The feeling of classmates getting together has gone sour, what do you think?

I quit the class reunion 2 years ago, and even the class reunion withdrew, without it, there are always people who want to lead you, warn you not to talk nonsense, and there are some so-called leaders who have more money than you, and they are tired of retreating, and now they are very comfortable.

If you don't get it right, it will become a gathering that breaks up the family. Don't believe it, I've got a lot of examples here!

I'm bored, and I talk about class reunions every day.

I used to crave class reunions! Because I want to relive the feelings I had with my classmates. And now I'm hiding from class reunions, because now I'm nothing!!

The class reunion has really changed its taste, I have attended a few reunions, and I feel more and more bored, it's not that I have too many things, why do I have a class reunion? Bragging! Rich!

But I found that the really good development is not the best, the more it is not the best. I think class reunions, reminiscences, and increase those pure friendships! For a long time, the reason is that we are old.

The true feelings of the classmates are all fake.

In today's society, nothing has changed, but the feeling of class reunions has changed? What does it mean? Have an opinion about the class reunion!

A group of selfish people who have no classmates' feelings. The failure of education. After graduating from junior high school more than 50 years ago, most of them lived in the school, ate in the cafeteria, and helped each other to learn from each other.

Everyone cherishes that friendship to this day! Since I left my hometown at the earliest and farthest, I found everyone forty years after graduation, and I have been together every year, as long as I am a boy back in the year, I will get together for a few days as soon as I return to my hometown. At that time, there were 54 people in the class at most, and in addition to the five who passed away, there were two who could not be contacted, and more than 30 people could be gathered each time.

All the world, the south and the north are back to gather!

Views on this issue: 1. Look at your starting point, after all, inviting you to a class reunion, I dare say that there should be no other factors. Second, the feelings of students in modern society are relatively pure.

So if you feel that the taste has changed, I think there may be something wrong with the pattern itself, it's a class reunion, and no one asks you for anything. Talk about the past years, reminisce about the bits and pieces of classmates who read together, exchange the ups and downs of life, and so on. At least once every five years, more than 80% of our classmates attend each reunion, and they are all intimate and cherish each other.

Therefore, every time I see this kind of question on the Internet, I disagree.

It's better to miss each other than to see each other, classmates who have been separated for so many years, how much common language there is, showing off wealth and inferiority are everyone's real feelings, and it's over if you don't get together.

I never go to class reunions!

The class reunion is to regain the innocence of the year, showing off wealth and comparing is not nothing, but it is a few people. But everyone was disgusted by this one, so they didn't take them to play when they got to the party again.

I think it's good, I never show off, I only talk about when I was young, I ate AA system, I don't owe each other anything, I like it very much.

A party of two or three people is best. is like a young classmate back then, without a trace of worldliness. Warm greetings to each other.

In fact, classmates' feelings are the most precious, and with the passage of time, classmates' feelings have become friendships! But the premise is to let go of yourself and put down your body, and the relationship between classmates will naturally get closer and closer. Personal feelings, believe in fate!

Look ahead, old classmates, turn the page.

Never party, boring.

It's also a classmate who changes the taste, or maybe the classmate has this flavor.

I think so, everyone will be discussing "who and who" is married to a good husband, how much is worth and so on, especially the eighth woman, I don't want to go to the party.

Humanity is a flash of brilliance. Animality is instinct.

In fact, if you want me to say, there are really very few real friends that everyone living in this world can have, except for the kind of people who are very good at communication, but it is obvious that you are not. Maybe I'm too pessimistic, I don't really have many real friends in reality, this world is very hypocritical in a sense, our society is just a collective that connects hundreds of millions of us in the form of interests, and we all just use each other to live better. Whether you agree with me or not, what I want to say is that the independence of personality is to do things as little as possible without the help of others, and to try to help others as much as possible, and to be self-reliant and self-reliant in everything.

But then again, this kind of difficulty is not a little, if you want others to recognize you, you need to work hard, I hope you can succeed and be a forward person.

Don't participate, just live yourself!

