What kind of consequences will an introverted personality bring to fate?

Introversion is often considered synonymous with timidity, lack of sociability, and lack of self-confidence. There are also those who believe that extroverts are more likely to succeed. However, Jennifer Conviler, an American human resources expert, pointed out in the book "The "Quiet" Struggle of Introverts" that certain characteristics of introverts, such as emphasis on depth and clarity and accuracy, make them more likely to become excellent leaders.

According to the survey, 40% of U.S. company executives are introverts, including Bill Gates.

Swiss psychologist Carl Jung believed that extroverts can get psychological energy from socializing; Introverts are more likely to gain strength in solitude or a few intimate relationships, and too much socializing can drain their mental energy and make it difficult for them to feel at ease. American writer Susan Kane, in her book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a Turbulent World", talks about how introverts don't have to disguise themselves because introverts can achieve great things.

The strength of introverts comes from "quietness". They always think first, then speak, and think deeply; They are good listeners, attentive, and able to dig deeper; They pay attention to written communication and can express their positions more clearly and accurately; They don't waste much energy on socializing and can handle pressure. Therefore, introverted bosses are good at listening to employees, and are more understanding and relatable than extroverted bosses; They are thoughtful in their decision-making, busy and not chaotic, and are more likely to be trusted by their team.

Of course, introverts have their own suitable fields, such as scientific research fields that require careful thinking, creative fields and management fields that require delicate feelings. And sales areas that rely on eloquence and a sense of competition and fast-paced **, etc., are not necessarily suitable for introverts.

Introverted and withdrawn people can be divided into two factors: one is congenital and the other is acquired. Congenital is mainly affected by family or family environment and genetic factors.

The acquired is an inferiority complex caused by injury. Distrust of people, or can't find someone to talk to, don't want to talk to and close yourself off. No matter who it is, including "introverted and withdrawn" people, they like people who are lively and can communicate.

In fact, it shows that it is nothing more than a problem of one's own psychology and mentality. Take the initiative to greet people at more points. Don't dwell on small things, be enthusiastic about helping others, and increase your self-confidence.

When you feel that the people around you are enthusiastic about you, you will unconsciously get out of the "introverted and withdrawn".

Don't dare to show yourself, can't seize opportunities. In his life, he can only do nothing, shrink his hands and feet, do not know how to innovate independently, and it is difficult to gain a foothold in society. LZ better change yourself sooner rather than later. Pure hand fighting, begging.

If someone says that you are introverted, it means that this person looks down on you I think there is no distinction between inside and outside as long as you are good at learning a variety of different knowledge, literature, economics, philosophy, improve your understanding of the nature of human beings, you can enrich your language ability Take the initiative to talk about the people and things you encounter Of course, you want to learn faster It is best to go to the table alone when you go to your relatives Eat to see how people eat Static is not moving like a mountain Moving is like flowing water In short, keep a learning mentality every day Don't pay attention to people who don't meet well A person's advantages are limited It's just that sometimes this kind of physiognomy can be produced After learning this person, there is not much use value Low-key and careful people are the most likable High-profile work and low-key life I have knowledge, I am not afraid of others Making friends on Weibo is also learning from each other It is not worth learning from me, there is no need to be friends Knowledge can change fate.

There are few friends, they dare not contact the society, and they are weak. I can't find a good job, I can't find a suitable girlfriend, dear, I think it's good!

Will quietly observe the personnel changes around him, cold on the outside and hot on the inside, and pay attention to details. Fate is hard to say, when it will change God knows. Introversion, like extroversion, has its own advantages and disadvantages, self-feeling, introverts live rationally, extroverts live sensuality.

Every personality makes a different person! Extroverts may be better at interpersonal communication! Introverts may be better at academic research! So it's up to you to know and make use of it!

The consequence of an introverted personality is that people with an extroverted personality do not have advantages!

Being unsociable, difficult to understand, and easy to compromise is a tragedy after all.

Can't find friends! Let your confidants leave you.

It's nothing serious, as long as you find a good job and work hard, it doesn't matter if you're introverted and outward.

The circle of friends is small, the range of friends is small, and I can't get along with friends.

Plain and happy.

It's okay you can look for introverted jobs.

In my opinion, no matter what kind of personality, there are good and bad consequences.

There is no such thing as a good or bad personality, whether it is an extroverted personality or an introverted personality.

