It is only after middle age that people find out that there is a big difference between having a chi

From falling in love to getting married, to having a baby, everyone has to go through this process to make their life perfect.

During this period, different people have different ideas and practices on the question of how old to have a baby. ......Some people give birth at a young age, while others have babies later. ......At the time, I didn't feel much about it.

However, when you reach middle age, you will feel very different about this problem.

Specifically, the specific differences between early and late babies include the following:

1. Give birth to a baby early and be in good health.

Giving birth to a baby at a young age, the mother is young and has a good physique, which is more conducive to the baby's physical health and the safety of the mother and child.

2. Late-born babies with poor physical fitness.

Late birth of a baby, the mother's physical condition deteriorates, and the recovery after giving birth to the baby is slower, which is not very beneficial for the baby.

3. Give birth to a baby early and be full of energy.

Young mothers are energetic, and they can be more careful, attentive and effective with their babies.

4. Late birth of a baby, lack of energy.

Late baby, the mother is older, lack of energy, and affected by work, etc., will be more lacking in energy, and the effect of taking the baby will be worse.

5. Early birth of a baby, the experience is too shallow, the experience of young mothers is too shallow, and the experience of taking the baby is insufficient, and it is easy to have such and such problems.

6. Late birth of babies with more life experience.

The mother of a late-born baby has rich experience and life experience, and it is more convenient to take the baby, which is more conducive to the healthy growth of the baby.

In addition, there is another problem: when you reach middle age, you will find that if you give birth to a baby early, when you are older, the baby will have grown up, and you don't have to worry about it anymore. ......If you give birth to a baby later, when you are older, the baby is still young, and you still need to take care of yourself, which requires a lot of energy.

The above are the differences between early and late babies that people can only feel when they reach middle age.

Giving birth to a child early and giving birth to a child late, both are ten months pregnant, what's the big deal, if you think so, then you think it's simple, after reading it, I see who dares to have a child late.

Many people, due to various reasons such as the economic foundation cannot keep up, or they have not found a suitable partner, so that they have not yet had children in their 30s, or even have not married, but they do not know that the difference between having children early and having children later is quite big.

So what are the differences between having a child early and having a child later? What problems will they face? What are the pros and cons? Let's take a lead together.

1. Energy.

Early birth of a child: It is generally said that the early birth is about 25 years old. At this time, the girl's energy will be more vigorous, even if she is pregnant, she can still take care of all aspects of life and work, but she will stop working for a month or two after giving birth, and she will be ready to give birth.

Late birth of children: The late birth mentioned here generally refers to the fact that girls are about 35 years old, and they can be regarded as middle-aged women at this time. Among the girls I have seen, my sister-in-law, my sister, when they were pregnant with their second child, they were about 35 years old, and they saw that they were basically in a soft state, nesting at home all day long, obviously not as strong as those in their twenties, nesting all day long, and having some impact on the development of children, at least to bask in the sun occasionally and breathe fresh air, so that it is good.

2. Physical condition and recovery.

People in their early twenties are still in a relatively healthy state in all aspects of their body, although things like giving birth to a child are very physically draining, and the recovery after giving birth will be faster.

Someone once did such a survey statistics, that is, statistics of more than 30 pregnant women, and 20-year-old pregnant women, after giving birth to a child, the survey counted a total of 2200 pregnant women, 1100 in their thirties, 1100 in their twenties, the data obtained shows that pregnant women in their twenties, after giving birth to a child for an average of about 4 hours, can get out of bed, simple walking. On the other hand, pregnant women in their thirties can only do simple activities after 48 hours on average.

This is just the beginning of recovery, and in the long run, having a child early will be much faster for the recovery after childbirth.

3. Work struggle.

A child starts school at the age of 3, attends kindergarten for 3 years, preschool for 1 year, primary school for 6 years, junior high school for 3 years, high school for 4 years, 20 years, and starts to enter kindergarten at the age of three, that is, 23 years old when he graduates from college, plus one year of pregnancy, then it takes 24 years for a pregnant woman to graduate from college.

For those who are born early, they are pregnant at the age of 25, and when the child graduates from college, he is 49 years old, if he gives birth to two children, and the second child is three years apart, then when the two children graduate from college, they are 52 years old, in fact, this time is just right, after all, at the age of 52, they still have the ability to earn money, and they can also support the consumption of children.

At this time, the child graduated from college, and after two years in the society, basically the child can be self-sufficient, as a 52-year-old mother, I will struggle for a few more years to save some money for the child to get married, and I will almost retire, and the time is just right.

What is the difference between having a baby early and having a baby later? There is a big difference between women at this age, don't care!

Nowadays, many young people don't want to have children too early after getting married, and they want to have a two-person world for a few more years, which is true. If you look at the female friends around you, you will know that there is a difference between having a child early and having a child later, especially at this age. The age of the difference is 30 years old, women who have children later still want to be a girl when they are 30 years old, and women who have children early are 30 years old, most of them are tired and become "yellow-faced women", but it is better to be born early, isn't there a saying that children and grandchildren are blessed early!

Women want to struggle for a few more years while they are young, or a few more years of chic, this is fine, but it is best to have a child before the age of 35. Because if you get pregnant after the age of 35, you will be called an advanced maternal age!!

Having a baby early allows you to have more energy and time for your child's education and providing a good life. Having a child later is also too old, and there is no energy to take care of the child, educate the child, and the ideology cannot keep up with the times, which has a great impact on the child's growth.

When people reach middle age, they mature and steady to understand the truth of life, life is the process of constantly choosing to walk and understand, and only if you miss it will you know that it is precious.

