At what point do people feel like they don t have a purpose in life?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone's question is different.

    For example, some people like challenges, and they will become more and more courageous in setbacks until they succeed; Some people will slump in frustration and give up on themselves, so that they have no purpose in life.

    Some people have good conditions but don't cherish them, waste their time, like some rich second generations, they only enjoy and don't know how to create, which is also no life goal, just the walking dead.

    Personally, I think that as long as people have something they want to pursue, they will definitely have a goal in life, and if there is no pursuit, there will be no goal in life. The above are personal opinions, I hope it can be helpful to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm a salesman, in fact, I have never forgotten what I want, but the reality and the goal are far apart, when I am rejected again and again and even sarcastic or even scolded, sadness is certain, but I told myself that I can't give up, I gave up all my efforts in vain, and I also know that I will not be able to hold my head up in this life, it is better to fight to the death than to live like this, if I have a goal I may not reach it, but I may also reach and surpass, But if I give up, I'll never get a chance to roll over. So the goal is absolutely there, and the path you choose must be completed with your heart even if you are kneeling...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you are bored, when you have nothing to do, if you don't have a goal to strive for, you always live like this, and your life will not have any brilliance It will only be black and white, think more about your dreams, and ask yourself what you want in your heart? What kind of life is it?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When there is nothing to do, life is too comfortable and dazed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At the two extremes, sorrow and ease.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you work day after day, life is too comfortable and you become lazy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you are frustrated or hit, you are depressed and tend to have no purpose in life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The units that struggle with various forces will not feel the warmth of harmony. Or continue to do what you have to do.,People can't always be changed by the environment.。。

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you are frustrated or too smooth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When irritable and disheartened.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When falling or decadent.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Without a goal, we lose opportunity, luck, and support almost simultaneously. Because he doesn't know what he wants, there is nothing that can help him: just like a ship in the sea, if you don't know that the dock is at **, you don't know what wind is a tailwind for it.

    Find yourself a goal!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If we want to make ourselves further and further on the road of life, we can't do without goals. The goal is a star in the sky, guiding you forward. Forget that we can all set goals for ourselves in life and pursue excellence for ourselves!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't feel interesting to what I eat every day. In addition, in the process of playing games, I actually feel empty. You haven't done it yet.

    Since there is no one to supervise you too much, you can't get over your conscience in the past. When I talk to my family on the phone, I don't dare to tell my family about my studies. I don't dare to talk too much about my life situation.

    I don't want to talk to my family. And sometimes I feel really homesick. I am willing to have a good chat with my family.

    This is life without a purpose. I feel that life has no meaning, and I feel as if there is no hope in life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People tend to be confused at some point, and the most confused time in my life should be now.

    I've just graduated from college for a year, and I've been working for a year, and like many graduates, I've changed jobs after I first entered the society, and there are one or two good ones. Now I just quit from a good company and joined a new company.

    I stayed in this good company for a long time, it was the longest of all the jobs, I actually liked this job very much, because at work, my colleagues were very good to me, and also gave me a lot of help in life, and my position in the company at that time was also very good as a management trainee, with a lot of resources, and I could also get in touch with a lot of things. My previous job was busy, but it was fulfilling, and I didn't have anything else to think about every day except work. But it was because of these days when I didn't have to think about anything that I found that I had lost my purpose.

    Originally, I joined the company to learn things and get a promotion and a raise. But after working for half a year, I found that I didn't get any of these three things, except for tiredness and endless complaints from colleagues, I didn't learn anything.

    So I decided to quit my job, and although there was a lot of reluctance, I decided to leave. For a while after leaving, I looked for a job for a long time, because I didn't have a goal, I didn't know what job I wanted, I didn't know what my future would look like, so I picked and choose. Because I wasn't a student, I was not good at always reaching out to my parents for money, so a month after I quit my job, I found a company and went to work.

    I'm in the company is personnel, every day is not much to brush up the position, hit **, the days and the original job is simple and easy, I just like this kind of work, do easier work but earn money and the original, I am very satisfied with this life.

    But after a week of joining the company, I started to get confused, I used to be a very strong person, I set myself a very high goal, but now I am getting farther and farther away from my original goal, I don't know what I am doing now means in the future, and I don't know what to do in the future.

    Every day I get up at 7:30, go to work at 8:30, eat at 12:00, get off work at 5:30 and so on, maybe others will be very envious, feel that this kind of work is very easy and the treatment is very good, but my heart has been empty, I don't know what I am pursuing, I am very busy now, I want to try everything, but I gave up after a few attempts, and lived every day in a mess. In fact, I really want to get out of this state now, but I have no direction to go, and I hope that in the near future, I can really return to the aspiring youth I used to be.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Life is an accident.

    Death is a necessity! The process of being alive.

