What does it feel like to reach middle age? What is the feeling of being in middle age?

Stressed, confused, lonely. When I was young, I only knew how to struggle, and when I reached middle age, everyone already had their own career, and middle-aged people were the backbone of the company, with experience and ability, but they were also under tremendous pressure. The competition of peers, the young waves are eyeing each other, and their own energy is declining, is the career reaching the ceiling?

It's the biggest pressure for middle-aged people**.

Middle-aged people, who have experienced the ups and downs of life, have seen the prosperity and loneliness of the world, the simple and beautiful imagination of youth has long been ruthlessly broken, and the life values in their hearts have long been full of holes.

Middle-aged people are busy with work, entertainment, parents, children, and lovers, but they lack time to face themselves. It's hard to imagine how lonely a middle-aged person who is busy with their career and family every day can feel lonely. Some people are busy because they are afraid that they will be idle, and let frequent socializing and trivial daily routines fill their time, so that they have no time to face their hearts alone.

Middle age and noon are somewhat similar: dignified, deep, empty, a pole on the curve of life. Standing here, you can see the way you are coming from at a glance, and the movement that can be stirred up on the way to the road is roughly not the right. Life is like a magician shaking off his baggage, and there won't be too much mystery to speak of.

When a man reaches middle age, he often feels lonely, because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who have to rely on him, but there is no one he can rely on.

When a person reaches middle age, he suddenly seems to be tightly choked by life, he can breathe, he can live, but he can't move, he wants to scream and struggle to leave, but he finds that he is pinched tighter.

When I reached middle age, I learned to choose, I knew the importance of having happiness, I was not confused, I used the perception of the first half of my life to kill the persistence of the second half of my life, I walked through and seen, but I still had to work hard, in order to use my best efforts to catch up with the pace of tomorrow.

The appearance may still maintain a tail of youth, but the heart has opened a new copy, looking back at the style behind him, but it is usually an exclusive customization, and that kind of helplessness is still glorious despite defeat. In middle age, I can't gradually reveal my fragility, I behave naively, and I barely comfort myself when I am sad, and I am still growing, and then I go down, and my sense of fate is strong.

Enjoy this tranquility, no longer disturb yourself, no longer hesitate, everything is like this sunset, charming and colorful.

Suddenly found that I was more than halfway through my life, so fast, damn it, the front is not very exciting, and the back will be more boring. Is that all the life like this?

Over the years, I have been engraved by the years and life, and my heart has been constantly changing. The vicissitudes of life, the will has become hard, but the bottom of the heart is getting softer and softer.

At this age, the left hand has to drag the child, and the right hand has to hold the parents, becoming the parent on both sides of them, and shouldering a lot of responsibility.

I feel that there are only more than 30 years left to learn to reconcile with life.

I like to be stupid and say goodbye to the pink, with Hongming.

** of the loess are buried.

The feeling of middle age is the eternal state of mind, and people who are middle age often wake up suddenly and do something they originally wanted to do but didn't have time to do. Only when people are middle-aged can they truly know themselves, own themselves, appreciate themselves, and accept themselves. It is only in middle age that people learn to seek peace of mind and pleasure from religion.

Know how to comfort yourself and light a lamp of hope for yourself. When people are middle-aged, they understand that what they want to change in their lives is not anything else, but themselves. The things that have been pursued all my life are like natural flowing water, so my heart is as calm as water, quiet and far-reaching.

When people live in middle age, they begin to understand that aging does not begin in middle age, but begins with boredom with life. ‍‍

It is particularly calm and calm, and it is also the stage with the strongest sense of happiness. Although there are not many materials, contentment is always happy. When the children are older, they have their own space, they can pick up the hobbies of their youth, have time to travel with friends, and relax.

At this stage, it is basically the mainstay of the unit, and the business tends to be basically stable. There are not many ambitions left, I won't put much pressure on myself anymore, do what I need to do well, don't force it, and do my best. When people reach middle age, various minor physical problems appear, and they begin to pay attention to health preservation and health. ‍‍

It's a heavy responsibility. Parents are old and always on the lookout for illness. Children have not yet started a family, and their studies, jobs, marriages, and families are not at ease.

