Emotional Hurt Why is she clinging to that untenable relationship and unwilling to be with me.

Updated on society 2024-06-10
59 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    On this issue, in fact, to be honest, you think your conditions are better, but the girl is still a student, and the things that girls who are studying are relatively simple, and they are more emotional than rational. She still likes that c, which proves that she is still more innocent about feelings, because most of what girls think is love, and when she loves, she is generally more persistent, and she hopes to have a beginning and an end. And C just graduated, everything about him hasn't stabilized yet, of course the girl will know that he can't start with C as soon as he goes out, it's impossible!

    As for you, you've been out for a long time, your mind and society have been connected, and you are mature and rational in thinking about problems, but you are also out of the school truth! As for you, there is no hope, keep the clouds open and see the moon! You're right, most of them will be separated after graduation, anyway, now that girl is still studying, and if you continue to like it, it will be successful!

    But if you don't want to wait, find something else before it's too late! Hehe, I'm still studying, but I'm almost out of college. I'm leaving!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Feelings, this cannot be measured by external conditions, and what you see is not necessarily what the girl sees.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You belong to unrequited love, the twisted melon is not sweet, we are big men, don't do this for a woman, whether she is happy or not is in her own hands, you can't interfere, don't be their third party, find your own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The loved never knows happiness.

    No matter what attitude she has, she is stubborn.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no eternal commotion, but the favored one has no fear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The human heart can hold a person, and it can also hold a world. Try to put your heart open. I wish you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can only say that you are stupid. Is it worth it to spoil yourself so much for someone who can't give you happiness? It's still your own problem, not his. People tell you that there is no result, and you are still entangled in not leaving. I just want to say to you, very stupid and naïve.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he has given you so many good memories.

    Those sad memories are selectively amnesiac by you.

    What suffering for himself, memories are just memories. Be brave and pursue the next happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because I have loved, I can't let go, I can't give up, I don't want to ......Attachment is only a momentary thing, persistence is also a momentary thing, letting go is also a momentary thing, the idea is to see if your own mentality can bear that weight.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because in your heart, there is always the shadow of that person, you can use time to forget, or keep the shadow of that person, let it become the driving force for your study and life, in fact, the memory of that person in your heart, although it will be a little painful, but it may not be all bad, let it be, emotional matters are not urgent, and finally I wish you to find a home as soon as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think about your parents, they raised you so much, just to make you cheap to someone who doesn't love you, and how filial you are to your parents in that time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because I didn't get his love, if I got it, I wouldn't cherish it, and I wouldn't be so nostalgic.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's easy! You still like him!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because you paid, he didn't give you the same return, so you are subconsciously unwilling.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The authorities are fascinated by love, and when they look back a few years later, they will find that it was not worth it at that time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's very simple, just one word, love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm bothered by this as much as you do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It can only be said that it is cheap. Not against anyone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You have to be flexible, like investing, don't put all your eggs, that is, the focus of your life, in one basket, that is, well-rounded, focused selection.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Like you, I'm such a person, but as long as I find the right person for you, I will naturally let go.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't dare to love if I want to love, and I am timid and afraid of being hurt. The more she talks, the more I want you to get to know her.

    Then take your time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The woman who took the initiative to find it, men generally don't cherish it, the so-called women chasing men, the next layer of mountains. Whether you think it or not, you have to die. Even if you have nothing to do, you have to die. If you want to enrich yourself, do your job well, or volunteer and help others.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to avoid it, it's impossible.

    At most, it's about reducing that damage.

    If you want to die completely.

    Look at how hard you've been hit.

    You can go to the cause first and try to create your own conditions, but if the blow is severe, you generally have no motivation at all, and everything you do is in vain.

