Only by learning to give up can we be happy.

Giving is a condition for happiness, but it is not the only condition, learning to give up is to let us know how to let go when we should let go, not to let go of everything.

Yes, we have to give up, we will give up, learn to save, we will get happiness, get happiness.

Only by giving away will we have gain. Willing to give and give to have to give. Only when we are willing to give something will we get something else, and these are mutually influential.

Yes, you have to learn to give up, you are happy, happy to be willing to give up, and you can only get if you give up.

Yes, in life, we must learn to make trade-offs, and only when there is giving, the so-called giving.

Life must learn to be content, and only then will it become happier and happier.

This is really the case, there is a give-and-take.

Yes, I remember a book called renunciation, giving up the sadness that you shouldn't have. You can be happy.

Yes, there is a give-and-take. Learn to give up, get rid of the unhappy, and become happier.

In order for us to be happy, first of all, we must have a positive energy at all times, and we should be satisfied in the case of not being too greedy.

That's true. , don't think so much, let go and naturally feel happy.

If you are willing to give, you can only get if you learn to give.

As the so-called contentment is always happy, willing to give, happy is always there!

There is a give-and-take, what is yours is yours, and it is useless to grab if it is not yours. Learn to give up and learn to be perfect and let go, in order to get happiness.

Adler's thought asserts that a person's success and happiness have nothing to do with anyone else, and everything depends on himself.

Through the dialogue between a young man who is deeply inferior, incompetent and unhappy, and a philosopher who is deeply influenced by Adler's psychology, "The Courage to Be Hated" reveals that if a person wants to be free and happy, he must have the courage to be hated, and this courage is also the ultimate antidote to the problems we face in life. Writer Yang Daxia said that happiness lies in himself.

What kind of life does not come in vain, happiness needs to be created by yourself!

There is no fixed standard for happiness, but it has a bottom line. The bottom line of happiness is happiness. I'm happy, so I'm happy!

I once heard the story of a fisherman: this fisherman hid in the sun by the sea all day, and a tourist asked him why he did not pursue glory and wealth, and he said that as long as his realistic psychological needs were satisfied, he would be very happy and happy. This is probably the bottom line of the fisherman's happiness.

One sunny afternoon, it was a Friday afternoon, and I was playing with a few classmates in the neighborhood next to the school. We played "hide and seek" around the sports facilities. We were all having fun and I accidentally tripped over a rock.

Ahh Two classmates hurriedly ran up to me and asked me with concern, "What's wrong, where did you fall?"

Have you had any? Does it matter? "You can go to our house and apply some medicine."

Another classmate said, "Why don't I ride you back on a bicycle?" ”…Looking at their nervous eyes and hearing their concern, I was moved.

The shouts and greetings from my classmates deeply touched my heart, and the words of care warmed my heart. At this moment, nothing makes people feel happier than the friendship between classmates, and nothing makes people feel happier than this sincere greeting! I'm so blessed.

I am so happy.

During the winter break, I experienced a lot. There are sad things, there are new things ......The thing I remember the most is that incident.

It was a sunny day, and my mother suddenly mentioned my long-awaited wish: "I'll buy you a bike, okay?" "Great! "Great! You're such a good mom! "I couldn't help but jump and jump.

After a while, my mom and I came to the bike shop, and as soon as I got into the bike shop, the first thing I saw was the fuchsia bike. "Mom, I want this, I want this ......"My mother couldn't help me, so she bought it.

Hey! Not to mention, this one is so beautiful. It's purple-red, which makes it look extraordinarily delicate.

Before I'm happy, a new problem has come, I don't know how to ride yet! Otherwise, it's a waste to buy it! What can I do?

Now the only choice: "Learn!" "But I've always been timid and afraid of death, but this time for the sake of the bike, I'll grit my teeth and learn!

