What should I do next for this relationship?

It's good to be intense, think so much, you can't know what's going on. Love, no one can do anything for you. It's what you can do for love. When your efforts are a joy, not an equivalent return. You really have it.

She really doesn't love you. Just love the feeling of being loved by you. Either go on like this, or give up.

I feel that love is love! No more or less!

If you've thought about it, you don't have to ask anyone else!

How much do you love her??? You don't know, the only thing you can say is "Love, a lot!" ”。

How much is 1 3! I don't think anyone in this world can divide feelings so finely!

Don't be silly, that girl obviously loves you! It's good to grasp happiness well.

I wish you happiness!

You could say it's to make you happier. You just let it be.

First of all, the most important thing now is to beat the child out (no matter how unbearable you are, no matter how much he advises you).

Let's talk about whether you and he are still going on:

1. When you mentioned that you started dating, he told you that his salary was more than 4,000 Although he didn't tell the truth at the time, we can forgive him, he may have considered that you would not agree to associate with him if you said less, but now that you have both been dating for so long, the evidence is ironclad, and he still doesn't admit it, which shows that he is very dishonest, and he is even cheating on his girlfriend, aren't you sad? (Actually, I feel that it doesn't matter if he earns more than 2,000, the important thing is to confess to you).

2, the two of you get married and his family pays for the problem, his family is in the countryside, the family conditions are difficult to imagine, you let his family take out hundreds of thousands of dollars is unrealistic, but even the decoration of tens of thousands of yuan can not be taken out of the money to borrow is not to borrow other people's money, this seems to be tens of thousands of yuan of things The essence of this thing is his family, his parents will not live, knowing that there is a son who does not save money, whose daughters are raised by their parents hard, presumably your boyfriend is also Yueyueguang (don't use him as an excuse to earn less)

3. Now that you are pregnant, you have to know that the person who really loves you will consider everything for you, he will take measures not to let you get pregnant before the marriage date is set, he can't bear to let you suffer (hehe, this is what my boyfriend said), he still has no education, how to educate children in the future, do you still use the method of his parents?

4. He told you that he would not stay the same, he would partner with his friends to do business next year, and the principal of the business would come from ** (the money you both got married was borrowed), don't listen to him, if you two get married next year he can't do business, then you just regret it 10,000 times What's the use.

5. You said that you doubt him, whether it is true or not, he can explain it to you clearly, but he did throw away the phone and it is obvious that he is cheating on you (your boyfriend's explanation is that he hates others to doubt him the most, especially you. To tell you the truth, this is not the reason)

Personally, I think it doesn't matter if the conditions at home are not good, the important thing is that he is good to you, knows that he feels sorry for you, accommodates you, knows how to live, and knows how to spend money, so that you can save money together after getting married, work together, and hope This is happiness, but you and your current boyfriend can't see hope at all, and the days of marriage and children will only get more and more troublesome (even if you are accompanied by hundreds of thousands of dollars now, he may not necessarily appreciate it, he will think that your family is easy to deceive, in fact, your parents don't want you to live hard)

After reading the above points, you should be very clear in your heart, I know that you have feelings for him, and you are reluctant to part with him, but the reality is like this, don't deceive yourself, leave him.

It will be painful for a while, but I believe that you will find your own happiness and discuss it with your parents.

It's very tangled....In fact, it doesn't matter if a man has no money or no looks, the most important thing is that he needs to be self-motivated, and a self-motivated man is a person to be relied on....In addition, I think you should also think about the problem from his point of view, maybe he loves you, but he has become impetuous under the pressure of the cruel reality, I hope these words can give you some help.

I can only tell you this, if you marry him, you will only wronged yourself, and he was like this before marriage, and it will definitely get worse after marriage, that's for sure, it's not worth it for such a person, it will only ruin you, the child is born, and it will not live well, beat the child, recognize it, marry a good man, start anew, let your child live happily, everything will pass...

If you beat your child, the poor couple will mourn everything, and without a material foundation, your life will be for material struggle in the future, and your child will be even more difficult after birth. For the sake of a stable, good-tempered and self-motivated person, but what is the use of his bad temper, he has wronged you like this, and he has lost his temper with you, and he has not said that he has to get married together if he is pregnant. You have to know that marriage is just a moment of happiness and sweetness, the days to come are closed, character is very important, people say that your family conditions are not good, but your husband is good, so there is something to say.

The conditions are not good, the temper is not good, what is good to be greedy for him? Just because I have children, do I have those feelings that are not worth mentioning in the face of reality? Whoever you are with will have children, and feelings are cultivated.

