In love, how to choose between material and spiritual? 5

If you really think he's a good marriage partner, take advantage of it, there's nothing wrong with paying attention to materialism, society is realistic, and I think you still like him a little, don't miss it, really. If you really don't like him, don't force yourself. Think about it and make a decisive decision.

Think about you are very tired of falling in love with him now, marriage is a lifelong thing, the future days are you and him, not your mother and no one else, you have the confidence that you can deal with it like this for a lifetime, then insist, if you can't, give up quickly, don't delay others and yourself, love needs the support of bread, but will bread be delicious without love? In this life, money, fame, and status do not bring about life, and death is not found, and happiness is the most important thing.

In any case, matter is the cornerstone!! Unless he has the potential you are willing to believe in, but this society is difficult ... It's too dark. Be pragmatic, not like money, money worship is to consider realistic things. Poor couples mourn everything.

Is it good that greed is not enough to swallow an elephant?

The better the man, the better he is, this is inevitable. It's not just about money. If one day you meet the person who is almost perfect in your heart, I believe that person will never bother to look at you.

If a man loves this woman, tolerant, tolerant, considerate, gentle, everything needs a premise, that is, you are the woman I love, a woman who is "obedient" and belongs to me alone.

This world is inherently free and equal. When you want to get something, you have to pay relatively equally, this is inevitable.

Matter is the foundation, and spirit is food.

Freedom and equality are very important, and you can do your best to achieve them on the terms, but you feel in your heart that the relationship is unequal, will it be easy in the future?

Although everything is now based on material, at the same time, it is necessary to find the right person at the right time to draw this circle. Extravagant feelings can't go too far!

No matter if you fall in love or get married, it's good to be happy.

What is love without bread? Looking for someone to rely on.

I think it's possible, maybe not two at the beginning at the same time, but through the joint efforts of two people, it is finally possible to have both material and spiritual dependence. It may also have something to do with your age or life status when you were in a relationship.

At the beginning, you may be people who are still struggling, and the encounter under the coincidence allows you to find the person who understands your joys and sorrows, at that time you may even rely on each other's spirit, all kinds of ups and downs in the struggle process will be less terrible because of the company of your ta, and one day you can rely on your own efforts to obtain material satisfaction, and the relationship will be more firm in the process.

If your love happens at a stage where both of you have a certain material foundation, then you may be appreciating each other because you have common topics or something. But because there is a certain economic foundation, in the process of falling in love, you may not be tied up by some trivial things in life, you may be more than a spiritual exchange, in the relationship with each other better to know each other, so as to determine whether the other party can accompany the person for a lifetime, determined, that person is your spiritual support, you will be used to doing things before discussing with him, will be the first to think of him when needed, will understand each other, mutual understanding, the best state of love is not more than this.

Falling in love can be both material and spiritual.

But it still depends on who each other is in love with.

When falling in love, can you have both material and spiritual support? This situation is of course the best, and it is possible to possess and be auspicious in material things, and to obtain spiritual satisfaction. But the possibility of both is too small.

Not for nothing, of course. It's just that the results of not having both fish and bear's paws are too much.

Yes, if you find a boyfriend who is rich and loves you, you can have material and spiritual support.

Summary. The spirit that a woman says refers to the part where two people like each other and know each other. Material refers to the other party's family economic conditions, and how the other party can give themselves a better life in the future.

Of course, the body refers not only to sexual relations, but also to the basis of all material life. Many blind dates are at this stage, such as understanding the other party's household registration, job, age, income, family situation, etc., so as to consider whether to develop further.

When in love, spirit + material + body means:

The spirit that women say refers to the part of two people who like each other and get to know each other in the midst of each other's hunger. Material refers to the other party's family economic conditions, and how the other party can give themselves a good life in the future. Of course, the body refers not only to sexual relations, but also to the basis of all material life.

Many blind dates are at this stage, such as understanding the other party's household registration, job, age, income, family situation, etc., so as to consider whether to develop further.

Material love refers to the fact that men and women are in love with each other, and they attract each other with material and money. Spiritual love refers to the fact that the basis of love between men and women is to attract each other by virtue of their personal character, temperament, knowledge, character, values, personality charm, etc. Material love is more about producing physical reactions.

For example, because the other party gives material or money, the sense of gain or vanity is greatly satisfied, and many beautiful or unforgettable memories are stored. A man and a woman who are united through material love, there are three directions for a future marriage. First, the family has stable material and money**, and after marriage, the reality and spirit of both parties are integrated to maintain the stability of the marriage.

Second, the family has stable material and money**, and the two parties cannot achieve spiritual integration after marriage, and the two parties are separated from each other, and the marriage is in name only. Thirdly, the family loses its stable material and money**, and the spiritual integration cannot be achieved after marriage or partially realizes spiritual integration, and the marriage will collapse, because the roots of duckweed are very shallow and drifting.

Spiritual love often produces chemical reactions. For example, being fascinated by the other person's conversation, voice, and behavior can lead to the production of new chemicals in the body. Substances produced by chemical reactions can refresh the genetic information carried by human cells, enrich genetic information, and may become the information carried by the body permanently.

That's why spiritual love is often unforgettable. A man and a woman who are united through spiritual love are like the roots of two trees intertwined together, and the marriage is stable and solid, and both parties can share joys and sorrows. In this era of materialistic desire and money worship, in this era of fast food culture, in this era of self-expansion, in this era of frequent new concepts, the traditional value system is eroded little by little, and the love of both men and women is becoming less and less, more and more precious and expensive, and will it finally become a distant fairy tale?

The combination of the three views is the most important thing, and if the three views are not together, they will not be able to live together, and sooner or later there will be problems, because they are not people of the same world.

The material conditions in love can be fought for, but if the three views are not in harmony, it will be very difficult to live in the future.

If each other is firm enough, understanding and considerate enough, then it will make each other better and better, and the emotions will become more and more firm.

I think it is mutual tolerance, only two people know how to understand each other, tolerate each other, and respect each other, then this kind of love will last longer, and it will also make two people get along more harmoniously.

Personal feeling is more important than material conditions is suitability, because in a relationship, two people can keep the relationship going on for a long time.

The more important thing is love, with love, two people will have feelings, and after getting married, they will have a more stable and happier family.

More important than material conditions is character, a person with good character can always be with you, will not do things that hurt you, and will be willing to work hard for you instead of being lazy to do, and people with good character can have a future.

More important than material conditions is the relationship between two people, if the relationship between two people is good, they will overcome all difficulties together.