What if you say the wrong thing and others use it to expose you?

Let him be. Villains are everywhere, and you can't control them.

Let them say go. Be yourself and leave him alone.

Hello, in the interaction between people, it is inevitable to say the wrong thing, if the other party pulls this sentence to lift your shortcomings, you don't have to be with him in general, you can laugh at yourself since childhood, and generally end the entanglement with him with jokes, because there is no need to make small mistakes to really get to the bottom of the matter, jokes are jokes, but if you ridicule or belittle the meaning, then it's another matter.

If you say the wrong thing, if others use it to expose your shortcomings, then it shows that this person's quality is a problem, and everyone has the time to say the wrong thing! You can explain that if it doesn't work, you can ignore it!

Don't do it, it only takes a moment to see through him, just let him be sarcastic, we just need to look at him quietly, I admit that I was wrong, but the person who grabbed me wrong, are you brushing your own sense of existence, superiority? If you can only be happy by striking others, I can only give you a look, although I am also sad and unhappy to listen (; But you've behaved like that, I'll just try to stay away.

If you are faced with such a thing, I think you can directly refute him, because he must not like you very much, or he caught this shortcoming of yours, so you can directly refute it.

Calm down, laugh it off, let them say it, talk about it more times, and it won't be interesting, as long as you don't care what he says, it's not interesting.

Such a person is not worthy of friendship, and then if you think what he said is wrong, you can just go back, he won't give you face, and you don't have to give him face.

It's okay to ignore him, the more you ignore him, the more energetic he becomes, so there's no need to argue with him about this.

If you say the wrong thing, others will use it to expose your shortcomings. It depends on what is being said, if it is just that it doesn't hurt or itch, they just say it, and listen to it as a joke.

If you're like that kind of person, either you just go back to your face and don't blame the other party's stinky problems, or you can just go into those people who are far away, and you don't have to deal with them completely.

Don't care too much about other people's eyes, just change your mistakes, whatever.

I think this is also very simple, you can directly say about his transfer, as long as you say it, he will definitely know it directly, or he also understands it in his heart.

No need to confess! This kind of thing is not helpful for your blind date, but may affect the other party's impression of you! There is a zinc radium in a panic.

For this kind of person who likes to find you wrong and expose your shortcomings, don't talk to others. The other party is the one who cares.

Then laugh at yourself, it's not a big deal, who hasn't done it wrong?

I feel that if you encounter this situation, you must not be too weak, and you must use some relevant words to protect your legitimate rights and interests in a timely manner.

If you say something wrong, others will expose your shortcomings, and you can take the initiative to admit your mistakes before others expose them.

In this case, the best way to do this is to laugh at yourself.

He said that you might as well admit your shortcomings. You admit it, what else can he do, everyone can see the shortcomings on the surface, and do you need to expose it?

If your privacy is revealed, you can accuse him that the person you said is not a short disclosure, but just a well-intentioned ridicule, don't take it to heart.

Don't say anything, and don't get angry

Simple Laugh it off.

If that's too much.

You just reply to him, you don't give a face.

It's very simple, just say that you are fat, you can directly transfer the contradiction, you can jokingly say: I knew that I was born in the Tang Dynasty. (The Tang Dynasty was beautiful with fat). In this way, the contradiction will be eased, and the siege can be solved for everyone.

When faced with contradictions, learn to shift the focus of the topic, but remember to go-for-tat...

It's going to be a little embarrassing, but I'll probably excuse myself with self-deprecation.

Don't get angry in front of everyone, otherwise it may be more embarrassing, and you can only laugh it off, and say that it is good to be healthy

There is no need to endure it, there is no need to endure it. And thou shalt speak of him, and thou shalt say, Thou shalt be in charge? You're nosy.

Pay attention not to discuss the right and wrong of the problem, don't talk about this issue, just don't worry about him, in the other way to say that he is wrong, you have to teach him a lesson, he will not dare to say it in the future, but it is good to target one person, don't say it to everyone, and you must be assertive.

Gladly accepted.

Then praise that the man is really good at talking, whether he eats poop in the morning or something.

See what he has to say. If he's really excessive. Then you don't have to take care of his feelings anymore, he doesn't care about your feelings, and you can turn your face.

Also, don't turn your face, you're just upset, and then ignore him, hehe. He will feel that he is wrong.

Straight from the ground, pick up the stone and throw it.

You tell him that he has a moral problem and needs to self-reflect, especially if he has time to blame others, it is better to go home and think about himself!

Expressionless!

But not angry, sometimes he may not be clear about the feelings of others, but we should also be good at accepting other people's opinions.

Only listen, you're welcome, he's not more ugly.

When others are exposing my shortcomings, I feel very embarrassed, indicating that I have shortcomings, I have to think about it, why there are shortcomings to reveal, indicating that I am not good enough, I must study hard, master knowledge, master science and technology to improve myself, overcome shortcomings, I have shortcomings, and take exposing shortcomings as a kind of motivation.

It can be understood that you are envied.

Or maybe the person has too much negative energy.

This situation should be faced with a smile.

It is the best criticism of the other party.

Don't pay too much attention to it, no one is perfect, everyone has advantages and disadvantages. The mouth is someone else's, and love to say what to say. Be the truest and happiest yourself.

Don't let external influences add to your psychological burden. Try to change your own shortcomings, and there is no need to debate with them. If you don't like to hear it, you can avoid it, and if you can't hear it, you won't be annoyed.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, no one behind anyone's back, say go, don't live under the opinion of others, that's really tiring, do a good job of yourself, just have a clear conscience.