As long as the people are good and the life is stable, life will gradually get better. If you don't beat your children when you get married, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

You are a good woman, but you have to know that life is reality, hit the child first, don't wait until you want to hit it too big to beat, your pain will say that he loves you, and it can't replace your pain. Do you want anything to do with him? A woman is soft-hearted, love is a habit, you are used to him now, and you can't bear to share it.

That's all I can say, I hope it can help you! You have to give me a point.

It doesn't mean anything, what you say and believe can only show that you are a fool.

Real life is always realistic, when you are not sure, don't choose to be hasty, that is not only irresponsible for yourself but also irresponsible for your future children.

It is normal for two people to have friction, but the most important thing is that supporting each other, understanding each other, and caring for each other is the way to maintain the relationship between both parties.

You have to think about whether you will be happy with him, whether you can feel whether his attitude towards you will be better, not that two people are together for children, in fact, what you think is right, if you want to be with him will make you feel the economic crisis, then don't put it off, because your kind of thinking is already above love, what you are pursuing is material, the situation in real life, you need more material support.

So you have to think carefully and think a little further. Mutual speculation is fatal, and everything is spread out to discuss.

Then you just ignore her, can't you live without her, live your own life, and come back by herself.

In my opinion, if you wait until the child is born, then life will really be difficult to die, and even milk powder money is a problem, for the sake of future life, it is better to get married and save money now.

Beat it decisively. Having children without a livelihood guarantee will not bring happiness to innocent children. Judging from your description, this man is not very self-motivated, and it is recommended that you consider it carefully.

It's really a tangled relationship, if you can see his future, you can continue, if you can't see it, forget it, it's more difficult to deal with this kind of thing after marriage, think carefully.

Having said a lot, it seems that you have been holding grudges for a long time. I only saw that when you said that he lied about his salary of 4000, I didn't look down, it's boring, maybe I hate people who lie.

You met online.

There are many examples of love at first sight.

There are many examples of this around me, but, according to what you said, he has no plans to get married, and you are in a different place, and, if his attitude is cold to you, then I think he may be unhappy in his career, or he is not much interested in you anymore, of course, this idea needs you to confirm Oh, isn't there a QQ to ask for his password to look at his chat history with others, or help him go online, see if there is a person of the opposite sex who talks to him frequently, and then you know what to do.

And also; I think according to my own thinking logic, you need to sit together and communicate well, after all, you are not together, just using mobile phones is not good, so the two of you sit together to discuss, and ah, if you feel that the other party does not care about you very much, in other words, people are becoming more and more indifferent to you, then I think your online relationship can end Or let him think about it, after all, this is the business of the two of you.

A woman's intuition is accurate, and this has been confirmed.

Trust your directness and you're right.

Maybe he's in a relationship with you.

On the Internet, also talk to others, what about you, me, and me?

Think about the little details.

That's it. Decide your life.

What's more, people have no plans to get married within three years.

If he can afford it, can you afford it?

Intentions, I think the most touching way to move people's feelings is to use their hearts.

Actually, I don't think you should be with each other because you get married, I know it's right to plan for the future, but don't put too much pressure on both parties, otherwise it will backfire, you know, once a man is stressed, he will choose to escape, and you don't want to miss this boyfriend.

Love, this guy is still happier to go with the flow.

Unilateral hopes are unreliable.

Women are always prone to emotion when faced with emotional problems.

Judging from your description, you like more in this relationship.

You haven't been dating for long, and thinking about marriage so quickly can be stressful for him. His feelings for you have not yet entered the stage of being single-minded and can get married.

You have also said lightly that everything is fate and go with the flow, which is contrary to your relationship based on the premise of marriage. When a person is emotionally engaged, it is difficult to be so free and easy. And the beginning of him and you is also a recognition of the attitude of giving it a try, that is to say, the original intention of his relationship with you and the marriage are actually very far away.

He is reluctant to get married so early, there are reasons for too much pressure, high housing prices, work pressure, etc.; There is also the possibility that he thinks that the relationship with you has not yet reached that point.

If you really don't want to leave him, try to analyze the reasons for his current state, try to be tolerant, give you some more time to get along, and don't get involved in the topic of marriage so quickly. Give yourself a deadline, and within this deadline, you can devote yourself to falling in love! If it still turns out that way, then you should die too.

If you know that you can't grasp this person, that he is not fully committed to you or that he is not fully committed to this relationship, it is best to choose to leave rationally. That way you won't continue to get hurt and you won't waste your time.

In fact, I myself am facing relationship problems, and I don't know what men are thinking inside, but one thing I know very well is that I would rather be kind to myself than to be indiscriminate, and I would rather be lonely than marry someone who doesn't care about me so much.

The fact that you're noticing him chatting with someone means that you care about him.

There are two choices in front of you, one is to be with him and cherish your hard-won relationship.

The second is to give up completely. Maybe it's destined to be a passerby, and he doesn't care about you.