I ve been breaking up with my boyfriend for more than a year and I ve been looking forward to gettin

Updated on healthy 2024-06-14
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Nothing is impossible, it mainly depends on why you broke up with him, if there is no principled problem, and you love each other, then I bless you, if not, it is better to be decisive, I hope to help you

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as each other's feelings are still there, it is possible to reconcile, but the key is who takes the initiative first. If you like it, take the initiative. Good luck.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's been more than a year, some should be forgotten, it's been more than a year, time will produce countless things that are always possible, and the expectation is like a closed window, blocking the spring light outside, and the feeling of each other is an ethereal word, who can say it clearly?

    One-sided feelings will fade over time, feelings are two-sided, and time will dilute everything.

    Maybe in the near future, you'll find a boy with a sunny smile barging in.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    As long as the two of you are sincere. It's just that no one says it, just say it boldly and give the other party an expectation. I hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If the two of you still have feelings, and you work in a city, your family is in a city, and your family is not against it, you should be able to reconcile.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Men are unstable molecules, just like women are fickle, don't expect men to be active and passive, the result is the same. To put it another way, is it worth it to take the initiative to reconcile with a man who is friendly with you, or a man who passively reconciles with you? Would you still look forward to a man who is more fickle than a woman, or desire it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Broke up! Ay. Now that it's separated, why bother with nostalgia?

    Can't be friends when you break up ? Do you want to go back? I have loved each other deeply and relied on each other ...

    Can we go back to the past now? Convoluted! I think that even if the broken mirror is reunited, it is just a formality!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are no absolutes in this world, what is absolute is only people's thoughts. As long as you believe, miracles will exist.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you love each other, don't waste any more time and seize the time to be together.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's a man's ambiguity, if he really wants to be together again, didn't he tell you earlier?!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Now that you can be sure that each other's feelings are still there, what are you waiting for? Come on!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Try it with reference to Hunan Satellite TV's breakup journey.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This kind of thing is treated on a case-by-case basis, if you are disappointed when you break upIf the current mind still hasn't changed, there is no need to reunite, and if the current mind has changed, you can consider reuniting.

    Since he was disappointed in his boyfriend and chose to break up, he didn't have to get back together because there was already a rift between them.

    If it was just an impulse, I was disappointed in my boyfriend at the time, and now I regret it, and my boyfriend came to me, I could choose to get back together.

    1. I am very disappointed in my boyfriend, I have no feelings anymore, and there is no need to reunite <>

    My boyfriend and I have been in love for more than three years, and my boyfriend is lazy and likes to gnaw at the old and is reluctant to go out to work.

    We have lived together for more than 3 years, and it is all up to me to make money outside.

    My boyfriend knew that he reached out to his parents to ask for money, I had a special opinion about him, I persuaded him many times, but he didn't listen to me, I could only choose to break up with him.

    I was so disappointed in my boyfriend, we broke up, and after a while he came back to me, and there was no relationship between us anymore, so I didn't feel the need to get back together with him.

    2. I was disappointed with him at the beginning, but now I have changed my mind and can consider reuniting <>

    My best friend and my boyfriend have been together for more than 5 years, but because of a trivial matter, my best friend was disappointed in her boyfriend, so my best friend wanted to break up with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend didn't keep her.

    After a while, my boyfriend came to my girlfriend again, and after the two broke up, my boyfriend has been silently caring about my girlfriend and helping my girlfriend do a lot of things.

    My best friend felt regretful, she was a little too impulsive to talk about breaking up, her boyfriend proposed to her to get back together, and after careful consideration, she agreed to get back together with her boyfriend.

    Couples are sometimes prone to misunderstandings because of a trivial matter, and they will propose to break up impulsively, which is irrational behavior.

    If the other party takes the initiative to get back together, and it happens that you also have the idea of getting back together, you might as well give yourself a step down, don't miss a good relationship, sometimes miss it for a lifetime.

