Why is love so troubled, can anyone help me

You know that there is no such thing as imposing and controlling such a thing, and the more you control it, the stronger it becomes. As you said, he won't be with you, and you won't abandon your boyfriend, so it's the same as before, if he asks you out again, you can go, but if he takes your shoulder or does something, you have to explain that you have a boyfriend, and she also has a girlfriend, what does he mean by this? Then he will definitely react.

You have to think about a lot of things, and it can't be ruled out that he did it on purpose, or was entrusted with you, right? Next time, if it's still like this, make it clear to him well, and you can't be ashamed of your boyfriend, then tell him not to do this. Don't believe it because he has some ambiguity, be cautious.

Coming out of this relationship, it's not so simple, and it's not so difficult. It's actually useless to delete things or something. The important thing is that you realize that you can be like this, you can say in your heart that he is lying to you, testing you, and you can also find reasons for yourself to prove that he is tempting you and lying to you, and over time you will despise him.

If this doesn't work, then confess to him, although you know that this kind of confession is useless, but it is also beneficial, one is to confirm whether he really likes you, if there is, then there is a lover who will eventually become a family, if not, you just want him to know that you like him, and you like him is your business, and it has nothing to do with him.

Typical men are not bad and women do not love. Guilty of cheapness.

You won't be sorry for your boyfriend, so you have to control yourself and don't make small talk with that guy. Keep your distance.

I think you like him because he has an intimate attitude towards you, and you are still a simple child and have not been exposed to many such things, so you are easily influenced by him and constantly think about him in your head. But at the same time, you're a rational person and you know your mistakes, and I think that's good. I feel like you can go out on a trip with your boyfriend and strengthen the relationship between you and your boyfriend, and you won't miss him anymore.

And you can't get him to do anything intimate to you anymore. That way you'll be able to get out of it in no time!

Whatever you want... Don't let yourself regret it.

Delete everything about him, don't leave any thoughts for yourself, since you know that he is not sincere to himself, why torture himself so much, think more about the good of your boyfriend, I hope you can come out as soon as possible!

Follow your feelings, and the more you want to get rid of them, the more entangled! It's like memorizing, the more you want to forget, the more you remember! Whether it's a boyfriend or a girlfriend, in the end, it's all friends! Life is like a play!

It is more important that you understand his or her heart, give him or her what he or she wants, and let it go appropriately! I wish you success in your relationship!

Haha, it's not worth your liking in the park. I'll just do this and see if it helps you.

If you think it's appropriate, just ask.

There's no better way to do that than to start another relationship.

Don't get in touch anymore, the consequences are serious.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is an injury, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Destroying love can be a matter of a moment or a lifetime. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's just that when you care too much about someone, digging and loving will become a burden.

In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Love is only one part of the life experience, not the whole story. You worry about love all day because you haven't figured out what's most important in your life right now.

People, living and living depend on real talent and learning; People, to win respect, rely on character charm; Success depends on tenacity and courage. All these efforts are a solid foundation for your career based on society. The so-called being a person in advance, the so-called starting a family before starting a business, is precisely because of this.

There is a sycamore at home, a phoenix from itself, and love is fateful, so why bother all day long? Even if we have troubles all the time, what good is it that they don't help? It's better to gather your heart, concentrate and be inspirational, start from small things, plan your own life, and achieve your own wonderful, wouldn't you be more qualified to be full of self-confidence and stand between heaven and earth, and you will eventually harvest your own sweet love.

Why bother about love? If you're not happy, give up, don't grieve yourself.

Why is it that what a prospective graduate student writes is so uncoherent and incoherent?

You probably didn't know each other on the Internet, the Internet can't be trusted.

Find something to do with yourself, there are many things to do and think about in life besides love.

Don't contact so often, after a while, you will slowly let go of the topic when there are fewer topics.

It's a normal thing, don't think too much.

Then don't be a lover.

Let go of your heart, feel the troubles and pains you have had, and then feel the happiness that you have in your heart!But you have to know why you are troubled and miserable and why you are happy!Life doesn't care about a few words!

Persistence and greed!You are too attached to the beginning and the end of an event in the pastAnd the result of being greedy to do a thing!

Well, the beginning is good, the process is good, but the result is not as you think!So why should you cling to what you have done and regret it, and be greedy for the results that follow!Why don't you feel the joy and relief that your mind experiences in the beginning and process?

However, they are obsessed with the resultSo why don't you put your heart down!Do you know how to put it down!

How you pick it up is how you put it down!In the beginning and in the process until the result, that is the possibility that you can no longer change!Because the past is dead, like yesterday's death, and it just happened or didn't happen, like being born again, and will be born again, then why don't you take it as a human truth, He did this to me, but I can't do this to others because of this, and even treat himself again!

We are often all because of a word!One breath !Because of the extreme dissatisfaction in my heart, but since then I have not taken the original path and have chosen another path!

Then why not continue to treat him like that!We will continue to help him when he is in trouble!Because since we've done it, we can't go back!

Then we're going to keep doing it and let him know what kind of people we are!He felt guilty and regretful, but we will still talk about him when we get thereEnlighten him!

You may say that we are human beings, not gods, and even less BuddhasWe don't have that much patience and principles!But think again!

Those who are angry are also themselves, and those who hate are also themselves!Or maybe you're angry with others and hate others!In the end, it's not that you are injured and he is safe and sound, and his heart is very happy, so why don't you let it go!

You'll also say that others will look down on people like us!But if someone looks at you like that, you say you're laughing at you!In fact, I don't want you to be better than them!

Otherwise, you can think back to the people who knew before, the things they did, and they were laughed at!So what about them!In the end, how is it!

Think about what others are saying about theirs for!Because of face, because he is better than me, but in the end I am not really happy and gratified!So why not do what I want to say!

And to be obsessive and greedy!In fact, everyone is different! Think and do different!

If everything and everyone does what you say!So who will progress and gain experience before operating the road ahead!So it's easy to be a human being!

To know how to put down!

Because love is inherently a troublesome thing unless, you can know what the other person wants and wants.

Because in love, everyone is a newbie!

Because, there are troubles to find true love!!