Is it worth touting for a person like Sanmao Haizi who takes extreme actions in life?

I don't think people who take extreme actions in life are worth bragging. Because life needs to be exciting, extreme behaviors are generally only done by people with psychological problems. I think it's a sign of being responsible for your own life.

Their extreme behavior is not worth boasting about, but it should not be criticized. Because each of them has their own different fate, which is all predestined in the dark.

Life is precious, so their suicidal behavior is not worth bragging. But we can't be overly disparaged, because we don't really understand what they're going through, so we shouldn't comment on it.

Of course it's not worth pursuing, it's too sad and unrealistic.

You can't let go because you give true feelings and love her, even if she betrays you, you still don't want to let go. It's more of an unwillingness, always hoping for the expected result, that is, she can change her past wrongs, put her heart on you as much as she did when she first met, and care more about you.

I don't know if you've seen the five languages of love? You and she definitely disagree on this. You both love each other in your own way, not in each other's preferred way.

The five love languages are:

Love language 1: Words of affirmation.

Love Language 2: Meticulous moments.

Love language 3: Accept gifts.

Love Word IV: The Act of Service.

Love Whisper with Lu Wu: Physical contact.

For you, careful moments are the main way, and you like to be tired of being with her.

For her, words of affirmation are the main way, and she likes you to praise her and give her verbal affirmation.

Betrayal is often a way that others can give her, saying to her, you are so good, you are so beautiful, sweet words, three or two sentences and she will get carried away.

She'll regret it afterwards because she doesn't have feelings for him, and in short, she's just out there looking for your stingy sweet words, or rather, being knocked down by sweet words all at once.

And your later suspicion makes your relationship worse, and it enters a vicious circle. You will be tired of speaking ill of each other and hurting each other.

It is advisable to separate for a while, be quiet with each other, and allow time to repair each other's wounds. After a week, communicate about the language of love.

Can I help you? I'm not talented, I'm a psychology major.