Everyone thinks that introverted people are bad, and even think that it is a defect. Actually, this comes from a story in the history of psychology.

At that time, Freud, Carl Jung and Adler were both mentors and good friends.

Later, the relationship broke down. Carl Jung and Adler's relationship with Freud became sour. Then, the two sides posted articles to each other and constantly criticized each other.

It just so happens that both Carl Jung and Adler are typical introverted personalities. So, Freud wrote a lot of articles to demean introverts.

Since then, people have had a bad impression of introverts.

Yes, I feel introverted, timid, can be replaced by mice, sometimes, our character can be changed, towards a better self to develop ourselves, change ourselves, challenge self-choice, better self development, self is the happiest, look at the previous happy talk 1, a happy life is so simple, it will not change because of our poverty or wealth, it only changes with our own thoughts. Happiness is an attitude, happiness is a science, happiness is a pursuit, the so-called happiness is actually a way of life that can make you feel that you are the happiest.

2. Happiness is actually very simple, that is, when you are thirsty, you have water to drink, and when you are hungry, you have food to eat; The spirit is supported and the life is valuable. The most popular is that satisfaction is happiness, everyone has a different experience and a different world view, and the understanding of happiness is not the same, happiness is in everyone's heart, only they can feel it, and everyone's happiness and pain in their life are the same ......

3. Happiness is, if you insist on it, you should insist on it, and if you give up, you should give up.

4. Happiness is so out of stock, please don't squander it.

5. What is a happy life: It is a light rainy afternoon, walking quietly in the rain, looking at the grass dancing in the rain, and listening to the sound of raindrops falling on the world.

6. Let others live more comfortably, it doesn't matter if you don't have happiness, it's also comfortable to see others get a happy life.

7. Just as we do not have the right to enjoy wealth without creating it, we also do not have the right to enjoy happiness without creating it.

8. What is a happy life: It is to see the sun shining and the flowers blooming in summer, sitting on the beach and watching the tide rise and fall.

9. Happiness and unhappiness, happiness and unhappiness, you can choose, don't have any psychological burden, you are living for yourself, not for others.

10. Happiness is simply like a glass of boiled water, plain but essential. After all, life is not a stage drama, there can not be too many thrilling or wonderful stories to be staged, and the dull is the main color of life. Don't be delusional about becoming a world celebrity, plain is true.

11. Happiness does not need to be deliberately pursued, when you are inadvertent, happiness will quietly come to you. But happiness also has a pair of wings, and it will pass you by anytime and anywhere. So, we have to grasp happiness, even if it stays for a second longer!

Introverted personality will suffer a lot in most cases, or in the current environment of quick success, if introverts don't like to talk, it is easy to be used by those who are good at performance, or by those who can speak well to take credit, and then in the end they will be sad for them, it is not bad for the black pot to take some responsibility, but it is not suitable for the current fast-paced society.

Isn't it bad to have an introverted personality? I think introverted and extroverted personalities are congenitally formed, and they also have a certain relationship with acquired education, there is no good or bad, introversion has the benefits of introversion, extroversion has extroverted management, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, don't care about others, just look at how you do it?

1. Nervousness and fear of people due to sensitive self-awareness, such as middle school students who are in contact with the opposite sex, are too strongly aware that the other party is the opposite sex, resulting in excessive emotional tension and falling into an embarrassing situation. In order to avoid this tension and uneasiness, the only way for them to avoid contact with the outside world is to close themselves off, which is why they become so-called introversion.

2. Family education and growth environment are often the main factors that cause introverted personality. Their parents are often stricter people, and they want their children to become Jackie Chan, they demand a high degree of obedience from their children, point fingers at them, and often count down the child's shortcomings, hoping that he can grow up.

Is introversion a character flaw?

The advantage is to protect oneself from harm, and introversion is easy to form isolation, fear of harm, and timidity.

Introverts often have many benefits, such as being sincere, doing things practically, and knowing how to use money more politely and better than extroverts, which are very valuable and will be of great help in your life.

Introversion and extroversion are two more extreme personalities, each with its own advantages and disadvantages, it is better to be a neutral person, retain the advantages of both, be a lover of the personality, and be yourself.

As long as you grasp yourself, even if you are more introverted, you will not feel anything bad, and sometimes you will feel that you are more mysterious and calm, and it will become a signboard for you, everything lies in yourself. Because I'm also a bit of an introvert.