The current class reunion has slowly changed its taste, and there is no talk about the things of the former classmates. It's all about the current work and the things that show off. Dry as a chip.

The current class reunion has long since changed its flavor and has become a gathering for showing off wealth. Today's classmates have become a party to show off their wealth, especially me, the organizer, the class leader is not good, he has no face, he is not looking for a good place, and the way of gathering is also very bad.

I think this is normal behavior, and as the times develop and progress, it is natural that many people will be changed by the times and society.

The main reason why class reunions have become bad is that they take interests too seriously, and then they all want to go to the stammer, the person with the head and face, rather than going to the party for friendship.

The class reunion that has changed its flavor makes the rich find a sense of accomplishment, and the poor find a sense of inferiority. In the class reunion that has changed its taste, those who have money sit next to each other, and those who have no money sit sideways; Those who have money shout and drink, and those who have no money bury their heads in drinking; Those who have money brag, and those who have no money brag about the wall of the cup; Those who have money hold the class flowers, and those who have no money hold cauliflowers; Those who have money will get together next time, and those who don't have money will not dare to get together again. The class reunion that has changed its taste, the half-stupid and half-pinched messy table, the blind Zhang Luo with water in the brain, the greedy and cheap waiting for the car, the rich and the rich want to say more, the divorced are in the foot, and the development is not smooth.

The class reunion that changed its taste, the pride of being poor and having good grades at the beginning, and now the arrogance with bulging pockets and great power.

In fact, what has changed is not that our classmates have changed, it is precisely because of the change of people that the distance between everyone has gradually become farther away, because when you reach the age of 30 or so, you may be able to mix a good house and a car, and you can afford it, but if you are not good at this time, you may not have any savings and will be able to support yourself and your other halfThe state of life is naturally completely different, people are selfish, and they naturally want to get closer to those classmates who are better mixed, after all, the other party may be able to give themselves a little help.

Now the vast majority of all kinds of gatherings (mainly small and class reunions), the content and steps are roughly as follows: clinking glasses to eat, all of them are sunny and enthusiastic, the atmosphere is refreshing, the reading is chic, the popular language network vocabulary is familiar and fluent, international events, social news and even humanistic families are all experts, everyone has the ability, all often create miracles, and there are more unscrupulous men and women who have prepared darkness between their eyebrows and ......Wait a minute! Anyway, they are showing off to each other, secretly boasting, and messing around with the north and the south.

Then it's time to take pictures or just break up. At most, you won't get together again for the second time!

Classmates are pure friendship, this is only during the school period, and now the class reunion has changed its flavor and become a special philistine, so I never participate in the class reunion.

I think the class reunion has changed its flavor and has become a comparison meeting. It has lost its original meaning, and if you still want to participate in this kind of gathering, you can call a few of your good friends who used to go to school out to get together, and there is no need to go to this so-called class reunion.

Elementary school has not changed its taste, but high school and college have long since changed its taste, because it has become an occasion for comparison and showing off.

I think the class reunion has gone sour. Class reunions are usually a gathering of people for several years after graduation. In this case, everyone is no longer just an ordinary classmate relationship like before, and at this time, everyone will discuss salary, discuss life and other issues that will bring benefits.

It's going to change the taste, after all, after so long, the once pure feelings will no longer exist.

I have to say that classmates are a very important part of our lives, and they have accompanied us throughout our student days and have many good memories. But now more and more class reunions have changed their taste, becoming more utilitarian, more impetuous, and more vain......It turned into a disgusting pomp and circumstance.

Some people participate in class reunions, not to relive the friendship between classmates, nor to recall the ignorant student days, but to say how powerful they are now, what kind of official they are now, what kind of official they are in the future, what things can everyone find him in the future, etc., and some are showing off their wealth, showing off how many companies they have opened, and showing off how many cars they have ......In the final analysis, I just want to compare with my old classmates who has a better life, who has more money, and whose house is bigger, and this form of party really doesn't make any sense at all.