Ignore him, he's just a clown who likes to base his happiness on other people's pain, and it's not worth it to bother with him.

The gentleman doesn't fight for a long time, let him take it if he picks it up, don't conflict with him, it's just a little uneasy on your face, the more you don't argue, the more self-cultivation you seem, the manly husband is generous, don't have a small belly.

I think everyone should deal with this situation differently, my words are to face it calmly and laugh it off, but some people like to compete with others, so they will reply to him, and then hurt each other, and some people will feel ashamed, embarrassed and run away, and some may be able to educate others in turn.

It depends on how high your EQ is, if your EQ is high, you can fight back in a way that doesn't hurt the atmosphere, if your EQ is low and your mouth is stupid, you might as well think about what shortcomings the other party has, just go back, if this can't be done, send him a sentence You are sick, end the fight.

First of all, I will control my emotions, not get excited, treat this person with a normal heart, especially in public, and pay more attention to my image. If what he said about my shortcomings and privacy was just gossip, and not slanderous, I could have done my best to show my demeanor and not have anything to do with him. If what he said violated the basic principles and slandered my innocence, I would euphemistically state my position and principles on the spot, and then find a time to communicate with him alone, hoping that he would not do it next time, and inform him of the truth of being a human being, that he should have a moral heart and a sense of public morality, and should not speak with a clear conscience, and if a similar situation happens next time, I will use legal means to protect my legitimate rights and interests.

Finally, in my daily life, I should first be strict with myself, do not borrow other people's shortcomings, do not talk about others behind my back, look at the people around me objectively, be good to myself, and do my own work.

What does it look like to be very connected? The relationship is good, forget it, right? Don't be scheming with him, be magnanimous.

Ignore it, see what the relationship is, and if the relationship is good, it will be dispersed.

Of course, you also expose his shortcomings

Soft belly, everyone will do this, then this kind of person, his heart may be unbalanced, so for this kind of person, you can ignore him, or when he exposes your shortcomings in public, you can smile at him, which not only shows that you are generous, but at the same time, it can also be contrasted, his careful eyes. It's not a person's shortcomings that are scary, it's a person's heart. I used to have a time when I was exposed by others, I thought I would never see anyone again, but then I found out that others don't care about me, your shortcomings may be laughed off, only you really care about yourself, and since you have found out, then, make up for it.

Your colleague must not be kind-hearted, and he is narrow-minded, with low EQ and IQ, he is a person with bad character, but through this incident, you also know his character, and ignore him in the future.

At least his short time as a general manager is better than saying bad things about you behind your back, you can reflect on it, is there this problem? If there is, you have to correct it, if not, you don't need to argue with him, he says bad things about you, others know what kind of person you are in their hearts, and they won't believe him because of his words.

I know how you feel, and so do I.

It is recommended to listen more and talk less outside, and think more about problems from the perspective of others.

Don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs in life, don't expose people's shortcomings, don't talk about other people's privacy, and think for a few seconds before speaking.

Don't exaggerate: Hyperbolism is detrimental to truth and can easily cast doubt on your perception. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your strengths in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts oneself, and the result is that others look down on oneself more.

Don't lie and break your promise: Lying to your friends and colleagues will lose the trust of your friends and colleagues, which is our biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

If you offend others, apologize sincerely.

People should not be afraid of mistakes, where there is no wrong, and slowly find themselves from their mistakes, so that they can become better.

Talk less, listen more, think more, and think more about it yourself through other people's ways of doing things, and what will happen to you in exchange for yourself, and it will be good for a long time.

I'm also one of those people, it doesn't matter if you say the wrong thing to someone close to you, because they understand you, and people you don't know will be silent.

You are an unsociable person, if you can't speak, you will talk less, and you will learn more when others say.

Understand you: It's all in plain sight.

Then you should be clear about your attitude, let him know that you are not something you can be bullied casually, let him know that it is very uncivilized and impolite to talk like this, even if you have an opinion, you can put it forward reasonably, and you will accept it humbly, hoping that he can respect others.

If he wants to scold you, he will definitely find your shortcomings, you can say that he is nitpicking, and then you can grab a sentence from his words to sarcastically say that he is not right.

If someone says something to you that you are particularly unhappy about, it means that he doesn't like you very much, or he has caught this one of you and you should still refute him.

If that's the case, I think you can directly refute it, because if he scolds you, it means that he is disrespectful to you, or he has no bottom in his heart, so he will say this about you.

In this case, if it's just that kind of simple thing, there is not much conflict, and we also take advantage of some of his weaknesses to scold him. You can't sulk for no reason, and if he's particularly aggressive, we can even just say something very bad. Let him remember that we are not to be trifled with.

The mouth grows on others, you can't stop it, some people say a lot of vicious things behind their backs, in fact, it's not aimed at you, but he will talk about it, this is this person's problem. If you hear it, and you feel frustrated yourself, then he has succeeded, so just block out the words of these people, you just need to remember the advice given to you by your best friends or parents, and no one else needs to pay attention to it.

Talk less, do more, and if you think of a sentence in the time it takes to say two sentences, then you shy away from being twice as wise as before.

Keep your mouth shut, think twice before you speak, and say what you should and shouldn't say. I'll talk about it after I think it through.

This phenomenon is very realistic and normal, wherever there is a crowd there are left, center, and right, as long as you firm up your personal choice and accomplish things that are impossible for ordinary people, slowly, after a long time, they will shut up. There is no need to worry about those calculations, meaningless controversies and empty talks.