I sat down carefully on the seat, and my mind was like a lot of buckets of water, seven up and eight times, and after a while it shook; Shaking and falling, I forcibly stood up, patted the dust on my body, and complained in my heart: "I can't learn!" "My mother seemed to see through my thoughts, and came over to me and said to me earnestly

Go on, come again. Nothing is so simple, you have to remember: persevere, until you succeed!

You'll be able to do it! Mom's words increased my confidence. I picked up the car and sat back on, my mom in front of me to help me hold the faucet, and I pedaled with my feet.

My mother told me three key points of cycling: "First, you can't look under the car, you have to look ahead; Second, don't turn the faucet around, it's easy to fall, and only turn a little when there is an obstacle; Third, keep stepping on your feet and not stopping. "I did as my mom said, and after a while, my mom let go of her hand and I actually rode on my own.

And all the way back home, I couldn't believe that I learned to ride a bike.

This time, I not only learned a skill, but more importantly, I learned the truth that only perseverance can lead to success. You say, can you not be happy about this double thing?

To achieve "three joys": self-satisfaction, helping others, contentment; One more friend is a good one, and the enemy is a friend, so there is another friend.

I really admire the friends upstairs, let's write it myself.

No matter who you are, you can learn how to be happy and content in life. Take the time to appreciate your talents and traits while developing a healthy body image and self-esteem. Focus on the positive aspects of your work, hobbies, and lifestyle.

Express gratitude in everyday life. Appreciate your opportunities, strengths, skills, and blessings. Keep a thank you journal and write down everything you're grateful for. You may include your family, friends, family, hobbies, opportunities, or health.

If you're feeling upset or disappointed, try reading a journal to refuel. Always say thank you, whether you're thanking your local barista for a cup of coffee or your dad for always serving you.

Fill your life with laughter. Always leave some room for laughter in everyday life. No matter how scary your life may seem at a particular moment, don't forget to take a break and laugh.

You'll feel better both in the short and long term. Comedy or comedian. This will make you laugh and can cheer you up.

Surround people who like to laugh. Laughter is contagious!

Happy learning.

Most of the dictionary definitions of happiness are: feeling satisfied and happy. The German philosopher Immanuel Kant argued:

Happiness is when our needs are met." Indeed, happiness is a beautiful condition, that is, there are no bad or painful things, and you feel that you are good as a person and the world around you. How can you get it?

This must be helpful, this answer will tell you how our minds work!

I am my best psychiatrist.

If you want to be happy, anything can make you happy.

There are only two choices for people's daily mood - "happiness" and "trouble", and they all agree that "happiness" is better than "trouble", but they often still choose "trouble". Why bother? To be happy is to achieve your own requirements and accomplish the goals you have set.

After hard work to get the harvest and get rewarded is happiness, the goal is different in different directions, the final result will be different, but the road we have traveled is worth our memory, whether it is successful or not, whether it is completed or not, at least we have worked hard and struggled.

In order for us to be better tomorrow, we have lost today and paid today, but we look back and see that the footprints behind us are not a kind of happiness?

Don't focus too much on the results, the process is perfect, and the happiness is all around you.

You will do the happy things that you feel, and the unhappy things will soon be forgotten.

In fact, human life is a state of mind. If the mentality is adjusted, you can hum a minor tune while pedaling a tricycle; The mentality adjustment is not good, open.

whining like a BMW. "This is a text message on the mobile phone, which vividly illustrates the importance of people's mentality.

So you should regulate yourself:

1.Less desire, 2Climb less, 3Mindset balance point, 4Be content and happy.

5.Change what you can change, accept what you can't, and don't lose yourself.

6.Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

The philosopher said, "A wise man derives happiness from his surroundings at all times, and a man without wisdom wants others to give him happiness."

In Buddhism, happiness comes from the liberation of the heart, and if you are unhappy in your heart, who will you pray for happiness every day?

