Tell us about your father! Is it harsh or loving?。。。。。。。

My father never seemed to care about me.

But I could feel his love for me.

It feels like it doesn't matter what it looks like.

That's enough.

My dad was sometimes very strict, sometimes very loving. Eh, it depends on his mood. He is a Leo, has a very bad temper, gets angry and yells, and scares people to death = =. But it's also super super good to be good.

Let me tell you about my classmate and her father, her father has always been very fierce, and his temper is super bad, and there are more fierce times than good times, and then she usually studies very seriously, very good, but every time she fails in the exam, she is especially afraid of her father. Then at the end of the semester, she was very unhappy. It seems that she has been in a very bad mood, afraid that her father will scold her, and she is a little depressed, but her father actually wrote a letter to her, saying that he shouldn't have forced her so much before, they are always a family, and it doesn't matter if you don't do well in the exam.

Then the relationship between their father and daughter became better. It's amazing, affection.

I loved and was cruel to my father, he was sometimes very fierce, and sometimes he took special care of me.

Well, the father was stern 、、、

It's so annoying、、

My parents divorced when I wasn't good I grew up and I can count the number of times I saw him on one hand So I don't know Strict Love doesn't seem to have anything to do with him Hehe Sometimes I see others describe their father really envy Whether their father is good or bad After all, there are feelings and memories And I don't have anything So whether it's strict or loving I think as long as I have it, I should cherish it and feel lucky for myself Because there are still some people in this world who don't even have the qualifications and opportunities to be scolded by their fathers.

My father was loving, but when he was young, he was ignorant, and he always thought he was strict, and when my father left, I thought he was great

Strict to the point you can't believe it, I'm serious ...

Growing up, my dad was not only my loving father, but also my closest friend. We can laugh and fight with each other, we can blame each other, and we can help each other. If we don't understand any problems, we will help each other, which is interesting!

I still remember one night when I was concentrating on calligraphy and calligraphy. Suddenly, Dad came, and with a gentle footstep, probably not wanting to disturb me. When I saw my father, I cried out

Daddy, can you write a word for me? Dad rubbed his hands, thought about it for a while, and finally came to the letter: "Yes, yes, it's not very good!"

I immediately interrupted my father's words and said excitedly: "Just treat me as your friend, if you can't write well, what's the matter!" I'm not going to laugh at you.

I pulled my father's clothes, my face was flushed, hehe, a little coquettish. When my father saw me like this, he reluctantly agreed. He wrote a "Ge Sleepy Call" to make a mistake and usurp the words alone, and every stroke has the ups and downs of the tone and frustration, so concentrate!

But after all, I haven't practiced calligraphy, and it's already very good for a beginner to write like this. But I still want to laugh, but I can't laugh, hold it, and pretend to evaluate a few words, saying that the sliding ruler should be cleared which shortcomings need to be changed, **good. Bad ......Questions like this are just so funny.

As it happens, there were a few English words and a few math problems in the evening.

My father was quite strict, and I was very afraid of my father when he was a child, and every time he came home from work, I would pretend to be asleep, so that I could be scolded by him less.

I was very naughty when I was a child, according to my mother, I was the kind of troublemaker who could get my clothes dirty in one day at school, and every day I went home without doing my homework and chatting with the security guards, and then the troublemaker met my violent father, and the tragedy played out day by day, and I was often beaten by my father until the crying shook the whole building.

Growing up, I was beaten for not doing my homework, I was beaten for sitting badly, I was scolded for not remembering anything, I was yelled at for moving slowly, I was scolded for everything I didn't do well, and even worse, I was beaten. What is the educational philosophy of Father Yan? After going through so much, I also have a little summary experience.

Father Yan is generally short-tempered, and because of his short temper, he knows that anger works wellIt is especially useful for children, because they are powerless to resist, so any request they make to him can be solved by anger, saving a lot of troubleCompared to telling your child every time he makes a mistake, this is indeed a simple and crude and effective method.

A strict father is good at using anger to deter children, let them grow up step by step under their own control, and prevent them from getting out of control, but a loving father is different.

Because I was raised by a strict father from an early age, I was very resistant to being angry with my children, in my opinionAs long as the child does not violate the bottom line of morality and law, all mistakes can be resolved through negotiationEven if it is a punishment, it should not just be so rough as beating and scolding children, so I began to think about how to be a father, I was thinking hard about how to be a qualified father in high school, which sounds funny, but I did think about it for a long time.

First of all,Moving away from violence is the most critical stepThe child's world is fragile and sensitive, and if you are fierce to him, he will leave a shadow for a long time, which is quite detrimental to the child's growthThe second is companionshipOf course, you don't need to be with you all the time, but you need to be accompanied often, and many times after you leave for a long time, you will find that his world begins to resist you, making you very uncomfortable with each other. The last is to give the child a sense of security and teach him how to be a person correctly, to put it bluntly, to perfect his personalityI don't know if a child's correct personality is beneficial to the child's growth, but a deformed personality will definitely ruin the child, no matter how talented he is, he will kill himself, and the repair of a broken personality can not be repaired for as little as five or six years, and more than a lifetime, so the shaping of character in childhood is particularly important.

