Why are many people who have survived the trough silent and silent?

People who have survived the trough will become silent and silent.

People who survive the trough are silent because they have no one to help them when they are at the trough, and they are even disliked by their relatives. At the trough, I have learned to be silent, no longer trust anyone, only myself.

No matter how much they talk about when they are at a low point, it is useless, because the people around them dislike and look down on them, and relatives, relatives, and friends are alienated from them, so that they can see through the warmth and coldness of people and the cold of the worldSo they don't explain themselves anymore, they can only remain silent, silently doing what they have to do, and don't expect anyone.

When you are at a low point, the people around you not only do not help you but also sarcastically mock you, but also want to step on you, at this time you no longer have too many words to the people around you, and meeting and talking to them is to torture yourself, they also dislike you so they don't want to meet and talk to you, some people even mock you in front of you or say bad things about you everywhere.

All of this makes you see through too much, the dislike of relatives, the insults of villains, etc. are no longer strange things for you, and you have seen it as a very normal thing. You can only remain silent, because you are at a low point, you are very weak, fighting with those villains is a waste of time, too many people are you downcast and bullying you, in the face of a group of villains, you alone can not fight with them, you can only stay away from them, and work hard to learn and improve yourself in silence!

In the process, you have suffered a lot of grievances, so you have become more and more silent, many things are not that you don't want to care, but you can't afford to care, you can only stay in the corner and grow silently. When you get out of the trough, your level is much higher than before, and naturally it is much higher than the people who used to bully you, and at this time, you will not bother with them, and you will also remain silent when you look down on those who used to look down on you, watching them fight back and forth.

Everyone who has survived the trough has experienced a lot of hardships and hardships, and they have worked very hard to get out of the circle of bad people and bad things, hoping that those who are in the trough can successfully get out of the trough.

People who have survived the trough can really become reticent. Let me tell you a real example of what happened to me.

When I was in graduate school, I had a fellow brother. When I first arrived, my brother had just entered his second year of graduate schoolAt that time, he was very enthusiastic about academics and had a very lively personality, and he chatted with us very much. But in the first semester of the third year of graduate school, the senior brother's ** refused several times, and the tutor didn't care about him.

The senior brother was depressed for a whileHe became more and more reticent, and sometimes he could not be heard a few words a day.

Later, my brother successfully graduated, and at the graduation dinner in our laboratoryI can clearly feel that he still doesn't like to talk much, and he is not in the same state at all. Watching his state change, as a bystander, I also feel distressed. Maybe reticenity is a way to protect yourself!

After all, no one can fully empathize.

Sometimes, life will inevitably be unsatisfactory, and there will inevitably be some pain and surroundings. For example: ** do not hit, do not meet talents, and do not get a response from people you like....... When these things come in a swarm, it is the low point of life.

In the face of a downturn, everyone has their own way of protecting and coping. Becoming reticent seems to be one of the most common ways. The older you get, the less talkative you seem to become.

Very few people can still not forget their original intentions after thousands of sails, and few people can be full of enthusiasm in the face of all kinds of abuse in life.

Everyone has a way to protect themselves, and all we can do is treat everyone with respect.

Hello, this should vary from person to person. If he is a cheerful person himself, he will continue to be cheerful if he survives the trough. If you are an introvert, a person who is not good at words. Even if he walks out of the trough of his life, he is still a silent teenager.

I have a friend who has done nothing in the past few years, and she has lost something. After the collapse of his own physical clothing store, he switched to online community sales, and the repurchase rate was very low.

After listening to the words of my relatives, I invested nearly 50,000 yuan to do a micro-business, but I couldn't do it for half a year.

She couldn't do business on her own, and she didn't make any money by investing in her friend's decoration and design shop.

Over the past few years, she has lost hundreds of thousands, she is very anxious all day long, which cannot be said to be white overnight, but her face is full of wrinkles, people's spirit has disappeared, she is laughing and eloquent all day long, she began to become silent and less talkative, facing mortgages, car loans, and children go to school, she had to start as a waiter, and then set up a stall to sell breakfast, survived the low point of life, and now she has become cheerful. Changed back to the same person she used to be.

People can't be in a hurry, the more they are at a low point, the more they must be calm. It is easy to make mistakes when you are in a hurry, and the "success experience" that seems absurd to ordinary people sounds like a treasure book to people who are in a hurry to get rich. Therefore, people who have survived the trough will not become silent, but will return to their former selves.

People who have experienced a low period will become silent and silent, because this person has survived the low period, which means that the heart is strong enough, so he will see through a lot in the face of some things.

1. People who go through the trough will become silent and silent, and some people may go through the trough period, if they don't get through it, then they will be slumped, but those who get through it will become very indifferent. I think this is a normal thing, because after going through a low period, my heart will become very strong, and I will not be easily defeated by some things, what will be worse than the low period? In addition, there are some people who have gone through the trough period and have seen through a lot of things, and will not bend their waists for life, but can only say that their enthusiasm is exhausted, so they will also give people a feeling of indifference.

Most people are often alone when they go through the trough period, they may have figured it out to get through the trough period, and they may have been relieved to get through the trough period, so this kind of person often doesn't care about some things in the future, and they don't care about some people who have nothing to do with themselves, so they will communicate with others with an indifferent appearance.

