, in fact, people will get old, there is really no need to pay too much attention to appearance, or to look at the character.
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It depends on which aspect you value more, if you care more about material abundance, you can ignore his impulses, if you care about his appearance, then you can give up on him and continue to go on a blind date.
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I don't think your appearance is as important as your character, the main thing is to get along and see how he treats you, your looks will change over time, and no one can stay the same all the time.
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The conditions of the blind date are good, but they are particularly ugly, then it depends on what you are pursuing, whether you are pursuing the conditions of his family, or the appearance of this person, sometimes some people look at their appearance.
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I believe that the object is in good condition, but it is particularly ugly, what should I do? It's up to you, what about the person you say likes him? Or do you like his money? Just follow your heart.
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It depends on how you choose? If you choose to be materially rich and live a good life, then you can accept it, and if you choose to find what you like, then you have to continue to look for it.
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What's ugly, I think ordinary people are good-looking, and there aren't many who are too good-looking, if the family conditions are good enough for you to accept his ugliness.
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It depends on which aspect you value more, if you like the appearance then he doesn't meet the standard, if you want your partner to be financially better then he must be in the right place.
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I want to ask, do you talk about friends based on each other's looks and family conditions? Shouldn't we talk about feelings?
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The blind date is good, but it is very ugly, if you can accept it, then you can take her to plastic surgery, but you can't accept it, then you can find a better one.
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It depends on what you value and what you are inside.
If the external conditions are good, it is actually a good choice for two people to get along, but it still depends on whether they will pay attention to their appearance.
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This depends on your own situation, if you like his conditions, you don't care about his appearance.
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In fact, it's because it depends on the other party's character, if the character is good, it doesn't matter if it's ugly.
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If the blind date is unsuccessful, it must not be because you are ugly, but because your performance makes others think that you are rejecting others, and makes others think that you are difficult to approach, so people will retreat.
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The blind date is not successful not necessarily because it is ugly, it may really be that there is no fate, and I don't like it at first sight.
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There are many reasons for this. It doesn't have to be ugly. Maybe you don't have a lot to talk about. So. Emotional matters. It's weird. It takes a previous life. Causes. Only this fate is together in this life.
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Of course not, I think the blind date or the most important thing in reality is to look at the economic ability, or your own ability, if the ability is strong, even if the person is a little ugly, it doesn't matter, but if the other way around, if the person is very handsome, but the economic conditions or family conditions are not very good, the probability of success is not as good as the former.
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No, looks are just the first impression, the first blind date, if there is no subsequent development, it should be that the other party does not feel suitable for you, not that you are not good, just that he thinks you are not suitable, not because you are ugly.
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Most of the reasons why the blind date is unsuccessful are because of ugliness, or it may be because of a bad family background, and more importantly, whether the two people have a topic to chat about, and whether the personalities of the two people are compatible, otherwise the blind date will definitely not be successful.
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It means that you have no fate with them, maybe they think they have good conditions, but in fact, your conditions are also good, and they will not want to be with you. After all, you don't know much about it, but maybe you don't call after a meal, they still have a choice, maybe they have their own favorite type, although you are good, but if you are not the type they like, they don't want to get along anymore, it's not a problem with your appearance.
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It's not because you're ugly, it's that you don't have fate, you can see from your description that you're still good, at least height is an advantage, you have to have confidence in yourself, and you can't be negative and depressed. What's more, you're only 24 years old, how can no one pursue your good years!
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