Middle-aged people, looking at it, no one can be easy. This is followed by busyness and exhaustion. When people reach middle age, they pay more attention to their image and dignity.

In the unit, almost all of them are desperate and hard-working, and they have to work hard to improve the material living standard of the family. Filial piety to the elderly, help children, which can be less! is sad again, the years are fleeting, the face is easy to age, and the strength of the descendants and young and beautiful beauties around them make middle-aged people sigh and age at an accelerated pace.

keeps saying that they face it calmly, and there are a few people who are truly relieved. ‍‍

Everyone will have a different perception, to be honest, very tired, the old and the young dare not slack off, busy with work and busy at home every day, afraid of the elderly sick especially hospitalization, afraid of what happened to the children who go to school in the field or learn badly, it is really not easy for people to reach middle age, especially I have these people who have experienced laid-off and paid social security without a fixed job, working hard every day for fear of losing their jobs, I just want to say that life is not easy, live every day steadfastly, people are painful and happy in middle age. ‍‍

What is the feeling of being in middle age?It's hard to say. It depends on the person's character, there are many middle-aged people around, who die every day drunken dreams (mèng), and some are busy, and the result is a different fate.

The motivated will think about the future, and the decadent will think about what to drink tonight, the house, the car, and the children, all of which are a kind of pressure. Regardless of the poor and rich, the health is gradually not good, insomnia and hair loss have come with people reaching middle age. I don't want to think about the future, because I don't know how to go tomorrow, I don't want to remember the past, and the past is full of sadness. ‍‍

There are old and stubborn elders on top, and there are children with little ghosts and big ghosts. There is also a companion with horizontal and vertical thorns in the middle. Sometimes it feels like a peanut sandwiched between a stone mill and oil. In addition to greasy, it is dispensable. ‍‍

First of all, the pressure is certain, there are old and young. Rural babies, there are no backers. On your own, part-time work.

I don't have a few dollars left to eat. So a lot of expenses are now less. For example, now that the hair is small, the classmates are slowly less contacted, and some have almost no contact.

Playing cards, drinking and singing have slowly become more modest. Not to mention class reunions. Secondly, I feel that I am slowly developing an inferiority complex.

The countryside is now a "comparison"! The family is better than mine. Car, house, buy, build!

The comparison is very. Therefore, inferiority complex inevitably arises. Look at your own children and their own parents, I'm a mother!

Let's go! ‍‍

There are old and young, and they are physically and mentally exhausted.

If you have money, you can also have a sense of happiness, after all, you can't do without money all the time, if you don't have money, it's the abyss of pain.

There is no backer, there is no way forward, desperately make money so that relatives have a guarantee, they are not afraid of anything, and they know that life is both able and not.

There are old and young, and the pressure is great!

Uncle 75 years. There are the following feelings:1:

I feel that when I am about 30 years old, I feel the happiest at my best. The income is enough to cope with life, love is nourished, and there are surprises and new discoveries everywhere you go. Don't let yourself down, don't live up to the time.

2: The 15 years between 25 and 40 years old is the time period when you have to do your best in life. Set a goal that is slightly beyond what you can achieve and push yourself to work hard.

Without a goal, it is easy for people to slack off and forgive themselves. Mastering the method and continuous learning to improve yourself is the most important thing. Time is not to be disappointed!

3: Family affection is irreplaceable. Accompany the growth of his wife and children, and make himself happy with every bit of progress of his children.

Get together with your parents, have a drink with your dad, and reminisce about the past. The affection and sense of responsibility for the family are so thick and warm! 4:

Financially free, not much pressure. But I continue to make progress at work, and I feel more and more that work is a kind of cultivation. The book "Dry Law" had a great influence on me.

5: Gradually pay attention to social issues, such as housing prices, educational equity, religion and ethnicity. Do what you can to influence these issues for the better.

6: I am still angry in my heart, but I look at problems more rationally and deeply.

