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First of all, let's talk about my personal experience, I was born in 98, and in 99 I was led back to my hometown and injured my left eye when I detonated a detonator while burning garbage. From then on, I joined the one-eyed crowd, a special but not special group, a group of people whose God has opened only one window into our world.
Elementary school,There's nothing else to do.,Classmates are in harmony with each other.,Although when talking and chatting with a friend in the toilet once,He said lightly.,Hey, why are you looking at the wrong eye.,I don't know why.,I hurriedly withdrew my eyes from him.,Alone shhhhhhh But overall, I had excellent grades in primary school and a kind personality, which was no different from others.
In junior high school, it was inevitable to introduce yourself and meet new classmates, but at that time, you gradually began to have the opinions of others. "Hey, why are you looking at me and her at the same time"; "Hahaha, squint-eyed boy" Yunyun.
Yes, this is how inferiority begins with one's own flaws, not one's own flaws, but the words of others that have to make oneself care about one's own flaws. But after a semester of familiarity, I have good buddies, and I will blush, be shy, and naturally dodge when I meet girls like normal boys. But in addition, there is no special feeling, study hard, graduate from junior high school in a trance every day, enter the city's national high school, and think about being admitted to a good book, simple.
High school, on the contrary, compared with junior high school, there is less verbal discrimination against others, although it is inevitable that there will be strange eyes of others at the beginning, but after being familiar with it, it is still classmates, it should be joking or open, it should be studied together or study together, live freely, review seriously in the third year of high school, and only be admitted to a science and engineering 211 university (but I am still more satisfied, and I am easily content with it hahaha).
University, the same routine, but the more I grow up, it is easy to care about other people's eyes, sometimes even if others don't say, but I will inexplicably think of other people's opinions of themselves, I can still think of the first meeting in college, everyone has to introduce themselves, I was still very nervous, the first time I cared so much about other people's feelings, the first time I didn't want others to find out what was different. College was the time when I was most concerned about my flaws, I never cared about my special identity as if I was blind in one eye, and I began to worry about my identity, or more importantly, about my love. (Yes, I'm still quite worried about how long my love will come, even though I'm still very young, hehehe).
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There is nothing wrong with being blind in one eye, and there is no need to feel inferior.
To be honest, I have never had low self-esteem. From elementary school to junior high school, I was very inspirational in line with the mentality of "one eye can do well", I have been proactive, optimistic and confident in life, my academic performance has always been among the best, and I participated in various recreational activities (speeches, singing, choral conducting, painting, sports meetings, etc.), and I should be able to be regarded as the school's man of the year to say it shamelessly.
Some of the naughty boys would call me a "one-eyed dragon" or "one-eyed woman" at first, but later they would respect me, and one of them even wrote me a love letter. (To be clear, respect is sometimes earned on your own.) )
Sports can be very bad, such as table tennis, the ball on the right is almost not catchable, not because you can't see it, but you may not be so responsive. But maybe it's not the fault of the blindness in the right eye.
Classical beauty, I thought first.
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