Why is it said that men can look down on everything after they have survived the trough period?

1.After surviving the trough period, know how to restrain your emotions.

Heaven descends on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, and starve their bodies and skin ......

The more successful people are, the more they need to get through the trough.

It is normal to look down on everything, and there will be no more ups and downs in feelings, and no more temperament for people who should not be disturbed. The trials of life have taught many people to control their emotions and become resilient and stoic.

Some men themselves have a terminal illness and don't want to affect the living conditions of their wives and children, and they don't want their wives to be sad when they know about it, so they will bear it silently, and even find a reason for their wives to leave them and choose to live their last days quietly.

It seems that this practice is concerned about his wife and children, but in this way, it will make his wife sad and sad, but in fact, it is a cruel coldness, the wife needs her husband's company, and she hurts her wife, but thinks that it is better to have a long pain than a short pain, he is unhappy, and her unhappy things are not worth it.

As the male owner of the family, he should not choose to leave quietly, which will only make the other party more painful. There are some things that husband and wife need to face together, and her choice of companionship will make both parties feel more cherished of each other.

If a woman accompanies him through the trough period, then he will cherish this rare emotion.

If she walks with him through the wind and rain, if he looks down on him and it is not her fault that she drives her away, and she walks with him, he will be truly grateful to her, and he will look down on him if he does not accompany him, and he can no longer be entangled in grievances, and he will no longer be unable to think about it and have resentments.

The Buddha said: See through, let go, be at ease, and follow the fate. When you are proud, don't get carried away; When you are frustrated, don't be discouraged.

2.I have experienced the difficulties of the world and learned to let go.

Everyone has sad experiences, but some people don't say anything, everyone has a painful past, but some people don't say anything.

Blessings are incomparable, disasters are not one-way", and the consequences caused by oneself can only be solved by oneself.

A false consciousness can bring about a series of unpredictable consequences, and natural and man-made disasters affect each other. Someone went to drink because his career was not going well, and he was sentenced for drunk driving, and his business was not good, because the sentence went out of business all of a sudden, and he owed a lot of debts when he started his business.

I thought about waiting for the Chinese New Year to start all over again, but I didn't expect that there was another epidemic, and I couldn't save myself at all, the people I loved and the people who loved me all left, and at this time, I was shocked by high voltage but picked up a life.

After thinking about it for a few months of recuperation, I finally understood that life is inherently lonely, so why care too much. Not indulging, doing your own thing wholeheartedly, and fulfilling your responsibilities in a down-to-earth manner is the key to solving the problem, and you don't have to hold grudges against others.

During the trough period, you can only rely on yourself, there is no shortcut to get out of the trough, don't fantasize too much.

Indeed, when a man survives the trough period, he really looks down on everything, because when he is at a low point, some people and things will think very clearly.

Because men have seen the world in the trough period, experienced betrayal and divorce, and lost fame and fortune, after the trough period, they can see things clearly.

Because at this time, men already feel that there is nothing to defeat themselves.

There is a saying in life, "When a man survives the trough, he looks down on everything." The reason why I say this is because such a boy can control his emotions very well, and at the same time, it is as if he has been reborn from the fire. Whether it's family life or work, it's very light.

And for some things, he can also keep quiet and control his emotions. <>

As we all know, male friends will have this low period in their lives, which is a sign used to test male friends, and it is also an important process that represents a male friend from a boy to a man. Because many male friends are relatively naïve and immature, regardless of whether they have a family or not, they will follow their children and show all their emotions, which will affect their lives. But the trough period is a test of a man's will and persistence, and during this period, it is likely to be affected by the outside world.

But as long as the trough period is overcome, then such a male friend will become very tall, and he will have a different perspective on things. <>

In addition, many male friends have their own fears, but male friends who have survived the trough will not be like this. Because I feel that I don't have anything, it's worth being afraid of, and the pressure on my male friends at the trough is unimaginable to ordinary people. In addition, the trough period may be a time of ups and downs for male friends, so the personality will be more restrained, and it will be more calm, including everything they care about, in a very indifferent attitude.

Finally, I would like to say that in addition to male friends, female friends will also have corresponding low periods in their lives. The trough period is the most able test of a person's willpower, so when you encounter setbacks, you must restrain your emotions. In addition, if you feel that you are under more pressure, then you should communicate with other friends to share your pressure.

Otherwise, it is easy to have bad behaviors during the trough period, and even self-harm.

Because there is nothing more difficult than the trough period, during the trough period, you will see the warmth and coldness of people, and a person's mood will be very bad, and he will be able to think about it.

Because after he has passed the trough period, he will be able to clearly guide the people around him, which are worth paying and which are not, and he will also look down on some things and see some people clearly.

It's because they see it. I think that people come to this world just for a while. There's no need to be in such a bad mood, anyway, it's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be unhappy.

When I think a man is at a low point, what he needs is a chance to turn things around. Because when a man is in a low period, it does not mean that he will always be in a low period, and at this time an opportunity is needed to change.

At such times, what is most needed is the love and warmth of relatives and friends.

Understanding, comfort, and encouragement are often more important and valuable than money and material help at such times.

But it often backfires, and the more times like this, the more people dislike them. A cold eye and a cold word from relatives and friends can often break a man's heart like a knife.

No one can guarantee that they will have a smooth life for a lifetime, and everyone has bad luck.

None of this is a big deal, in fact, most people will have to go through these difficulties a few times in their lives.

The key is not to lose confidence and courage, to be able to regain confidence, to start all over again, from the ** fall to the ** get up from. 、

Where does this faith come from? Love and encouragement from family and friends.

If a man feels that even his dearest people dislike him and look down on him, if he feels that he is no longer needed, if he feels that he is looked down upon by his relatives, how can he still have the confidence to get up and start again.