I'm 29 years old this year, an age that doesn't seem to be relevant to this answer. In fact, I am also a father of two children, and the son of aging parents. I feel that the first 29 years of life have come over in this way, and some relatives of the previous generation have left this world one after another in recent years, because I worked and lived in other places and did not return to my hometown to attend their funerals, so I am always aware of the passage of life and time.

When I was a child, they could drink and eat meat, and they could play cards and chat all night. Now some of them are faltering, and some of them have been buried in the ground for a long time. Time is cruel, and even if I deny it, I'm following their path little by little towards the place where everyone is going.

I hope that time will slow down, so that I can still be the little son in the eyes of my parents, a young man in the eyes of my colleagues in the company, and a teenager in my own eyes.

There are still two months to 31 years old, and today there is a sudden feeling that a person is middle-aged. A baby, two suites, 2w4 monthly repayment from next month, 150w in foreign debt, new house in renovation, expected 20w, electric car number expires at the end of the year, you have to buy a car. These are okay, stressful, but bearable.

Today, I took my mother to have a physical examination with my unit, and I happened to be in it when I did breast ultrasound, and I heard the doctor say that there was a mass, the boundary was not clear, and the burr sign was signed, and then I was told that I wanted to go to the hospital for a reexamination. I quickly contacted the experts of the cancer hospital and went for an examination next Wednesday, expecting a false alarm. I feel that I am a little anxious to buy a school district house (the child is 2 years old), the leverage is a bit large, the family's ability to resist risks is poor, and I deeply feel the powerlessness of people in middle age.

In another three months I will be thirty and feel like an adult at this moment. In his twenties, who had experienced chaos, he knew what he wanted and what he didn't want. Single, unmarried, and childless, very free.

You can learn whatever you want, you can travel if you want, you don't have to think about anything at all, you want to be the person you want to be, and you want to want to keep learning. When I was in my twenties, I felt that I was going to get married and have children, this is the perfect life. I feel like there are many ways to live now, and indeed, I like who I am now.

Middle-aged, never felt. I don't care about age, I just want to have a good day.

In the past, a bucket of pure water was carried to the fifth floor in one breath without taking a breath, but now the body can no longer hold it when it is carried to the first floor.

As the old saying goes, I didn't understand it until I reached thirty in a trance, and I didn't understand that standing at thirty does not mean that people "stand" when they reach thirty, but that people have to stand when they reach thirty. When he was twenty years old, he was in love, talking about ideals, and feeling that the world was his own every day. It's really in the thirties that there are old and young, the career is not up or down, and the family is busy and chaotic, so I feel that people are difficult in middle age.

My wife is irritable at work, the baby is unwell, the boss has a new idea, my wife and wife are unhappy again, and so on, and so on, when I was young, I disdain trivial things, and now everything gives me a headache. Ask me what is the experience of middle age? The experience may be to endure loneliness and loneliness.

When you feel aggrieved, go with it, laugh a few times when you're happy, that's all.

When people reach middle age, many people have their own crises. I'm 31 years old, I've been working for 8 years, and I feel like I'm still a very young kid, and my colleagues around me are also very young. But I entered a midlife crisis and didn't want to go home, I didn't want to go home.

What do you do back home? I always feel lonely, I don't know who to say to have something to say, some things to say, and some things in my heart. It's loneliness!

Loneliness in the heart!

It will become greasy, lose hair, face baldness, grow a beer belly, dull the brain, and develop in a direction that you didn't like at the beginning.

I just turned 30, and when I graduated with a master's degree, I really felt that I could be fierce forever and nothing could hammer me, as Wang Xiaobo said. After that, slowly get hammered and slowly understand life and yourself. Now, seven years later, working hard, changing houses and having babies, and improving the quality of family life Before improving my own quality of life, I have gradually stopped playing football after 20 years, and I exercise in the most time-saving way:

Jogging. To sum up the middle-aged experience, it is:1

No longer live for yourself, but for the whole family. 2.For people with ordinary families, they should stay in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.

3.There is nothing that cannot be solved by 10 km, and if there is, then 20 km. 4.

No hurry, no fear, no shame.