Why two people have a good relationship when they first start . Isn t it good to have a good time?

The novelty is over·· Naturally, it's not that good...

Therefore, it is cherishable love to be able to continue to love each other despite the freshness...

Love should be kept fresh. Keep surprising each other, sweet words are indispensable. If it's really not suitable, there's no way, it only means that you are not suitable

It's all the same with a run-in period and a transition period.

If you can handle it, you'll be fine!

There is time to go together before.

First date, first meal.

The first time I watched a movie crazy place!

Let's see if we can get back to what we felt at the beginning.

Either the feelings are really weak!

Time is a cute and hateful thing.

Providence shows that the two are not suitable.

Summary. Because at the beginning of love, all you see is the good of the other person, and because you have just fallen in love, the appearance you see of the other person is likely to be what he (she) imagined in your mind. And when they first got together, they would hide their bad habits and show what they wanted to see in front of each other.

When I first started with my boyfriend, he fell in love with me at first sight, and I only agreed after chasing me for half a year, and he was very kind to me at that time, so that he listened to me in everything. Because he felt that the goddess who was finally caught up at that time must be treated well. Over time, the end of the love period.

He didn't think I was that good, and I had a lot of shortcomings. For example, a little lazy, such as doing things is always hot for three minutes. So at the beginning, when he was gradually cold to me, I asked him very incomprehensibly, how can you treat me like this when you chased me first?

In fact, there is a transition period in relationships, and there are many stages.

Hello. In the beginning, people didn't see each other's weaknesses. And it always shows its own advantages, but time passes slowly, and finally it can't be hidden, and Huai Hui restores each other's original appearance.

Love is united because it is attracted, but it is defeated by intolerable details.

Because at the beginning of love, all you see is the good of the other person, and because you have just fallen in love, the appearance you see of the other person is likely to be what he (she) imagined in your mind. And when they first got together, they would hide their bad habits of finger selling, and show what the other party wanted to see in front of each other. When I first started with my boyfriend, he fell in love with me at first sight, and I only agreed after chasing me for half a year, and he was very kind to me at that time, so that he listened to me in everything.

Because he felt that the goddess who was finally caught up at that time must be treated well. As time goes by, the only tease in the love period ends. He didn't think I was that good, and I had a lot of shortcomings.

For example, a little lazy, such as doing things is always hot for three minutes. So at the beginning, when he was gradually cold to me, I asked him very incomprehensibly, how can you treat me like this when you chased me first? In fact, there is a transition period in relationships, and there are also many stages of stupidity.

The first stage is the hot love period, the second stage is the cold period, the third companion stage is the contradiction period, and the fourth stage is the stability period. The feelings are slowly run-in, and the two Lu, who grew up in two different families, are not individuals, and it is inevitable that they will stumble when they live together. So two people are together, understand each other, and think more about each other.

Summary. My dear, in fact, I don't think you should think like this, you were good before, but now the relationship is not very good, but you may offend him now, and now you have a bad attitude, because at the beginning of love, all you see are the advantages of the other party, and your eyes are full of him, because you have just fallen in love, the appearance of the other party you see is likely to be the appearance of his (her) in your mind. And did not see his shortcomings.

And when they first started together, they would hide their bad habits and not show them, and what they showed in front of each other was what the other party wanted to see. Unless it's you who changed for him, what is the specific reason? My dear, the relationship started well and then changed.

Hello, I mean it's a teacher who is good at marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. Tell me in detail about your specific situation in a convenient side tease Cong Talk to me who knows you, and I too.

I would like to ask the teacher why we have been together for a year, it used to be good, but now I feel that it has changed, is there any way to solve it?

My dear, in fact, I don't think you should think like this, you were good before, but now the relationship is not very good, but you may offend him now, and now you have a bad attitude, because at the beginning of love, all you see are the advantages of the other party, and your eyes are full of him. And did not see his shortcomings. And when they first started together, they would hide their bad habits and not show them, and what they showed in front of each other was what the other party wanted to see.

Unless it's just Na Bang, you change it for him, it's a file, not because of what? My dear, even now he is very busy, and he hasn't replied to me for a long time, Yun or I care about him very much, so when I think of him not replying to my messages, I Song Shu has a conflict with him, saying that he doesn't love him now, and asking him if he has someone he loves more, and he says that I am unreasonable.

In fact, the teacher can understand your feelings very well, and he thinks that Dou Jianqin loves you very much, and you have been making trouble like this, so she is a little bit unreasonable, after all, you have been together for so long.

He said the same thing, saying that I mess with him like this all day long, in fact, I really don't want to mess with him, but when I think of him like this, I can't control myself.

Are you all in this together? Or is it a different place?

Well, together.

In fact, when two people are together, this man and woman are the kind of people who are very straight men, and I don't think you should think about it.

How do you usually do it? My dear.

It was ok for me.