People are the same, in fact, many times are boring, when bored, talk about the shortcomings of the east and the west, such as a certain person has a problem, a certain character has a problem, a certain style has a problem, ......After speaking, he ran next door to talk about the east and west. Talking about this and that all day long, hoping to be happy, how can he be happy? Talking about people's rights and wrongs all day long, talking about people's wrongs.

I am so bad, I don't know it, but I talk about others badly.

People are so pitiful, their own faces are half blackened, but they see that other people's faces are dirty, and then they laugh at others and say, "Hehe, your face is a little darker." They told him, "I'm a little darker, you're half black!" ”

People often can't see their own faces, but they pay attention to the words and deeds of others and see them clearly. I can't see my own shortcomings, but I criticize the good and bad of others every day, and I complain every day. People are like this, they use other people's shortcomings to annoy themselves, and they live a miserable life!

Therefore, a wise person can be happy anytime and anywhere, as long as you let go of your mind, everything in heaven and earth will make you happy. If you can't let go of this mood, you won't be happy at all.

So, the Buddha said, "No one can give us suffering, but he can give himself suffering." And he said, "

A person who wants to get happiness from others is like a beggar begging for others, which is painful. Because happiness is not given to us by others, but by our own liberation, by ourselves beyond all the state of obedience and disobedience, and by letting go of all attachments and troubles, so that we can be happy. Everything depends on yourself, no matter how much others give you, you can't be happy.

People with equal personalities, consistent three views, complementary personalities, emotional intelligence and the ability to love, and can blend and nourish each other from a psychological point of view.

You are pursuing happiness but you have become a slave to money.

You fill in 100 I own ...... at once

Parents, wives, children, house, health, mobile phone, etc. Look at you who were born naked Now you have less and compare it Wife is used to love Parents are filial children are companions Money is to improve the standard of living Don't lose filial piety for money Lose your family and children to grow up No money We have the love to accompany parents and wives and children every day Find happiness in the happiness of home and slowly struggle brother.

In the ups and downs of life, there will be countless roads, and some wrong paths will not affect the final outcome, but some wrong choices will leave lifelong regrets. Just as the great and the small, the heaven and the earth, the water and the fire. Choosing one or the other is a trade-off.

Zebras on the continent chose to face the danger of lions at a fork in the road, thus beginning their evolution. It turned out that it did what it wanted, and the danger of the lion was often predictable, so its number gradually increased. The zebra learns to make trade-offs, it takes the benefits of tsetse flies, it takes the benefits of lions, and it would rather be killed by a lion in the light than conquered by a small thing.

There is such a story in Aesop's Fables. A goat, in order to get rid of a lion, runs into a temple. The lion let it out, but the goat said:

I'd rather be eaten by God than killed by you. In the realm of mortality, it chose to be eaten by the gods rather than by the lions. It is also an example of trade-offs, and only one's own choices are "right".

In ancient China, a famous writer named Sima Qian said: "People are inherently dead, either heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather." This means that death must also be wonderful; Death is moving; Die meaningfully.

In the eulogy "Serving the People" written to Comrade Zhang Side, he also wrote: "Dying for the interests of the people is heavier than Mount Tai, and dying for the fascists and exploiting and oppressing the people is lighter than a feather." "*** took the choice of dying for the revolution, and gave up dying for the enemy, this is also learning to make trade-offs.

When I was a child, I brought food from home. A classmate's family is poor and he can't afford to bring food, so he distributes the food to that classmate every day. He took the comfort of others, and sacrificed his own stomach not to be hungry.

It's the right trade-off. And now there are some people who become thieves and robbers, and they are also trade-offs, but they are wrong. They take their own leisure and comfort, but sacrifice the happiness of others, this kind of trade-off is an extremely despicable and selfish act of self-interest, while the legitimate trade-off is a noble act of self-interest without harming others or harming oneself and benefiting others.

At the fork in the road of life, we should learn to make trade-offs. Learning to make the right trade-offs is the true meaning of being a human being.