    After two years of getting back together, the best friend and her boyfriend decided to get married, and now they live happily.

    Epilogue <>

    If you can't let go of that person in your heart, you might as well promise him, cherish fate, and don't miss happiness.

    If you feel that you don't love that person anymore, you might as well tell him directly that it is impossible to continue the relationship and that you can be a good friend.

    How many people miss it is a lifetime, I hope everyone can cherish the person in front of them and don't break up easily.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is normal for couples to have conflicts with each other, and some couples can get back together after breaking up, and the relationship is better than before; And some couples can't even be friends after breaking up, and getting back together will only exacerbate the pain of the two people. Judging from your description, I don't think you should get back together for two reasons: one is that you are very disappointed in him, and the other is that there is a rift in the relationship between the two people after the breakup.

    You are disappointed in himYou say that you are disappointed in him, which means that your boyfriend has done a lot of things that you don't like, maybe some of his habits make you dislike it very much, maybe he always ignores your feelings and makes you feel very cold. Either way, once you feel disappointed in him, this disappointment will always remind you, and it will be difficult for you to forget. Even if sometimes the relationship between two people is very good, you think that those "disappointments" can be ignored, but once the sweetness is over, your disappointments will come back to your heart, and this feeling is very uncomfortable.

    Lovers often break up because of what they mind when they were together, some girls mind their boyfriend's height, even if she is barely with a short boy and tells herself that height is not the most important thing, but she still can't help but mind, and finally breaks up because of the boy's height. So you must break up with your boyfriend because he has characteristics that you don't like very much, and from this point of view, there is nothing wrong with breaking up. Even if you get back together, you'll still mind, so don't get back together.

    After the breakup, there has been a rift in the relationship between the two people, and once the lovers break up, the relationship will not be as good as before. Even if the relationship between two people is compounded, there will be cracks, and there is always something intangible between two people, so that it is not so natural for two people to get along. And the two people have not been separated for a long time, in fact, they can't reflect on the problems between the two people well, and the recombination of promising him is estimated to be just a repetition of the contradiction, so after the two people have been separated for a long time, you should consider whether to agree to get back together with him, and you shouldn't get back together with him now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, it shouldn't get back together, since you can break up, it means that there must be a very big contradiction between you, and if you get back together, the cracks in your heart will not heal.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think you really need to get back together with him anymore, otherwise your life will only get more and more sad, I think this kind of person is vacillating, there is really no need to bet your whole life on this.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, in most relationships, it is generally the girls who break up repeatedly, and the boys seek to get back together again and again. And your boyfriend can break up with you very much and then ask to get back together, this kind of behavior makes me feel very ungentlemanly, and it is generally the performance of a mom boy. A boy will never take the initiative to break up with a girl he loves deeply, let alone in a decisive way, he does this to you, it can only show that he doesn't care about you very much, or your love is unequal, he feels that you can't do without him, no matter what he does to you, you are in the palm of his hand.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There's no need to get back together, because he's completely let you down, and it's not worth wasting your time on him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, there is no need to get back together again, because your boyfriend doesn't realize his mistake at all, and he doesn't take responsibility at all, so such a man shouldn't be together anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no need to get back together, after all, the other party has disappointed him, which means that the other party's approach makes him very satisfied, and he should not waste the right time on the wrong person.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no need. Good horses don't eat back grass, the two of you already have an estrangement, and the probability of getting back together and breaking up is also very high, so there is no need to get back together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There's no need to get back together with your boyfriend anymore because your boyfriend has completely disappointed you, and he hasn't repented of his mistakes, even if they do it again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's no need to get back together because your boyfriend has already let himself down, even if he comes back to you and gets back together, there's a good chance he'll make the same mistakes as before.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course there is no need, after all, the two of you have broken up, the relationship is over, and there is no need to get back together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is no need to get back together, because your boyfriend thinks that you are the best person for him, and he has already found someone else, so there is no need to get back together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on what the reason for the breakup is, and then decide whether to get back together. If it's because he broke up because he had a matter of principle, then don't get back together. If it's because he has some bad habits, but they belong to the ones that can be corrected, then you can consider compounding.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no need to get back together, even if you do, your previous problems have not been solved, and there will still be problems.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There is no need to get back together, because if the relationship between two people does not bear fruit, it will be a repeat of the same mistakes after getting back together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There is no need. Because your boyfriend hasn't changed his shortcomings, if he gets back together, he's just repeating the same mistakes.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No. Now that you've broken up, don't eat back to the grass anymore, it's also very good for you to do so.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When you choose to break up with your boyfriend, you think he is too good, and you are under too much pressure to stand next to him. Now that I want to get back together with him, won't I feel pressure? It's been a year since I broke up with my boyfriend, and I didn't have the courage to go back and try to save the relationship.

