What should the ideal state of a couple look like?

Many couples will think about such a question before getting married, what should be the state of the couple after marriageSo what should the ideal state of husband and wife look like after marriage?

The most important thing between a couple is trustGiving enough trust to both parties can make the marriage more stable, and the trust of both parties can also make the other party increase a lot of self-confidence in life and work, and the relationship will become stronger and stronger over timeTherefore, it is necessary to establish trust with your other half in marriage. Everyone needs to be respected, everyone has dignity, so everyone should know to respect others. Communication between people is based on respect.

If you don't respect your significant other, you won't mind his respectYou also don't have time to feel his tolerance for you. In marriage, both parties must respect each other. If there is no mutual respect, the relationship between the two will become precarious, and there will be no family full of happiness.

So respect your partner so that you will have a happy family.

In marriage, the fact that husband and wife have a common topic is a prerequisite for the relationship to be maintainedIf both parties do not have the same interests and hobbies, then there is likely to be no time for communication in the marriage, and when you become a couple, you cannot meet each other's spiritual needs, need warmth, and you can get the strength, encouragement, and love that you best crave.

Couples who can communicate together and have common topics are the most suitable couples, even if they have been married for a long time, and life tends to be dull, start living a boring life, and they will not quarrel over a trivial matter, because their opinions can always be agreed upon, and they will not quarrel easily. Chemistry is easy to cultivate, even if two people don't have a lot of hobbies and topics in common at firstBut after a long period of integration and understanding, you will gradually accept the hobbies of your other half. Such as:

I think the ideal state of husband and wife is to help each other, understand each other, respect each other, support each other, give each other understanding in life, consider each other's feelings, provide each other with the most needed help, give each other care, give each other love.

Mutual tolerance and mutual support have common values, whether poor or rich, only with common values can we become a loving couple.

Tolerating each other and understanding each other, this kind of husband and wife state is very good, and many people like this state very much.

In fact, for me, the life I yearn for the most as a couple is actually the two of us living an ordinary life. To be honest, I don't particularly yearn for that kind of glorious and wealthy life, although I also wish I could not have to run around to make a living, but as long as I have enough money to spend. Of course, this is just my personal attitude towards life, after all, everyone's ideals are different.

I know that there are many people who yearn for that kind of vigorous love, but what I want to say is that after marriage, love will fade with the loss of time, after all, living together is really different from two people falling in love, but in the love stage, two people may think about going on a date every day, what to eat, what to play, all of which are thinking about entertainment and happiness; But once you get married, everyone can slowly understand that marriage is not simply about falling in love, living is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and all kinds of trivial things are inevitable in life, all kinds of things may lead to disputes between the two. Next, I will talk about my ideal life as a couple. <>

1. Talk from time to time. I have always felt that it is very helpful for couples to talk often to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, in most cases, the conflict between husband and wife is caused by the reluctance of two people to communicate, so that often to talk to know what the other party thinks, of course, this premise is that each other is willing to open their hearts to the other half, and say anything directly, which will really reduce a lot of unnecessary contradictions. And I personally feel that the scene of the husband and wife sitting together and talking about their hearts is very warm.

2. Be considerate of each other. In real life, there are many couples who think of themselves, and they don't think about their other half at all, and they don't think about each other's position, which will really cause a lot of contradictions, so being able to understand each other is also a point that I care about very much.

I think the best state is to keep the feeling of love. Anyone gets married and gets changed. Before getting married, it was very romantic, and after marriage, it was pots and pans.

The trivialities of life make you tired of life, there is no warmth and romance at all, and you are busy. Said it was for a better life, but missed more good times. Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son is provided for mutual understanding and respect.

Otherwise, even if you grow old together, you will not be happy.

The ideal life of a couple is that after entering the marriage, the two people can still surprise each other like a young couple, and the mentality of the two people will become more optimistic, and they are always afraid that the other party will be wronged.

It will be very harmonious, and at the same time there will be mutual understanding, and two people will help each other, and the relationship is very sweet.

After getting married, the ideal life of a husband and wife should be like this, the husband and wife go to work after breakfast in the morning, go home in the evening, and have dinner together, so that the day is very happy.

Husbands and wives know each other's cold, hot, and painful. Cherish each other and rely on each other. It's related:

share with each other; It is the relationship between love and emotion, both the moment of excitement and the deep relationship of friendship and family affection; A lover who sings mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and talks about everything. In life, we can understand each other, trust each other, help each other, respect each other, love each other, live in harmony, walk hand in hand, help each other, support each other, help each other, respect each other, love each other, understand each other, live in harmony and share longevity.

Go out to work together in the morning, share some interesting things in life and work with each other in your free time, go shopping together to cook and buy vegetables after work, and communicate more with husband and wife.

I think that after getting married, the ideal life of a husband and wife is to respect each other and help each other, so that life will be more flavorful and can make you go longer and longer.

During the break, two people can do housework together, and in the evening, lie down together to watch movies and TV series. Or just look at your phone quietly. During the holidays, you can travel together.

There is no barrier between husband and wife. Trust each other. Take the other person to heart.

This is the ideal state of life for me.

