What do you think it s like to have N serious fights and still haven t broken up?

It's normal for two people to quarrel together, and it depends on what state the two people are in after the quarrel to solve this problem.

It's fighting, scolding, or love, the two people are already familiar with each other, and they know that no one can do without each other, so they are used to small fights.

In this way, you will feel that your relationship is still relatively strong.

Such people will probably become happier and happier in the future, because they will resolve the contradictions after quarreling

If you don't break up, it proves that you still have each other in your heart, and you still have feelings, so you should be more tolerant in love.

This experience feels pretty good, which proves that the two of you are quarrelsome, and you should be glad that maybe it's true love.

Because two people really love each other! In fact, if you really love each other, these things are not very important, and it is inevitable that two people will quarrel when they are together.

Maybe the two of them really love each other, otherwise they wouldn't have quarreled so many times, and they still haven't broken up, so they must go through the rest of their lives.

I still haven't broken up after arguing about the price of the previous species, I feel that the two people are really in love, and they have quarreled many times, but they still love each other, and they don't say anything like breaking up, so they feel that the two people just don't agree because of some things, but they really like each other.

That shows that the two of you love each other and tolerate each other's quarrels, which is actually the most normal phenomenon between couples, because everyone's concept is different, and it is inevitable that there will be disagreements. But the two of you love each other very much, and love overcomes everything.

It's a very good feeling that you haven't broken up after n serious fights, although two people are always quarreling, but in the end they can still reconcile and be happy.

If there are many particularly serious quarrels, but they still haven't broken up, it means that the two people are used to each other, even if they know each other's shortcomings, they are willing to be together.

I feel that the two of them have no reason in this life. It should be inseparable.

There are three kinds of such couples that I have personally seen, one is to use quarrels as entertainment, and this kind of quarrels are based on a certain understanding of the personalities and bottom lines of both parties and will never cross the line. Most of them are because of small things, and they don't hurt. The second is that the love is deep-rooted, one or both parties love each other deeply and are willing to tolerate each other, and they are not willing to separate no matter what.

The third type is like my parents, who quarrel because there is a conflict, and this quarrel never ends up, but they are running in with each other. It's like this process: there are opinions on the other side, quarrels, cold wars, one side gives in, and reconciles.

The result is that next time you won't quarrel for the same reason. Discover each other's shortcomings, dislike, quarrel, and accept each other's shortcomings.

The conclusion is that because these couples never thought of separation.

There were. In the love of my youth, I admired a classmate. I remember that his face was delicate at that time, **fair-skinned, according to what he later said was because he had always been weak and sickly when he was a child, and then slowly adjusted, but his family did not allow too much outdoor exercise, so he stood in the group of boys, and looked particularly delicate.

His introverted shyness has always attracted me, and I gradually and unconsciously approached him. I often talked to him on the pretext of asking for homework and other issues, and slowly, our relationship improved. Later, I couldn't help but show my heart to him, and probably he didn't want to hurt me as a girl, so I agreed.

After that, we got along very peacefully, and if people didn't know, they would only think that we were very good friends, not lovers. Because of his personality, I also learned about it before dating, and I won't have any comments because of my recklessness. Maybe it's because I like him too much, and I will accommodate him a lot of the time.

It won't be willful, it won't be too much, it's not so much that it won't, it's better to say that it doesn't dare.

What if it is too much, makes him angry and breaks up? However, my idea is actually a bit redundant, because our relationship has only lasted about half a year. When they broke up, they didn't make a big fuss as I imagined, but they separated slowly and calmly, the two got along without heated discussions, and they didn't have a deep understanding of each other's affairs, and both sides maintained the last distance of one degree.

Not to mention a quarrel between couples.

In the eyes of outsiders, we all have very good personalities, and if we are late for a date, the other party will not scold, just wait in place obediently. In case of disagreement, the two sides remain silent for the time being, and just change the topic.

Now if an old classmate mentions it, everyone will think that it is a pity to be separated like this. Is it a pity? At least in my opinion, it's a pity, and I have regretted that I didn't have a better communication with the other party, even if I can't think about it now, I can't guess it, did he like me?

It's not that couples have to quarrel and be full of gunsmoke, but at least they must be clear and clear, even if the discussion method rises to a quarrel, and the unhappiness in the heart is fully output.

If you knew that you would break up in the end, then it may be better to quarrel when you are in it and talk about the other party's feelings for you than to be entangled in the unexplained situation now.

I didn't have a similar experience because as far as I know, most of my friends around me made it to the end, got married, had children, and lived a good life.

No, generally breakups are caused by quarrels, and there are many reasons for quarrels, and it is estimated that the biggest one is that everyone will choose differently in the future.

No, because my previous two loves broke up because of quarrels every day, I couldn't stand the way he was hanging, and he couldn't stand the way I talked about him every day, so I broke up.

No, because I'm a straightforward person who likes to figure things out no matter what happens. , even if it's a breakup, you have to make it clear.

