Should I say it or not? Why?

I have a boyfriend, well, ex-boyfriend. We broke up in May last year and it was peaceful. We didn't have any contact until last November.

I placed an order online, and I couldn't receive the express delivery for a long time, and then I checked and found that the information I placed the order was his mobile phone number. At that time, I couldn't laugh or cry. For some reason, it is necessary to get the courier.

I added him again on WeChat, the first time I didn't pass, the second time I modified the verification information: I'm sorry, my courier may fill in the wrong information, some information needs to consult you. He passed.

I sent about a lot of words: I'm sorry, when I placed an order, the information filled in blabla was about 100 words. He replied:

Sorry for changing numbers for a long time. I originally had a word, but I collapsed in the face of "apologies". If you can't say it, if you can't send it, delete it one by one.

Let's break up, sorry. He said so. More than 6 months, more than 180 days, talking again, there is still only one "apology".

But at the beginning, we fell in love, what is the debt? That's it, passers-by at the end of the world, I hope to see you again.

You may feel uncomfortable when I mention this, but this is really my mental journey, I used to sometimes not like to scream, and I felt that it was not the right time, and then every time I didn't like to scream, I just thought that the other party was not, and at that time, I just didn't love each other. I don't even have a nickname, and I don't even have a nickname for him. I'm just an analogy, maybe I'm not right, but I've said what I'm thinking, and if you think it's wrong, you can correct what I said.

When you meet someone you really like, you will know if you have ever loved me!

I think in retrospect, this kind of words that want to be said and stopped should mean that I will not regret saying it or not. So since you want to stop talking, then don't say it, regret is the most beautiful.

All couples should understand and trust each other. It is said that girls will have a lot of ideas, and sometimes they are very angry when chatting with men, and the other party can't understand, so they don't want to speak, they don't want to analyze, they want to stop talking, and finally they bear it themselves, and they have been struggling in their hearts, but they are very uncomfortable.

I made an alley for myself, I couldn't figure it out, I couldn't get out, I could only blame myself. If you have something to say, you should say it, and if you can't understand it, you should pull it down.

Not all words need to be shared with your significant other, **; Communication needs a way, and effective communication is not just about saying it, there are many skills.

I want to say it and stop saying it. Want to speak and stop, the Chinese idiom, pinyin is yù yán yòu zhǐ, which means to want to say and stop not talking, describing the unspeakable bitterness.

From "Awakening Words".

Idiom usage: as a predicate, a definite; Describe the unspeakable suffering.

Example. Ming Feng Menglong.

The eighth volume of "Xingshi Hengyan": "Things are in a dilemma, and they want to stop talking." ”

<>2. Analysis: Using the rhetorical technique of sail and burning duality, the number of words is equal and the meaning is relative.

3. Explanation: If you want to say it, you don't want to say it. Describe the unspeakable suffering.

4. Synonyms: there are words of suffering.

5. Usage: linkage; as a predicate, a definite; Describe the unspeakable suffering.

6. Source: Ming Feng Menglong's "Xingshi Hengyan" Volume 8: "The state of jujube is in a dilemma, and I want to stop talking." ”

7. Sentence formation: Qing Pu Songyan Tongling's "Strange Tales from Liaozhai": "The language is very sad, and the one who asks in surprise, and those who want to stop talking." ”

2. Analyze the head of friends: use the rhetorical technique of duality, the number of words is equal, and the meaning is good and the number of reserves is relative.

3. Explanation: If you want to say it, you don't want to say it. Describe the unspeakable suffering.

4. Synonyms: there are words of suffering.

5. Usage: linkage; as a predicate, a definite; Describe the unspeakable hardship of imitation.

6. Source: Ming Feng Menglong's "Xingshi Hengyan" Volume 8: "Things are in a dilemma, and they want to stop talking." ”

7. Sentence formation: Qing Pu Songling's "Strange Tales from Liaozhai": "The language is very sad, and the one who asks in surprise, and those who want to stop talking." ”

If you want to talk and stop", the next sentence can be followed by "to do and rest". "Wanting to speak and stopping" means wanting to say but not saying it, describing unspeakable suffering. Synonyms of "want to speak and stop" include "indecisive", "hesitant", etc.

Near antonymssynonyms: both ends of the first mouse, indecisive, hesitant.

Antonyms: quick talking, straightforward, and to the point.

Source:

If you want to talk and stop" is from the eighth volume of "Xingshi Hengyan" written by Feng Menglong in the Ming Dynasty: "Things are in a dilemma, and you want to stop talking." Pu Songling's "Strange Tales from Liaozhai" in the Qing Dynasty is also used: "The language is very sad; Surprised; Those who want to stop talking. ”

Someone understands your desires and stops, and the previous sentence is to hope that someone understands your desires and stops.

1. How to improve your literary literacy.

1) It is more emotional, a bit like the legendary "sentimentality", so that there can be something to speak of, which must be slowly cultivated by ordinary life experience; The second must have a certain degree of logic, a certain language foundation, so that there can be words and things, as for this second aspect, you have to rely on your own learning, classical Chinese is a must.

2) It is recommended to read more beautiful prose, or long poems, taste it a few times by yourself, and then take a look at the appreciation of the famous writer's analysis of the text, and compare the similarities and differences in views. As for **, I personally recommend Zhang Ailing and Sanmao.

2. Methods of learning classical Chinese.

1) Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty said, "If you read a book a hundred times, your spine will collapse, and you will see its righteousness." If you are familiar with it, you will not wait for explanation, and you will know its meaning." The ancients were smart, and when young children entered school, the teacher did not talk much about theories, but asked them to memorize the "Three Character Classics", "Hundred Family Names", "Four Books", "Five Classics" and so on that seemed to be word-for-word, and the meaning of the article was naturally understood.

2) Learning classical Chinese is like learning a foreign language, without enough vocabulary, everything is in the air, on paper, so the accumulation of words is the basis for learning classical Chinese.

1. Want to speak and stop, the Chinese idiom, pinyin is yù yán yòu zhǐ, which means to say and stop not talking, describing unspeakable suffering. From "Awakening Words".

2. Source: Qing Pu Songling's "Strange Tales from Liaozhai": "The language is very sad, and the one who asks it in surprise, and those who want to stop talking." ”

3. [synonyms]: both ends of the first mouse, indecisive, hesitant.

4. [antonyms]: quick to talk, straightforward, and to the point.

1. Want to speak and stop, the Chinese idiom, pinyin is yù yán yòu zhǐ, which means to say and stop not talking, describing unspeakable suffering.

2. Synonyms: both ends of the first mouse, indecisive, hesitant.

3. Antonyms: quick to talk, straightforward, to the point.

4. Example: Ming Feng Menglong's "Xingshi Hengyan" Volume 8: "Things are in a dilemma, and you want to stop talking." ”