    If you feel tired, it's better to find a game and indulge in it!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Eat, go shopping, and get a few friends to eat together, have a little wine, and talk about happy things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Learn something you love, like dancing, playing a musical instrument, drawing...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Give up, people who don't love you, it's useless for you to cling to.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Dare to love and dare to hate the performance, love supremacist, love above all else, don't care what the future result is, just want to be able to carry the hand of the child at the moment, this emotional attitude is very warm, very emotional, but lack of rational thinking, easy to lose yourself, live for others, you are easily hurt,,, listen to the opinions of friends, don't drill the horns, this kind of obsession is a manifestation of extremes, you can discuss with a very close friend, let ta analyze the situation for you from the perspective of a bystander,, Those you think are reluctant, you can't let go,,, will eventually be buried by time, but you will be very uncomfortable at the moment, remind again, don't you are yourself, live for others.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm just like you, once you like someone, whether it's right or wrong, whether it's right or wrong, whether it's right or not, you'll like him, and you'll be very persistent.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In my most beautiful years, I met the love of you, when we laughed and cried together, and we also remembered our love. I have experienced the sadness of the years, the cruelty of fate, my pain and thoughts can only be hidden in the bottom of my heart, no one cares, no one cares, no one pity.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I'm like you, if you love, you love, if you don't love, you don't love, we are all too kind and naïve.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's about the same as me. It's always us who get hurt. Go back early.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's because you're more persistent. Once you decide that you must insist, endure it yourself.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because you have deep feelings for him, you are reluctant to leave.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, it means that you are too stupid and have no opinions.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you think so, if you can comfort others, why can't you comfort yourself?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everyone knows that they will get hurt, and everyone has no hesitation.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because you are an emotional person.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's not your fault that you're obsessed, it's the wrong direction, and you have to learn to change the direction. Good luck!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    This is the character, and it can't be changed.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's nothing for people who deserve it, I'm afraid you'll do this to everyone.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Show that you love him more than he loves you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    A friend of mine* committed suicide by jumping off a building for her daughter!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Be brave, but also depend on whether the other party is worth it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    There is no why! Because that's you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Maybe one is that your private life is empty, you don't have your own ideals and goals, you don't know what this relationship can bring you, but you feel that this relationship is all you have; There is also personality, this can't be helped, I can only advise you to find a pen and paper, write down the reasons why you want you to be together, and what this relationship has brought you; There is another one, you love him, he doesn't love you, you know what you love him, but you don't know what he wants, you try to catch him, he tries to break free of you. [Personal opinion only].

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Go for it! Growing up in divorced conditions and taking care of her mother alone, she has a strong appearance! But at the same time, you have a more fragile heart, you need more care and love, come on, give her more love, you will be happy.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    That's right, since they all kissed, it means that she has a good impression of you. But as a girl, her sense of safety is not strong enough, but you are too eager. This feels a bit unreliable, so your love for her should not be impulsive, don't pursue speed, and take your time. Because his parents are divorced, she should still be a little wary of men, and she is afraid that you will be like his father in the future.

    Because I love you, I will be afraid of losing you. If you love her, you should be more sensible.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    She is supposed to like you, but because of the childhood shadow does not believe in love and marriage. You pursue her bravely, and make it clear that you will always love her.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    She also said that she was afraid that she couldn't give you enough care, not that she didn't like it, but she was just afraid. The reason is the divorce of the parents.

    What you have to do now is to accompany her, and wait for her to slowly open up and gradually disappear the shadows.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's not together if you've kissed, you're really good at playing, and if you're not together after kissing, what do you treat each other for.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Dude, she's just tangled and hesitant, you don't put pressure on him, take your time, you also know her family situation.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    I like to play ambiguous, and I have to make an excuse for myself.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    He's testing you! I think he cares about you too, so keep up the good work!!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You can't give her the life she wants.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The divorce of your parents has left a shadow!

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Interesting, didn't you find out that she was thinking about you?

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Reluctant, unwilling, I don't know how to let go Since I know it's impossible, then be resolute Long pain is better than short pain Now try to let go Shift the target Maybe you're just stuck in it and can't pull it out Maybe one day you will remember it and won't feel very painful You are like a friend of mine Knowing that it is impossible and continuing to entangle She is still tired to death I am tired to look at it But she just can't let go of it Stuck in Time will smooth everything out.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Long pain is better than short pain, and attachment will only make you more sad. Rational choices are made so that they do not bring suffering later.

    As long as you have fought for it and owned it, then it's fine, this is life.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Because the more you can't get it, the more you want it, it's human nature, and it's the same emotionally. I understand you very well, but there won't be a next time after this time. The more you pay, the more you look forward to the return, no matter what kind of return, even if you say thank you, if you don't achieve your goal and bottom line, then = reluctant.

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