Second, people who have experienced the trough period have become silent and say little about the reason, and they will only see the rainbow after experiencing the wind and rain, these people in the trough period know how difficult life is, and they also know how fickle people's hearts are, so they will not easily put their hearts and talk about some private topics with others, which will make people feel that this person is very indifferent. But many people will become like this after going through a low period, because this is the transformation of people, and it is also the suffering that people have experienced. No one knows how these people are doing in the trough, and no one knows how these people survived the trough, maybe they only know that this person has changed, or even become more indifferent.

No one can count on you during the trough period, so when you get through the trough period, you will definitely not let others count on you. Finally, I hope that all people can get through the trough and make themselves stronger.

Hello, will become taciturn.

1. The pain at the trough is known only to yourself. After falling into a trough, the relatives and friends around you will also change, and may not be as close as before, some people will choose to support you firmly, but most people will choose to stay away. And when you are at a low point, everything you go through is very painful, and the pressure from all sides can make you very uncomfortable.

2. Only by surviving the trough can we usher in success. Many times we persevere for a long time without seeing the hope of success, and the process is long and sad. But maybe if you persevere a little longer, the window of success will open for you.

A lot of people are just missing the last step and don't get the success they want.

3. Only after experiencing a trough will you know how to cherish it more. If a person is smooth sailing and everything is going very well, then it is likely to reduce the sense of distress, and only after experiencing the setbacks of the trough can he make himself more sober and directional, and will know how to cherish more.

When going through a low point, many people are silent, but necessary communication is also needed, and communication with trustworthy people can give you different inspiration and gains, and also relieve inner anxiety and stress.

Life is unpredictable, and there are often many unpredictable things. After all, there are no dress rehearsals in life, there are live broadcasts every day.

People who survive the trough don't necessarily become reticent.

The valley of life. Whether people who have survived the trough will become silent or not is related to the following conditions.

The first situation has to do with the person's own personality.

If the person has always been an introvert, not good at talking, and good at doing things in his heart. He generally likes to be reticent. For such a person is more rational, in front of major events or after experiencing major events, or after surviving the emotional trauma of the trough period, after some setbacks in life, he will become more reticent, more inward-looking, more rational, and less silent.

The second situation is that there are some people who prefer this kind of rational and quiet person, and he hopes that he or his heart has always aspired to be such a person, and he thinks that doing things inward may be more mature. Then, such a person, when he experiences some low times or traumatic things or some emotional or life blows, he will become silent after that.

There are many paths in life.

I want to say to you that the real growth of a person who has survived the trough, the maturity after inner experience, is not the appearance of external behavior --- silence, but the real inner state of his person.

I hope to provide you with a different perspective on things and people.

Yes, because people who have survived the trough have become stronger, but they are often more broken. In the history of philosophy, there is a paradox of the ship of Theseus: if a ship sails on the sea, and every time it encounters damage to the ship, it is replaced with new wood, and until all the wood is not the original wood, is the ship still the same ship?

In times of low times, people are like ships sailing on the sea, and they encounter all kinds of breakage, so that they have to replace the wood.

The distance of friends will make you change the wood of righteousness; The indifference of classmates will make you change the wood of friendship; The reproach of your family will make you change your dependence on this piece of wood; The gossip of your neighbors will make you change the wood of enthusiasm; The departure of the other half will allow you to replace the piece of wood with a specific purpose.

In addition, there are all kinds of damages, perhaps unemployed, unskilled, poorly educated, socially poor, low self-esteem, out of the trough, sailing to the other side of the sea, it can be said that everything can be changed on the body, like the ship of Theseus. At this time, is he still the same person in the trough? He is stronger, has more abilities, more resources.

He is also more broken, and he no longer has illusions about the world. Those who have survived the trough are not silent and silent, but have no illusions. He left his illusions behind and prepared for battle.

After some people survive the trough period, they become silent and silent, not because they don't want to speak, but because they can't find someone who can really understand him, and they have seen through a lot of things, and they don't want to show themselves in front of others, so they will show their introverted side, which is very distressing. When people are at a low point, they need others to help themselves, but sometimes even family members are difficult to help, and only they can get out. When a strong person faces it and finishes all the hardships, there is no need for anyone anymore, so let's find out in detail!

People who are at a low point usually show feelings of depression and depression. Maybe he has asked others for help in some aspects, and they have ignored him, which breaks his heart, and even if he says a lot, others can't think about it, which is a normal situation. There are many people who, like Xianglin's sister-in-law, are looking for people to talk to after they have been hit, and what is the use of them after they finish speaking?

You still have to bear the consequences alone, others just listen to it as a joke, and no one takes it seriously. Even if you are optimistic and cheerful, there will be some bad experiences, the important thing is to learn to self-regulate, get through this hurdle, and come out.

There are two main reasons, the first is that you can't find a confidant. People are wonderful animals, and they can't get along with everyone, some people have been together for many years, but they can't really go to each other's hearts, and they won't feel so uncomfortable when they can have a confidant during the trough period. The second point is to see through the world.

In childhood, ordinary people have a lively personality and do not have any troubles, but as their abilities increase in adulthood, their perspective on things will also change. I found that the world is not as simple as I imagined, and my experience will be more mature, and I will slowly lose touch with the world.

Because these people have been hit too much, their personalities have become more calm, and they are not as impetuous as before, so they will be silent and say little.

There are many things that happen in people's lives, and some people become reticent after experiencing some things and then come to a big understanding. This is because of a change in personality.