Personally, I think that the most ideal relationship between husband and wife is that two people can understand each other, be considerate of each other, have common views, have common topics, have common interests and hobbies, the man knows to be generous, and the woman knows to understand and be humble, tolerate and love each other, and run the small family of two people together.

The ideal relationship between husband and wife is one in which two people help each other, make progress together, and become a better version of themselves, rather than dragging each other down.

I think the ideal relationship between husband and wife is one that is independent and dependent on each other. Because husband and wife are actually two separate individuals, they need their own space to do what they want to do; But they are a whole, they help each other in life, grow together, and no one can do without the other, so they are interdependent.

The ideal state is that the husband and wife can know how to respect, know how to be humble to each other, and can immediately stand by each other's side when they encounter something, and this relationship is the best.

The ideal relationship between husband and wife is to be like a young couple, and they will prepare some surprises or romance, and they will not lose their freshness because they are married for a long time.

Understand each other, tolerate each other, give each other enough privacy space, and both parties have common topics and pay attention to the ritual sense of life.

The ideal relationship between husband and wife is one in which two people can trust each other and communicate well in married life.

The relationship between husband and wife should be mutual understanding and mutual tolerance, two people have a common language, make progress together, face the ups and downs of life together, rely on each other in everything, and encourage each other.

Two people help each other, solve problems together, and the two people will never shirk, on the contrary, they will encourage each other.

It is that both parties care about each other, tolerate each other, think about each other, and will not do anything bad for each other.

Husband and wife get along is an art, two people who are not related by blood, because they love each other and live in the same room, although they are intimate, they still have to get along.

It is a great fate that two people can find someone who loves each other deeply in the vast sea of people, so they must live in harmony after entering the marriage hall, but no one can understand everything, they are all groping and summarizing in life practice, I will share my personal advice:

Trusting each other is a prerequisite for a happy life.

The union of husband and wife is a lifelong life. We should be sincere to the person who shares the bed with us, believe in the other person, and don't be suspicious, guessing and guessing. Especially in terms of feelings, since we have tested each other through the process of falling in love, we must treat each other with sincerity when we enter the palace of marriage.

There are many marriages with red lights, that is, one party willfully figurs out those things that do not exist, which makes the other party feel very hurt, and naturally wants to end the relationship.

Tolerance for one another is the foundation of a fulfilling life.

There are still times when the teeth bite the lips. No matter how good the relationship between the husband and wife is, it is impossible to have no differences. We will have different opinions on the details of life, in the process of dealing with others, and we will also have personality differences.

For example, if one party wants to do something at a certain time and day, but the other party is unwilling to do it, then it is natural to look away and not force it.

Moreover, no one is perfect, there will be certain flaws in our character, we will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing in life, as long as it does not violate the bottom line of principles, we can consider forgiveness.

Appreciating each other is a catalyst for a happy life.

Just as everyone has their flaws, each of us has strengths. In life, husband and wife should look at each other's advantages, appreciate each other, increase satisfaction, and promote the deepening of husband and wife feelings.

No matter what, it is fate that husband and wife can come together, and they should cherish it.

The most important thing is that husband and wife are often together, and it is inevitable that there will be quarrels, at this time, don't take out the things that have passed for a long time repeatedly, and don't say words like breakup and divorce, because saying it once will make your marriage one more seam, and the result of more sewing will be broken.

Finally, I wish all lovers in the world to be united forever and happy to old age.

Many people wonder what is the most comfortable way for couples to get along.

Many people say that when two people are together, of course, they have to talk about everything all the time, which is the most ideal mode of getting along.

But in fact, "comfort" is the most ideal mode of getting along with couples.

A friend once told me that she didn't feel like her relationship with her boyfriend was as good as it was when they first started together.

I asked her what it looked like.

That's what she said, she said that when she first started with her boyfriend, the two of them couldn't stop talking, even on their mobile phones.

But now the two of them go out to eat together, even if they are face-to-face, they are playing with their own mobile phones. It's as if there is nothing to say.

She was very annoyed, for fear that if she continued like this, her boyfriend would break up with her.

I then asked her, would you feel embarrassed by that? She's not going to be embarrassed.

And I congratulated her. Because she is already in the most comfortable mode of getting along.

Why do two people have to talk endlessly when they are together, and they must be lively all the time?

Love doesn't have to be vigorous, and sometimes the more comfortable mode of getting along is plain.

Two people are together, even if they are playing with their respective phones, as long as they don't feel embarrassed, then that's good. Two people who get along day and night, how can there be so many topics to talk about. After all, it is necessary to return to the bland.

Gu Cheng wrote in a poem, "It is very beautiful for us to sit quietly and no one speaks." ”

Two people who have just met, if neither of them can speak, then the atmosphere must be very awkward.

If there is a time when neither of them speaks and the atmosphere is not awkward, it means that the relationship between these two people is already very good.

Often such feelings can last long.

The ideal mode of getting along as a couple is: Be able to tolerate each other's shortcomings. You should also be properly cared for, so that the other person can make the other person feel that you are for him.

Warmth to him. Then it is also necessary for the husband and wife to have some tacit understanding, so that in ordinary life, it can also be more. Get along better.