A good class reunion has completely turned into a comparison meeting, and the taste has completely changed. If it were me, I would have found an excuse to refuse in a tactful way, and I would never have gone anyway.

For a while, I thought it was a bit sad for my classmates to fade their feelings, but after a long time after graduation, I will understand that this is inevitable.

When you encounter a class reunion that turns into a comparison and a show-off, a group of people who don't know each other's current living conditions are comparing who is richer and whose husband is more capable, you may want to never participate in such a party again......In fact, the reason for treating things with hospitality can make us more relaxed and comfortable.

Under normal circumstances, the social state is completely different from the student state, and it is not necessarily who did it on purpose, but after work, I just want to ask the other party how much money they can make, and want to know who is more capable and who is more powerful. It's hard to have a pure chat like when you were a student and don't talk about family and life.

However, this usually happens between people who don't usually have much contact, and class reunions just bring these people together.

No contact for a long time.

Class reunions are generally the whole class, after graduation, everyone has little contact, it is inevitable to get together to be embarrassed, each other does not know each other's current state, there is no common topic, will find some topics that make people feel "tasteless".

You can think about it, buddies or girlfriends who have been in touch since graduation, you will not be embarrassed when you get together, and you will not feel that such a small party has become sour......

The environment is no longer the same.

When I was a student, I had classes in one classroom every day, I ate in a cafeteria, and I hung out in a playground, and you were on a frequency and track, and there was always something to talk about......

But after graduation, some people are in third-tier cities, some are in first-tier cities, some are civil servants, some are in enterprises, it's not that which city is bad, or which kind of job is not good, it's just that you have different environments and different jobs, you see different worlds, pursue different goals, and have different views on things, so it's hard to talk together.

Life goals are different.

Some people get married and have children early after graduation and live a stable and peaceful life; Some people are still struggling in the workplace at the age of 30, and they only have the ...... of self-realization in their mindsIf you are 30 years old and unmarried, you attend a class reunion and listen to other people talk about your husband, mother-in-law and children, and you can't interject, and in their eyes, you are also the very strange one.

I have seen a sentence, "It is difficult for married people and unmarried people to sit together and have a pleasant and friendly conversation" because everyone thinks that their way of life is the right one, and when they no longer agree with each other, it seems that they can only think of comparison, and everyone has to prove that I am the best ...... in life

I saw a sentence on Jiang Fangzhou's Weibo, "I have to admit that living to the age of thirty is the norm of life when my former friends are now blurred and unrecognizable, and there is nothing to regret." "We will have a lot of experiences and encounters in our lives, when the friends of the past are no longer suitable for the current self, there is no need to blame anyone, everyone has been with each other for a very good time, just remember the feelings at that time.

There are many reasons, first of all it originates fromHumanity

Everyone aspires to have a sense of superiority, that is, to be better than others. Whether we say it openly or not, even during the school day, everyone is secretly competing. Of course, after going to work, classmates will also compare with each other who mixes better.

The second reason is that everyone is thereBurdens in lifeIt's different.

During the school day, a person is full and not hungry. After going to work, everyone has a family and a room, and they have to take responsibility for their parents, children, and family.

A friend once joked: Before getting married, my husband played mahjong with his friends very easily, and he didn't care about winning or losing. But after buying a house and getting married, my husband played mahjong with his friends very seriously, bent on winning, and the same was true for all the men at the table.

It can be seen that the increase in financial burden has changed everyone's mentality.

In the past, when I was in school, I paid more attention to the emotions between my classmates. However, after going to work, everyone will more or less use some quantifiable criteria to measure the people around them, such as connections, power, money, etc.

A friend once said that other people's classmates are very capable, and if one person has something, everyone else can help. Our classmates were useless.

To survive in society, it is naturally not advantageous to fight alone, so everyone also wants to see if there are any people among their classmates and friends who can help them, which will be more utilitarian.

In short, human nature, the burden of family, and the pressure of society have led to a great change in our mentality many years after graduation, and the class reunion has also changed its taste.

In any case, I don't think it's necessary to be too pessimistic. Behind the world, there is always warmth in everyone's heart.