Many young people are reluctant to have children, thinking that they are still young, and do not pay attention to the child's upbringing and education.

Think about it simply, having a child at the age of 25, when the child is 25 years old, you can still do it at the age of 50, and have the energy and physical strength to help the child. And having a child at the age of 40, when the child is 25 years old, it is very difficult for him to be old and even take care of himself, and it is considered Amitabha Buddha if he does not cause trouble to the child.

The purpose of learning is to accept the experience of those who have come before us. Thinking should be forward-looking, and there is a big distance between the difference between early and late children from the perspective of young death.

Therefore, it is suggested that young people should be more forward-looking in their view of reproduction, and accept the suggestions and views of the elderly. I won't regret it until middle age.

Each has its own benefits!

People who have children early are still young, have plenty of energy, are not so tiring to take care of children, and will be young themselves when their children go to college in the future. But people who have children early tend to have a poorer financial foundation and often struggle to focus on work after having children.

People who have children later generally have a stable job or a small career achievement, and the living standard is relatively high at this time, which can give the child better growth conditions. However, due to the problem of age, the child has less energy, and it is hard to take care of the child, and due to the late birth of the child, the child may still be in college after you retire, and the burden will be heavier after retirement.

Regarding the time to have a child, everyone thinks differently, some people think that it is better to have a child early, the child is healthy, and they will recover quickly; Some people think that it is better to have children later, and a good economy can give children good living conditions and educational environment, but there are different statements, let's first take a look at the advantages and disadvantages of having children early and having children late.

1. Give birth to a baby early. Advantages: young, do not delay the career.

Giving birth to a baby at a young age has a high chance of a smooth birth, and the risk of giving birth to a baby is small, and the body recovers quickly after birth; When the baby grows up, the mother's career will not be affected, and she can be promoted and raised normally. And after having a baby, it is relatively easier to find a job; In addition, if you want a mother with a second child, the age will not be too old at this time. Cons:

Because they are young and their minds are immature, they often think that they are still children, so how can they take care of another child? In this way, the child will be handed over to the parents, and the happiness of experiencing the hard work of being a mother and seeing the child's progress will be lost, and the child's growth will also be lacking. Of course, not all young mothers will be like this.

2. Late baby. Advantages: Psychologically mature, ready to be a mother, completely able to take care of the baby independently, able to face the baby very calmly; It is very beneficial for children to grow up with their mothers from an early age.

Disadvantages: As you get older, the risk of giving birth to a baby increases, the chance of caesarean section is greater, and after giving birth, the body will recover more slowly; Perhaps this time is the rising period of many mothers' careers, and at this time they will face the choice of having a baby or a career. At this time, there will be psychological ties, and you may not be able to devote yourself to your career.

For the second child, when you are older, you may want to think about a lot of things. For older mothers, generally looking for a job, the recruitment unit will consider this aspect of things, and it is relatively difficult to find a job.

Do the right thing at the right age, and give birth to a child at the best pregnancy age is the best thing, but with the liberalization of the two-child policy, many elderly women want to give their children a companion, and join the queue of elderly mothers.

1. The living conditions are different.

People who give birth to babies early now belong to a more casual state of life, the children are older, either in college, or have already worked to get married and have children, and people who have babies late are still busy with their children's studies and lives, especially the two babies, who are even more busy.

People who have babies early, parents and the elderly are relatively young, have sufficient energy and physical strength, and it feels easy to take the child to grow up; For those who have babies late, their parents are also older, and the elderly on both sides can't help much, so they rely on themselves to bring the baby. But I'm not young anymore, and I'm really tired with a baby.

2. The working status is different.

People who have babies early, their children grow up and become independent, they can do their own business wholeheartedly, devote themselves wholeheartedly, and become elites in the workplace. Even if Bao Ma does not have a strong sense of professionalism and does not want to get ahead, she still works steadfastly.

People who have babies late, small children, have a lot of things to worry about, if it is two babies, they are even more lacking in skills, and their careers have entered a bottleneck period, and they cannot have better development. There are many elderly mothers who have become full-time mothers, and the helplessness of life is incompatible.

3. The physical condition is different.

People who give birth to babies early are young and in good health, and recover quickly after childbirth; People who give birth to babies late, after the age of 35, belong to advanced maternal age, physical function declines, recovery after giving birth to a baby is slow, and there is obvious fatigue with a child, and the energy cannot be reached.

People who give birth to babies early have good mothers, are flexible, and have a good mental state; When you are older, you will have a baby, you will be tired, your face will be haggard, and you will be easily depressed.

4. The economic pressure is different.

Having a child early, the cost of schooling and living expenses are not high in all aspects, you can save money, and it is easy to have savings; Late birth of children, the current cost is not the same, kindergarten costs are very different, public and private are different, there are foreign teachers and no foreign teachers are different, want to let children go to a good school, all aspects of economic pressure is relatively large.

If the body allows, it is better to have a baby in the best reproductive period, the best reproductive age for women is about 25 to 30 years old, giving birth to a baby at this age is conducive to women's physical and mental health, and taking a baby is more energetic, which is good for both the baby and the mother.

If it is an elderly baby, the mother should not be too tired, physical health first, it is also very important to accompany the child, the economic pressure is there, but also do not be too tired of money, have more money to spend, no money to spend less, to the child to transmit positive energy, a warm and harmonious family atmosphere is conducive to the growth of children.

People who give birth to babies late should maintain psychological balance, be content and happy, "less than the above, more than the bottom", often have an empty cup mentality and a learning mentality, the first three years of the child's birth are the most difficult days, and when the child goes to kindergarten, full-time mothers can consider planning their own careers, not derailed from society, but also to set an example for their children.