How to get along with friends with low EQ, how to get along with people with very low EQ

It's quite nerve-wracking to have such a thing around (hug the subject).

I think getting along with them can probably be divided into two categories: those who can hide and those who can't.

1.I can hide.

Of course, this is relatively simple, if you can avoid getting along too much, try to avoid it, keep your distance, and usually smile at them.

2.Can't hide.

If you really can't avoid it, don't have a head-on conflict with them (as a rule of thumb), and would rather offend the gentleman than the villain. This kind of person is generally like you want to change him, and it's better to leave this kind of thing to his mother to worry about If you compare them to hedgehogs, and you don't want to be stabbed, try to bypass their thorns.

Don't worry too much, from another angle, in fact, even if the worst people have shining points and smooth hair, they are not all reverse scales, don't get used to magnifying their shortcomings, and learn to see their highlights, maybe getting along will be much happier than before.

Pay attention everywhere in life, and you will turn.

For example, if someone likes to get angry with others about something, you can try to avoid it when you are with him, discuss things that make him upset, divert his attention, or try to stay away from him when he is negative...Speaking of theory, it's up to you to experience this.

Optimize the atmosphere of getting along.

Ambiance is important!

Usually you can say some inconsequential jokes, humor is a good medicine to make both parties happy, in fact, the occasional gag is also a means of getting along with them, master the goodness, be cautious in words and deeds, and empathize more (this must be highlighted).

Feelings still depend on each other's hearts.

1.Try to minimize deep friendships and keep a polite distance.

If you are just a casual relationship with this person in work and life, then you don't need to have a deeper relationship, there is no need to dig your heart and lungs with them, because your heart may be the talk of their jokes, just keep a polite distance and say hello to such a person. But if you have to have a deep relationship with this person, then you can find an opportunity to have a deep chat with him and kindly remind him that low emotional intelligence will inevitably suffer in this society.

2.Talk to them straight to the point and get straight to the point.

Generally, people with low emotional intelligence do not have a high perception of their surroundings, sometimes they can't hear what others are saying, and even you are already scolding them, but they can't perceive them at all, so you need to speak straightforwardly, so sometimes it will not only save a lot of trouble, but also avoid a lot of misunderstandings.

3.Change the subject appropriately to avoid embarrassing situations.

People with low emotional intelligence are sometimes not easy to stabilize their emotions, so it is easy to be open-mouthed when they are in a bad mood, so when you feel that their emotions have changed, you should change the topic appropriately, so as not to say something embarrassing to both parties after they are really out of control, because you hear them speak badly, and it is easy to lose control of emotions, and the relationship is easy to stiffen.

4.Keep your mind sensible and don't get angry with them.

People with low emotional intelligence sometimes don't take into account the feelings of others when they talk and do things, but if you are easily angry with them at this time, in fact, sometimes they happen to be "hit", and often let them see jokes, so when you get along with people with low emotional intelligence, you must stay sane in your heart, and don't be angry with them casually, otherwise it will seem that your emotional intelligence is not high.

5.Listen to them more and talk less to yourself when you are with them.

In fact, you must have experience, people with low emotional intelligence sometimes speak really badly, but they themselves can't feel it at all, so if you avoid being angry with them, so when you get along with them, try to listen to them as much as possible, and talk less yourself, so that at least they can't catch your leak copper to attack you.

6.Don't talk to them, cold treatment is the best.

Sometimes people with low emotional intelligence want to be the focus of others, the more they will show off, and they will also desperately snoop on other people's privacy, so the best way to deal with this kind of person is to ignore their existence, not to take their words, treat them in a cold way, let them know that you are not easy to mess with, and naturally over time they will stay away from you.

Hehe! I have also had this doubt, my husband is a "wood" with very low emotional intelligence, and he will be taught slowly, of course, whether you say it directly or in any method, let him know what your intentions are, and it will be good to take a long time!

Keep telling him that you love him, like him, and be good to him, anyway, just tell the truth. Thought I was one.

First of all, you need to realize that other people's low emotional intelligence has nothing to do with you, and it is not your fault.

Secondly, if you are always affected by the low emotional intelligence of others, it means that you may care too much about other people's feelings and ignore your own feelings. In fact, when we are with friends with low emotional intelligence, we have a lot of techniques to deal with this difference in emotional intelligence while also maintaining a relationship between two people.

First, you need to be yourself first. Second, we need to use more communication to solve problems. 3. You can also guide your friends as much as possible.

In such a situation, I think you should adjust your emotions, and then you should be sincere when you get along with the other person, say whatever you want, and then don't have some more suggestive words, you should just say it directly.

It should be that you have to take care of his emotions, and you also have to understand his emotional intelligence, mainly because emotional intelligence is sometimes innate.

When you get along together, you need to let him talk less, or you can tell him what to say by yourself, and this distance is the best.

It's okay to maintain a superficial relationship with such a friend, there is no need to get along deeply, because such a friend is very difficult to get along with, and it will make you very sad.

We must respect each other, and then do not force each other on matters of principle, we must learn to tolerate and understand each other, and ask for common ground while reserving differences.