    That's life! Don't ask yourself to get out of the trap every step is right.

    I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

    Life is enough! Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

    Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once! To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life! If you can't find the value of your own existence.

    Just think about it. Myself.

    Give yourself an account.

    To parents. Friend.

    The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her! Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

    Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

    The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

    1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

    Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

    3) It is easy to live and live easily, but life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. In a word:

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then try to find your goal, imagine what you will get if you become better, and the future life is the reason for your struggle. Life will be confused, as long as you dig and grit your teeth, you can complete your own transformation, I hope you can grasp it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Not having a purpose in life isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you are very confused, you will be troubled, and if you have too many troubles, you will be sad and sad, and gradually sad and hurt. This is also a very worthless thing, the world's population is billions, how many people have life goals, although no statistics have been made, but the vast majority of people are mediocre, get by and spend their lives, they have experienced the ups and downs of life, in the face of plump goals, the reality is too skinny, and even too cruel.

    Real life is full of traps and crises, which will pierce the ideal balloon into a thousand holes, and in the end they can only be deflated and shriveled, so they choose to let it go, follow the wind and waves, and look at the attitude of walking, not to force, naturally feel comfortable in the bottom of their hearts, and their troubles have been reduced a lot.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A life without a goal will have no sense of achievement, because you don't have a goal to make yourself struggle and work hard, and you won't be able to experience the sense of achievement after completing the goal, and life will not feel that this is a complete life without the fun of struggle.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are more people around me who are confused every day, have no plan for life, and have no goals and pursuits for their future life. With a meager salary, doing boring work, unwilling to have too much contact with the outside world, paralyzing himself, and escaping from reality. I don't have much expectations for my life, I have to get by, and I live with peace of mind.

    Some people may occasionally feel panic and anxiety, want to try to change, only blame themselves for their weak willpower, and finally have no choice but to give up, compromise with reality, and still be pushed by life, living a life without freedom, without choice, and tired of themselves. Confused, directionless, uncertain about the future, like stumbling around in the night when you can't see your fingers, the fear and powerlessness in your heart begin to pervade, tearing at you all the time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If there is no goal in life, then every day is to get by, almost repeating the same work every day, and many people actually have no goals after going to work. I go to work every day just to earn some money to pay off the mortgage or buy a house, and the days go by like this. When I was studying, I was a very ambitious person, and every time I started school, I would set my goals and prepare for the first place in this year's exam.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no goal in life, I think it should be that your living conditions are superior, and you are more chaotic in choosing your life goals, lazy, and indecisive, and you will be confused for a long time, just guess please forgive me. As long as you have something to do and fulfill every day, you have a goal. Change your thinking, change your environment, and come into contact with strange people, things, and things, and I think you will be much more determined.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When I was a freshman, I often didn't know what I was going to do, and although I seemed busy every day, I didn't have a goal, and I felt like I hadn't learned anything. Later, I joined the student council and clubs, but I gradually found out that this place was only for me to work as a free laborer, and after thinking twice, I quit all my positions and decided to start a small business. At that time, I did **, and I did it for about 2 months, and I was very tired every day, learning all kinds of professional knowledge, but later I found out that I was not suitable and still failed.

    Later, I did it myself, slowly learned, slowly studied, from January 17 to today it has been 4 months, every day there is a goal of life and learning, I feel that I can learn a lot every day, very fulfilling!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Without a goal, every day is like eating and waiting for death! Now I am like this, with a salary just enough to support myself, living a life that I can live and live, complaining about the unfairness of fate every day, complaining about the unhappiness of life, but I will not try to change, even if I know that my current life is too comfortable, even if I know that my young self should have my own goals and dreams!

    Every day is the same, and it feels like stepping into old age ahead of time. I get up in a hurry in the morning, sometimes I rush to the company before I have breakfast, I have a muddy day of work, and most of the time after work I live in my room, watching dramas, brushing Weibo, unwilling to imagine my future, unwilling to face my true self, and has been hiding myself. I have almost no hobbies, I don't have any good friends, and I like to be alone most of the time.

    I don't have a goal, I don't know what I should do next, so I stay where I am and don't want to take a step forward. If you don't have a goal and don't know what kind of life you want, you will live every day. Sometimes I am afraid of being alone, but I am reluctant to fall in love and get married, because I feel very troublesome, to fully accept a person into my life, and I am too lazy to enter other people's lives, too lazy to face marriage, too lazy to face the trivial details of two people's lives.

    I don't have a goal, I feel like there is no hope in life, the flowers in other people's mouths, the dreams come true seem to have nothing to do with me, I am like a person living on the edge of the world, envying others and pitying myself, but I never take any action. Sometimes, I feel sorry for myself, I don't want to be motivated when I'm young, but I don't want to make any changes at all, so I just have to get by.

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