The deterioration of the relationship between husband and wife, the deterioration of the relationshi

Don't be too nice to him, he won't cherish such a cheap love, try to get angry and leave him for a while, see if he will keep you, if not, you leave him, it's not worth it to behave yourself for a lifetime for someone who doesn't love you.

I wanted to persuade you a few words, but after seeing the 2nd floor, I thought it was so exciting, so I had to give up! I hope you learn something from him.

Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, it is to save face for her in front of outsiders, it is the partner who can't fight back, the old man scolds and doesn't return the scolding, and it is the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is willing to give birth to him and is ten years younger than him, so he has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; If he dislikes the belt, he doesn't know people, and he has such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is a love letter read by a waiter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.

<> "The deterioration of the relationship between husband and wife began with these two words.

1. Neglect. The most terrible thing in marriage is neglect and neglect. The couple sat at the dining table and ate without talking; Sitting on the sofa and playing with their own mobile phones, there is no communication throughout the whole process; I don't care about each other, and I can't feel it even if I have a cold.

After entering the marriage, the companionship of day and night makes love enter the burnout period, so that the marriage has "three years of pain, five years of separation, and seven years of itching". Most people prefer to define marriage as "old husband and wife" and "left hand holding right hand".

In fact, this is just an excuse for "ignoring": ignoring the other party's expressions, ignoring the other party's actions, ignoring the other party's thoughts. People who really love you will be willing to talk nonsense with you, and they will cherish the bits and pieces of your payment and judgment.

Although marriage will eventually become dull, dullness does not mean slackness. There is no incurable wordlessness and indifference, only a heart that does not want to be valued.

2. Conquest. When two people live together, they will inevitably bump into each other, but don't always try to conquer each other when arguing. talk about who is right and hold accountable who is wrong; Discuss who hurt whom and who went too far.

These are all taboos. The love is deep, and the responsibility is keen. Not everything needs a cause, sometimes quarrels are because they care, and anger is because they love.

When two people quarrel, they should feel each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, rather than pushing each other away from themselves. Husbands and wives should be more respectful and tolerant. Husband and wife get along not to conquer the east wind over the west wind, but to run in with each other and reach a tacit understanding.

Only when there is a discussion between husband and wife can people feel that you care about her.

3. Accusations. There is a story about a couple who quarreled for four years over a pair of slippers. Every time the man came home, he couldn't find the slippers that charged him in the shoe cabinet at the door.

He had spoken to his wife countless times that he wanted to leave his slippers by the door, not in the bedroom. The wife didn't think so, it was just a pair of slippers, why bothered so much? It wasn't until her husband told her that when he came home, he couldn't find his slippers before entering Guangzhou, and he was like a guest who couldn't open the door, which made him feel lost.

After hearing this, the wife finally understood her husband's thoughts, and she decided to respect his advice. So, quarrels are not a bad thing sometimes, find each other's needs and solve them, and quarrels can become a lubricant for more harmony between couples. Really smart couples are so noisy, and they will only be happier the more they quarrel.

Husband and wife blame each other less, take a step back when they encounter problems, and give each other a go. When people reach middle age, the temper between husband and wife is gentle, and when things are indifferent, both parties are more tolerant, and life will get better and better.

4. What is marriage?

Someone asked, "What is marriage?" One has this to say:

It's probably that I've had 100 thoughts of divorce, but the 101st time I chose you. "This statement is especially true for middle-aged couples. We can dislike each other, but don't forget to encourage each other, support each other, and live the second half of life.

I hope that the couples who read this article can care more about each other, be more considerate, and praise each other. Women know how to stay together, and men know how to be grateful, so that they can be happy for a long time.

The relationship between husband and wife is one of the most complex and important relationships in human society, and over time, the feelings between husband and wife will also change, and even unsatisfactory situations will appear. There are several reasons for this.

First of all, couples will gradually discover each other's shortcomings in the process of getting along, and these shortcomings may not be noticed in the first place. For example, a person may be very likable before marriage, but may become impatient or irresponsible after marriage. These shortcomings can be a significant reason for the breakdown of the couple's relationship.

Secondly, the lifestyle and living conditions of couples may also change over time. For example, a Huxu person may be very fond of travel and adventure before marriage, but may prefer to settle down after marriage. Differences in lifestyles between couples can also create friction and dissatisfaction.

Thirdly, there may be a problem of poor communication between couples. Communication is an important factor in maintaining a relationship, and if there is a problem with communication, it can lead to tension or dissatisfaction in the relationship.

Fourth, the different expectations between husband and wife are also a cause of dissatisfaction. For example, one person may want more intimacy between couples, while another may focus more on personal space and freedom. This difference in expectations can lead to conflicts and dissatisfaction between couples.

Finally, there may be personality incompatibility between couples. If the personalities of two people are too different, it can lead to dissatisfaction and conflict between couples. For example, one person may be cheerful and sociable, while another person is more introverted and prefers to be alone.

This personality difference can lead to conflicts and contradictions between couples.

In summary, dissatisfaction between couples can be caused by a combination of factors. To maintain a healthy relationship, both partners need to pay attention to each other's feelings, strengthen communication, respect each other's differences, and adjust their expectations and lifestyles appropriately to better adapt to changes in the relationship.

I think that husbands and wives should understand each other and discuss things with each other.