Behind Lin Yongjian s loss of his beloved son, what are the unknown heartaches?

There will be a lot of painful things that happen in life, some are just flesh pain, such as injections, tattoos, or some surgery, these are also really painful, but there is still pain, it is better than the pain with these flesh and skin, that is, the pain in the heart, for the death of a loved one, it will make us feel sad, but the pain of white-haired people sending black-haired people, I think there should be fewer people who experience it, right?

But my country's first-class actor Li Yongjian has experienced this feeling of losing his beloved son, when Lin Yongjian mentioned the story of his lost beloved son in the show "Luyu has an appointment", for Lin Yongjian at that time, he had no money, and he was not very famous, because he needed to work hard to make money, so he often couldn't accompany his son, but once, when he and his wife performed on the stage, they waited for a bad news, that is, his child died, At that time, when they heard the bad news, they endured the pain until the end of the performance, because they must have the spirit of being a professional actor, and the moment he heard the bad news of his son, I think his heart hurt, which many of us can't understand.

At that moment, he said that he felt the unprecedented despair of life, but although the dead have left this world, the living people have to live well in this world, and then Lin Yongjian slowly came out of his grief, and his acting career began to get on the right track, and he also got many opportunities to perform on stage or TV, and gradually he also opened up his popularity.

In 2010, Lin Yongjian's second child Lin Dajun was born, after Lin Dajun grew up, Lin Yongjian also took him to participate in variety shows, we can see from variety shows that Lin Yongjian is also very strict with his children, probably because he has suffered a lot, and he doesn't want his children to follow in his footsteps, Lin Dajun is also a very good child, he is sensible, obedient, and understands his parents, and Lin Yongjian's career is also developing very well. Won many awards.

Lin Yongjian's previous son died of illness, and he always felt that because he failed to give his children a rich living environment, he blamed himself very much, and even suffered from depression. But now that he has come out, life will get better and better. Don't touch someone's wounds.

It was endless despair, the loss of his son, and the pain in his heart to endure the success of the show, which endured a lot of pressure.

Lin Yongjian said before participating in the show that he had no time to accompany his children, and he was still performing when the child died, even if he knew the news, he could only insist on finishing the show. After this incident, in fact, Lin Yongjian often took his youngest son with him and spent more time at home.

When Lin Yongjian's eldest son was born, the family conditions were not good, and the couple had a busy schedule due to work reasons and had no time to take care of the children. I didn't know the news of the child's death until just before a show, and it made people cry when I heard it.

Back then, because Lin Yongjian and his wife were working in other places, they often couldn't take care of their children, and when the children were gone, they couldn't go home in time for the performance, which was sad to think about.

After the birth of the eldest son, the family's economic conditions were not very good, and Lin Yongjian was also very busy with work, so the child accompanied Zhouzi to die of illness.

Lin Yongjian did not elaborate on the reason for the child's death, but said that the family's economic conditions were not very good at that time, and Lin Yongjian and his wife were often busy with work and had no time to take care of the children. At that time, before a sketch competition, they learned that the child was gone, and the couple still endured the pain to participate in the competition.