What is it like to be less connected?

It was a very good experience that I was isolated from others at the beginning of junior high school, and I also took the initiative to start isolating others. When I was in high school, I was bullied very badly, and I only had one good friend in the whole school.

It's a little embarrassing, because sometimes I really can't solve the problem by myself, but I have few connections and can't solve it, so I'm in a hurry. The other thing is that you don't have any friends to play with.

I never feel that having fewer friends is a very hard thing, on the contrary, I think it is a very cool thing, because it saves a lot of trouble, of course, this does not mean that I have no friends, on the contrary, the rest of my friends are all friends who have passed their lives.

Every day, I walk alone, go to class alone, leave school alone, don't talk to the people around me, listen to the lessons I want to listen to, and escape from the classes, I am very short, sitting at the end of the classroom.

I will buy a lot of flavors of beer, I sit in my room when I am depressed, drink some beer, I like the feeling of being slightly drunk, I go to the hospital alone, I fell from the upstairs last year, and I limped.

It's a lot of the time it's going to be alone, but if you think about it from another angle, it's not bad to socialize people you don't like. There are gains and losses.

When I go to Taiwan as an exchange student, I basically act alone, go to the library alone, go to class alone, go down the mountain to play alone, basically meet new friends during the trip, and there is never a person around me who is together every time.

It's not that I don't want friends, it's just that I'm afraid of being hurt, so I simply give up making friends. I'm vulnerable, and if I speak to me even a little louder, I'll be scared, I'll feel like I've committed an unforgivable crime, and I'll blame myself for a long, long time.

I've been out alone for almost three years, most of the friends around me have gone home, I often have no one to talk to me on WeChat for two or three days, and I play the most ** in a month on my parents, and nothing else.

A month and a half after the start of school, almost no one in the class knew my name, because I felt inferior to myself that a boring person like me should not be liked by others for a long time.

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When you want to do something and you need help, you will find no one to look for.

What is a network, you have this ability, I value your ability, and I will treat you as a network. Connections are mutually helpful, argumentative and even utilized. China's gift-giving, wine culture is a good embodiment of this. So you can't hope that connections will save you.

What kind of friend, whether you have the ability or not, as long as he chats with you very happily, many things can be said, it is a friend. As a friend, you can't hope that the other party can save you from fire and water. But the help between friends, as long as the price paid is not very large.

They will all be happy to help you.

The difference between chatting between friends and connections is that chatting between friends is more about interests, and chatting between friends is more about sharing feelings. The exchange value between the network can be built, and the construction between friends depends on whether they can chat happily for a long time, and of course, there must be reciprocity, otherwise who is willing to pay unilaterally.

Connections are interpersonal relationships, which reflect your popularity and Huaizhen's interpersonal network in this Luqin society. Networking is not how many people you know, but how many people know you, the key is how many people who know you recognize you.

People who are willing to help you when you are in trouble. Someone who is willing to lend you money when you have no money.

The interaction between people is a value exchange, which is a value exchange in a broad sense.

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Networking really works for the following reasons:

1. Networking is high emotional intelligence.

The embodiment of the . The more you have experienced all kinds of warmth, the more people with rich experience in society understand the importance of networking, although ability is also indispensable, although networking is also the embodiment of ability, but the establishment of network is more the result of high emotional intelligence.

You can take a look at the capable people around you, which one is not lamenting that you don't meet talents, you can take a look at the people around you who are not strong in ability but have rich connections, which ones are not mixed, you can have no ability, but you can't have no connections, no matter how good your ability is, there are no network resources around you that can be used, it is obviously meaningless.

2. Connections are relationships, and connections are money.

Connections are very valuable, to make others agree with you, not only to be convincing in life and work, but more importantly, to know how to meet in various occasions, why the older generation is not strong, not enough ability to succeed, not high emotional intelligence and good connections.

Connections are money, at least it will not be difficult to move an inch, no matter how good the ability is, the personality is withdrawn, no friends, no relatives, and will run into walls everywhere. In short, connections are much more important than ability, without connections everything is difficult to achieve, without connections and others encounter things can not be handled by ability, connections can solve a lot of problems in life.

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If you are serious about networking, you will most likely be chilled, because you have no use value, and others will not care about you.

If you give up networking, you will choose to work hard and turn yourself into a mountain to rely on.

Your own value determines how many network resources you have. Your status and money will make you a shining star.

Whether connections are useful or not.

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If you take your network seriously, you will most likely be cold, because you have no use value, and no one will care about you. If you give up networking, you will choose to work hard and turn yourself into a mountain to rely on. Your own value determines how many network resources you have.

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Other people's looks have nothing to do with him.

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