Yes, on the first day, I agreed to a relationship, on the second day, on the third day, suddenly I didn't contact him, and then there was no more.

Yes, I had a relationship in high school, and the two of us got along very well and didn't quarrel once, but after the college entrance examination, the love between us ended without a problem.

Once, my ex-boyfriend was just too good-tempered, and I never quarreled with him, but it was also because this relationship was too dull, and finally broke up peacefully.

I haven't had this experience because when I'm with my boyfriend, there are always a lot of trivial things that make me angry and then we both fight.

Yes, sometimes not quarreling does not mean that there is no friction and no estrangement, on the contrary, there is a problem, but both sides avoid talking about it, but it is easier to come to the end.

Yes, an inexplicable beginning, and an end without a problem. But it's okay, this relationship also comes and goes without a trace, and it doesn't cause much harm to itself, it's just an experience.

Although I have never been in a relationship, for the kind of couple who quarrel all day but do not break up, I expressed a confused look and glanced at it with my chin propped up.

Among my roommates, there happened to be such a popular person. No matter what the quarrel is, it just doesn't break up successfully. She talked to her boyfriend for about 3 years, from high school to college.

My boyfriend is 2 years older than her, and he has stopped studying for a long time, so in order to accompany her, he rented a house outside the school, and he didn't look for a job all day, so he played games in an Internet café. I really don't know that my roommate likes her boyfriend**, maybe this is, turnip greens have their own love.

Hey, how do you describe their feelings? Wait and let me think about it!

Let's just say that she and her boyfriend can be said to be inseparable except for our school hours. Even if you don't stay together, sometimes after class, or just after returning to the dormitory, her boyfriend's ** calls, and the two are chatting hotly, don't you think that their chat topic is that kind of sweet conversation? Then you are very wrong, the two of them chatted for less than three sentences, and they began to crackle, you quarreled with me one by one, and then my roommate hung up directly, dropped his mobile phone, and wiped his tears.

Once, I remember being particularly impressed, her boyfriend always said one thing on his lips, and actually did another thing. My roommate couldn't find a sense of security by his side, and the two of them quarreled very fiercely in **, and finally my roommate said, let's break up, and hang up **. That time she cried very sadly, and pulled her object's QQ number *** into the blacklist, as roommates, we told her a lot of bitterness, such as:

No matter how mixed he is, you will definitely not be happy after you get married, and you will still suffer when the time comes. There is also this: you are so beautiful, there are many people who pursue you, and you can choose whatever you want when the time comes.

Everyone tried their best to calm her emotions all night, and they all thought that she was serious about this breakup.

However, the next morning, she went out for a trip, carrying a large bag of snacks in her hand, and then playing **, we expressed a shock, she hung up **, and said with a smile: My boyfriend and I didn't break up, I was playing with him last night.

Hearing this, what can we do, expressing that we are very helpless, I feel that the good people did it for nothing last night! I was silently thinking in my heart: My roommate is so coaxing, a few packs of snacks were bought, hey, it's really a woman in love with zero IQ.

In love, girls are always more engaged than boys, and once they fall in love with someone, their eyes are full of his advantages.

Since then, she has said in the dorm that he and her boyfriend have broken up. None of us believed it, gave her a big smile, and said in unison: Oh, yes, it's good if you're happy!

It is said that quarreling is healthier, and often quarreling with each other also cares about each other's performance, wanting to make the other party better, and wanting to make this relationship better, otherwise who will go to the trouble to quarrel and hurt others and hurt their own body, the gains outweigh the losses.

But some feelings can't be avoided is to quarrel, pots and pans, trivial, these daily if communication is useless, people always have a temper, after the quarrel can let the other party see their bottom line in.

For example, the first time you warned you not to throw your socks, the second time you warned not to throw them away and then took them away and put them in the washing machine, the third time, the fourth time, you said who to spread on, who is not annoying, if you are annoyed, you have to quarrel, quarrel to make the other party pay attention, if you say that I will throw it away, if such a man has not married him, break up as soon as possible, if the man is reluctant to score, he will make changes, and slowly the two people will run in, and they can go further.

If there is a big contradiction, a quarrel can also inspire the other party's sincerity, for example, Fan Shengmei asked why he didn't write my name when he bought a house, such a question Wang Baichuan must have something unspeakable, and he is unwilling to tell Xiaomei, so if there is no quarrel, the two of them can only break up, because Xiaomei feels that Wang Baichuan only loves the house and does not love himself, but in fact, it is not, Wang Baichuan estimates that this money is given by his parents, in the face of filial piety and love, he chose filial piety, this is a personal choice, we do not evaluate, But if Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei quarrel with each other, and Wang Baichuan says everything in his heart, I think Xiaomei will understand him and will continue to be with him, even if she adds her name to the real estate certificate in the future, she will definitely accept it.

So, what is the experience of arguing a lot, but not distinguishing it?

Some people say it's just a mess, no, it's true love.

Just sauce purple.