When people are not going well and down, they are particularly fragile and sensitive.

More understanding, comfort and encouragement, and less boredom and disdain, in fact, is the best help for him.

Gu Long has a saying that says, and I feel that it makes a lot of sense

Women want to help men, not to help men work hard, but also to make this man feel that he is not looked down upon, he is needed, and he is the biggest support of this woman!

A woman who can read this sentence is mostly happy in life.

A man in the trough period most hopes for the company, encouragement, and encouragement from women, rather than all kinds of preaching and accusations, and may be able to help him with a warm word or a warm meal.

What men in the trough need most is the understanding, support and encouragement of their relatives and lovers, and they need to be considerate and understand themselves, rather than blindly complaining and ridiculing.

The woman was considerate of him. In general, a wise woman will be considerate of her man. Although it is natural for a man to take responsibility, if a woman can encourage her man when he is confused or at a low point, he can help him get through the difficulties.

What a man in the trough needs most is motivation and companionship, and he needs to be given some motivation to work hard, but he can't be blindly blamed.

Support and encouragement from women is needed. If it is a man who has already started a family, he needs the whole family to give him warmth.

If you need the company of your beloved woman, even if it's just by your side, it's good to be by your side and not do anything.

Of course, he needs the comfort and support of the other half, and this time is the time when he needs the comfort of others, and it can be said that the person who can spend time with him at this time will leave a lifetime in his heart.

Maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. You should communicate more with your friends, express your dissatisfaction, and ask your friends to go to scenic spots to relax.

He needs the encouragement and companionship of a woman, and he needs a woman to give her enough tolerance to accept his lowest appearance.

It's not that men can look down on everything after going through a low period, and women can also look down on everything after going through a low period. This is mainly because after going through hardships and tribulations, people gain experience from them and develop the will to see things clearly and see things through.

1.Because the so-called trough period is the most difficult time in life, everyone has the most difficult experience, of course, the most is the test of life and death. For example, if a person suddenly knows that he has a terminal illness and survives through a series of efforts, then his experience of the low point of life makes him understand that everything is insignificant except life and death.

If a person can survive the trough and do not start to improve his wisdom, he will suddenly become enlightened. He will despise life, and treat fame, wealth, money, beauty, etc. as floating clouds, including the woman he once loved the most. , are all temporary illusions, not real changes, and will fall into the cycle of reincarnation again.

2.Because human life is precious, finite, and fragile. We don't know what kind of hardships we will encounter in life, nor what will happen tomorrow.

It is said that people have disasters and auspiciousness, and the heavens and the earth are unpredictable. It's a fact. Once a person has reached the lowest point, that is, the most vulnerable period of his life, if he goes through the most difficult period after going through the tribulation, everything will be downplayed and relieved, because the reborn person finally understands.

Now, in front of life, fame, fortune and wealth are floating clouds, and everything is insignificant.

3.After experiencing it, you will understand that when a person has gone through the unforgettable trough of his life, especially after experiencing life and death, he will suddenly open up and look at everything in the world very indifferently. This is because except for life and death, people, everything is insignificant, health is one, everything else is zero, if one is gone, zero has no meaning.

Therefore, all friends should cherish health and life, stop quarreling for fame and fortune, asking for trouble, stop fighting for money and beauty, but be grateful, content, and happy for a lifetime!

Everyone's trough period is also an important turning point in life, and it is also a period of psychological maturity. In this period, the individual does not dare to think and is willing to fall. After this time, most of them will sum up their experience, learn from their lessons, and develop according to their own strengths.

First of all, because men themselves are very rational. So when they come across something very difficult and get through it, he takes everything lightly.

It's because during the trough you can see human nature clearly, you can understand who really likes you and who doesn't like you.

It's because men have already had a lot of holes in their hearts, and if there is no one to help them during the trough, they will be disappointed in the people around them.

There is such a ** on Douyin, a female anchor said that a man must not be allowed to survive the trough alone, because once he survives this trough period, he will take everything lightly, including the woman he once loved the most.

It's very touching and very reasonable.

Every man's heart is not born like iron, marriage, family, love, career, any thing can make a man bow his arrogant head.

There is another amazing thing: that is, blessings never come together, and disasters never go alone.

A loved one dies, a loved one leaves,

Career setbacks, physical injuries,

When all these bad things come together, how many people can really stay with the man?

A man's parents can accompany him, but every man's inner self-esteem absolutely does not allow him to show his weak side to his parents.

A man's lover can accompany him, but when a man who is at a low point is not as considerate and attentive as before, and rarely has the heart or energy to fall in love again and maintain that relationship. How many people can stay with this man?

How many people are there who stay and can accompany the man to heal the wound?

And at this time, the man's heart may think like this: This thing has been bad to this extent, good! I'll see how bad you can be?!

So there will be two kinds of men:

One is decadent, and I don't want to say a word more about this kind of person

A kind of re-being a human being, but becoming hard-hearted. In this way, a strong man with a heart like iron was created.

And once a man is emotional, he is invulnerable

And an invulnerable man, that means no pole Tailai,

Maybe after this trough period, a man's career will usher in a new peak, this man will earn more money, a man may attract more people of the opposite sex, and this man may become a successful person in the eyes of relatives and friends.

If you don't accompany you at sunset, who are you when the sun rises?

Maybe the woman he once loved deeply at this time will also ask him affectionately: Do you still love me?

I believe that men will still be very determined: I still love you, very much. But it's not about you.

Maybe at this time, the woman he once loved deeply would ask him sadly: Do you rest assured that I am alone?

I believe that a man with a heart like iron will be like this: I am not at ease, I am worried. But what does it have to do with me?

Every woman wants her man to be like a lion, but all lions are always lonely.

Girls, please be kind to the boyish men around you who love you so much.