    But I couldn't let go of him, I wanted to send him a message, but I always didn't dare, because I proposed to break up at that time. He was a very good boy, and I felt that I was under too much pressure in front of him, and I always felt inferior, and I couldn't figure out what I wanted.

    We broke up peacefully, and I told him that the gap between us was too big and that breaking up might be the best option. He didn't keep me, but told me to take good care of myself in the future and turn away. In July of this year, because we were attending a class reunion together, he took the initiative to come up and talk to me, and looking at his familiar face, I realized that I had not forgotten him all along.

    After the party, he gave me a ride home, and on the way I wanted to tell him many times that I wanted to start over with him, but I was afraid that he had someone around him. I was even afraid that he would turn me down because of it. Maybe I didn't tell him because I was afraid of losing face.

    When I got home, I felt very lost when I looked at his back as he drifted away, and I knew that happiness was leaving me once, and I was really sad.

    Seeing that I was in pain because of love, my best friend patiently enlightened me and said that I would give myself a little more time, think about it carefully, and if I still want to make one last effort, then boldly tell him what I think, even if he doesn't love me, or he has someone else around him, when I remember this person in the future, I won't have too many regrets.

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  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If he doesn't have a girlfriend and can't let go of you, then it's okay to get back together, but if he doesn't like you anymore, there's no hope.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You haven't been in touch for a long time, and you don't fully know each other's current situation.

    First send a message to the other party to re-establish contact Chat about the recent situation of both parties See how the other party's attitude towards you is, mainly through the chat to test the other party's attitude towards you You have a relationship foundation before If both parties are interested This layer of window paper is still relatively easy to pierce But because of the long-term contact, it is still a little rusty to reawaken the feelings in the hearts of both parties through chatting.

    Another point is what is the reason and contradiction of your breakup, and you have to think clearly about how to solve this contradiction to avoid the recurrence of the two parties after they get back together.

    There's still a good chance you'll get back together, so let's talk about it first.

    I wish you happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't get tired of seeing each other, only Jingting Mountain.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Curious, are you two getting back together?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's a bit difficult, depending on the reason for the breakup.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Summary. Hello dear, and you should have calmed down during this time, so as long as you can solve the conflict between you when you broke up, it is completely possible to reunite, and if you are really reluctant, take the initiative, this is not a difficult thing, to let him see your true thoughts and feelings, then it is reasonable to reunite.

    My boyfriend and I have been separated for two months, can we get back together?

    Hello, I have broken up with my boyfriend for two months, of course I can get back together, as long as I am in this period of time, the other party has not found another object that belongs to each other, so try to save each other as much as possible during this time, then this relationship can still continue, and even two people still retain a trace of warm socks for each other's feelings, so the probability of reuniting is very high.

    Hello dear, and you should have calmed down during this time, so as long as you can solve the contradiction between you when you broke up at that time, it is completely reunited, and if you are really reluctant, take the initiative, this is not a difficult thing Yun's family, let him see your true thoughts and feelings, then it is reasonable to reunite.

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