How can an ordinary boy be popular?

Change yourself. It's not okay for a man with this kind of character in this society, you have to be more lively. Get humorous.

I used to be the same as you in junior high school, but I was a girl, and in high school I was a completely different person, and I became lively, cheerful, and even very funny, and it was a good feeling for both boys and girls. In junior high school, they all said I was quiet, and in high school, they said I was very troublesome. After the change, I have a lot of friends.

Isn't it good to be ordinary?

Do you know what is most appealing? That's what makes it your own.

I've always believed that everyone has their own shining point. Everybody has it, and so do you.

It's just that you haven't found it, and others haven't found it.

Be yourself, that's the only way.

In fact, why do you care about other people's eyes on you, being welcomed by others, how ordinary can you be a kind of happiness.

A little sunshine is OK! Remember to chat with the girls more! Smile more, only you feel ordinary, be confident!

If you want to have friends, change yourself.

Don't go to an internet café, try playing basketball and take the initiative to talk to your classmates.

It is very important to change your personality and humor cells!! Introversion is often your biggest resistance.

Learn a specialty.

Communicate with others, especially those you admire.

Suggest that you are doing better and be confident.

Learn to laugh at yourself first! This is the most acceptable thing!

I'm also a person similar to you, so let's go find an ordinary girl, live an ordinary life, why force yourself, An Neng can break my eyebrows and bend my waist to make me unhappy?

Try to accept what others say, and even if you don't, don't turn your face to face.

I felt like I needed to change myself"This sentence shows that you already know the answer, and the answer you have realized is the most reliable, and I believe that you will be an extraordinary person in the near future

A word for you: As long as it's not illegal. Go ahead and do it.

Make yourself attractive.

Then try to change yourself.

Being liked and popular is a comprehensive manifestation of a person's personality charm, which is determined by a variety of factors: first of all, you have to accept and accept your appearance. Love beauty, human nature, but good looks don't always make you liked by others.

Maybe out of jealousy, or maybe beautiful people forget to groom their hearts and become arrogant and conceited, so beautiful girls and handsome boys are often not so popular. So, if God does not pay you for your natural beauty, you must not blame God for injustice, because most people in life have defects in their appearance, and most popular people have only average appearances, perhaps because people are generally more accepting of flawed people than perfect people, or because people with poor looks are more self-respecting and self-loving, and their connotations make up for the defects of appearance. Therefore, no matter what you look like, you have to pay attention to both the external and the internal aspects of construction.

In addition, good words are warm in three springs, and good words make you infinitely graceful. A bold person, whose language is agitated but not vulgar; A person who is casual and sprinkles, his words are elegant and not casual; The humble man is subtle and not obscene; The learned man is knowledgeable and not vain; Generous words are rewarded, giving people confidence and courage. On the contrary, mean people have many derogatory words, which make people intimidating to hear; People who are jealous of others often speak disrespectfully and hurt others with secret arrows; arrogant, arrogant and aggressive in language; People who lack faith have weak language and find it difficult to attract the attention of others.

In short, people rely on language for communication, and language is the embodiment of a person's exquisite cultivation and enlightenment style.