You are together and you are very good, and then you are very good at annihilation, so I don't think you should question him like this. Because the relationship has been in place for a long time, there is a <> of this transition period

I think it could really be that he has changed.

Are you someone else he found out he liked? Or is it something else? My dear.

Or have you found out that you don't like him anymore?

Speak from the heart, and the teacher will help you.

For everyone when they fall in love, they will have such a question, after they and their object have been in love for a long time, the relationship between the two people seems to be more flat, not as intense as when they were together at the beginning. Many people are very confused about this phenomenon, is it that the other party doesn't love them anymore? Then let himself have a lot of suspicion about the other person, which is also very bad for their relationship.

Therefore, more and more people always feel that after getting along with each other for a long time, the other party does not love them so much, and this phenomenon is also endless. <>

But in fact, for two people who have been together for a long time, the relationship between the two of them will only get better and better, and it will not get weaker and weaker. Because we all know that for such a relationship, love from the very beginning has become a kind of family affection, just like some people who have become accustomed to their lover playing a role in their own lives。Therefore, if their lover breaks up, it is very likely that they will suffer a very heavy psychological blow, and they have planned their lover as a part of their life in life.

Therefore, when their lover leaves them, their own hearts will be very unbearable, because their lover is in love for a long time, and his performance is very obvious to the original self as if they were two people. <>

But for the love that has been talked about for a long time, they have to go through a series of run-in periods, so for this kind of love, they are now more likely to have a clear existence. It is the same as when we usually get along with our parents at home, although getting along with our parents is very dull, but we can also feel the love of our parents for us. So it's the same for lovers, after a long time, the pattern of two people together will change, and it is no longer the three vigorous patterns at the beginning, and it gradually becomes dull, and a part of life has been added.

So in life, these tribulations have been like this, and the two people are more mature and have a deeper understanding of such feelings. If two people gradually become relatives, then the pattern of getting along between two people will gradually face, but this does not mean that their relationship is becoming more and more flat, but that the two of them are more and more in love. This kind of love flowed into his body, and then some of his emotions became more daily.

What is wrong with many people who think that the longer they are in love, the bigger they get? For two people who have been talking for a long time, their love will only get stronger and stronger, but this kind of love is not showing, so for many people, they will doubt this kind of love, but in fact, we don't doubt the feelings, because this kind of love has actually flowed into our bodies with some of our habits, so there is no need to doubt.

Of course it's getting better and better. Because two people will be more intimate, their love will turn into family affection. They are already familiar with each other, so outsiders will look bland.

In my opinion, it's just that the two people who think the girl has a good relationship suddenly ends, and it's not the boy who also thinks the two have a good relationship.

The boy is not good at communication, he is unwilling to say what he is not satisfied with, or the boy himself does not know what he wants, so he will be dealt with for a while, on the surface there is no problem, but in fact, the boy's dissatisfaction is in the heart, and eventually the boy will make the decision to leave.

I have seen too many cases like this, for example, the man has no experience in love, and he is very tolerant of his girlfriend's temper, every time his girlfriend gets angry, the boy will coax until he is coaxed, and the girl has no sense of crisis, she will think that their relationship will go on like this, and the boyfriend loves herself.

The boy knows that he can't talk about his girlfriend, if he talks too much, this high energy consumption will only last, and even he can't sleep well at night, so the boy chooses not to communicate, chooses to calm things down, and calms his girlfriend's temper as soon as possible, and he can get better.

And the girl will think that our relationship is very good, and my boyfriend loves me very much, so he will tolerate my emotions. Until one day, the boyfriend says "we break up", the girl will be very confused, because the girl has exhausted their feelings in the boyfriend's heart, and the man can no longer stand such emotional violence, so this kind of breakup is also saved by the boyfriend.

For another example, the boy has always wanted to find a fairy, but he couldn't find it after looking for many years, he began to think of compromise, and then he met a girl, the girl was very good to him, and her personality was also very cheerful, and the two got along very happily.

But until one day, the guy told his girlfriend "let's break up". And the reason is actually that the boy is still pursuing his own fairy in his mind.

Therefore, I advise all girls not to challenge human nature in their relationships, they must cultivate and exercise their sense of crisis, and at the same time, they must not pin their life-saving straw on others, their happiness is always in your own hands, and you must grasp it yourself.

It is likely to be subject to the actual situation, it may be that the two people are far away in reality, or the material conditions are much different, and then the parents of the two parties do not agree, so it is difficult to maintain an emotional foundation to the end.

Because the two people have lost their trust in each other, they can't continue to live the company of the world of fate.

Because disappointment is a momentary thing, even if the relationship is good, it can't resist the tiredness brought by disappointment.

After getting along for a long time and getting used to having each other in life, then the relationship is generally not bad

After getting along for a long time, we may not change, but we are getting closer and closer to our truest selves.