Strict fathers always want their sons to become dragons, their daughters to become phoenixes, and filial piety under the stick, and the children they educate are macho and feminine, very domineering, and self-centered. The kind father's education method is to focus on others, empathy, consider the interests of others first, and then think about oneself. My father was a kind and kind father.

Strict, in childhood memories will still be very afraid of the father. A loving father will give people a very warm feeling, and a strict father will make people more self-disciplined, but the scale must be grasped well.

Very strict, I think a strict father and a loving father have to divide the situation, there is no father who does not love his children, a loving father is more able to tolerate his children, and communicate more with his children in a kind way; The strict father hopes that the child can be independent, so that the child can correct his mistakes by his own ability.

Stern. A loving father is better at being gentle and gentle from the psychological level, and a strict father is good at strictly disciplining children; A loving father is kind, and a strict father is strict; A loving father is good at preaching, and a strict father is good at corporal punishment.

My father is not strict, but a loving father will make you feel very warm, and he will want to tell him anything, and he will be stricter, and then he will want to do everything better.

It is sympathetic that you have met such a father.

Heaven has not yet given you a choice.

Fortunately, a father with a wrong outlook gave birth to a son with a correct outlook.

But a father is a father, and no one can change this fact.

It can be said that this period of your fate is bitter, you are the lotus in the pool, able to get out of the sludge without staining.

The most important thing you need to do at the moment is not to get entangled in these family trivialities, whether they are good or bad, put them aside and devote yourself to your studies.

When you have completed your studies, you will be able to welcome a new life with a new look in the future.

Sympathize with you all! At your most critical time, your father can ignore you and still engage in extramarital affairs happily, such a person is not worthy of being a father! Don't care about your father's right or wrong now, first of all, you must do a good job in your studies, study hard, have a good grade, and when you are admitted to the university, you can go to the city university you yearn for to study, and then your mentality will be different!

Your perception will also change! Let your father's affairs go, those who do not honor their parents will not end well! You are very sensible, you have to take care of yourself, your studies are a big deal, otherwise your academic performance will be affected because of your father, it is not worth it!

What your father did for you couldn't help it, and your grandmother's words didn't work at all, let alone you as a child. You are a good boy and kind-hearted. Your mom is relieved, she was right to leave in the first place.

You must understand that. Your stepmother is to blame. She destroyed your home with her own hands, and this time she finally tasted the pain of your mother back then.

She had nothing to sympathize with. For your father, obviously, son, husband, father, none of these three identities have been done well. You can ignore him.

Just know how you will be a person in the future. At the moment, you study hard, and you will have the ability to create your own life in the future, so you can plan your own life well.

You are very reasonable, and you understand very well, father, you are very heartbroken and powerless, only you study hard, change your fate, succeed in your career, and honor your mother and grandmother, as for your father, when he is old, he will suffer when he is sick, let him suffer by himself when the time comes.

I read your detailed description, you are still a child who is studying, very distressed, your father seems to be hopeless, he is called difficult to move, your grandmother can't control it, you can't manage it, he now gives money to support you to study, if he doesn't care about your living expenses, study money, you take him to court, don't be polite, they are adults, you don't care, study hard, and be a self-reliant person in the future.

Such a father should stay away from him, he did not fulfill the responsibilities of a father, he did not care about the family, he was not filial to his parents, and he was sometimes helpless as a child, as long as you study hard and calm down, I believe you will become strong and work hard.

It's domestic violence and abuse, right, isn't your father here? If you send it to him, he will see it. Will he beat you?

And he's guilty of a lot. There are crimes of assault, abuse, bullying, beating and scolding, is your home in the city? If it weren't for the city, you would accompany your grandma and grandpa to the city court to sue your father!

Don't be afraid of this kind of father, you should sue him! All of us in China are doing good things for the peace we are now, what is your father? To put it bluntly now, now you are a sinner.

By the way, there is one more sin! The sin of loving someone after marriage. To tell the truth, this is Chen Shimei, a sinner who has been passed down through the ages!

Sue him.

For you, don't worry about them, study your own studies better than anything else, you can't change your father, be kind to your biological mother in the future, such a father can do whatever he wants.

I'm a psychologist, what specific problem do you want to solve, and I'll write an analysis report to you.

I think your father is hopeless, and you don't need to try to make him correct, I think you should join forces with your stepmother and them to take care of the family's money, go to your school well, make yourself stronger, and let him not interfere in your life.

It's the same, they are separated because of their parents' bad feelings, but the truth is so shocking, let's put it this way! My father hadn't divorced my mother yet.

Hello! It is also my own misfortune to have such a father, but because you have such a family, you have to study hard, and in the future, you can find your mother, and then treat her well, and let your father live by himself.