Is it sympathy or love, who can help me

If you really care about appearance, then don't go to her again, she doesn't need your sympathy, everyone will be loved, what you don't like doesn't mean that others don't like it either, if you can't accept her, just let it go and give others a chance to love her.

I don't think appearance can negate everything about her, sometimes emotional things are raised by time

Love is just a feeling, I want to ask you why you like people when you talk online, isn't it just a feeling! In fact, whether a person is beautiful or not should not be constant with appearance, and the person with a beautiful soul is the most beautiful, and it is not worthy of use"Beauty"Isn't that the word? Can you accept some people who look beautiful on the outside, but have dirty hearts?

I hope that the landlord will refer to it and then consider whether what I said is right

Physiognomy is not a criterion for judging a person.

Can you accept it if you give you a celebrity face?

It is often said that when choosing a wife, you must first choose your heart.

80 years later, where has the appearance gone?

Find out for yourself.

If you care a lot about your appearance, think seriously about whether you want to be with her or not! If you choose to be with her, you don't care what others say!! If you can't stand what other people say, it's best not to be together!

It's better for you and for her!! In fact, the heart and appearance are quite important.

Sympathy or friendship is best known to you.

Appearance is just a momentary visual perception.

If she's a good girl, give each other a chance.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: Once upon a time, I loved an extremely intelligent boy, and I still haven't forgotten it.

Later, I sympathized with an extremely hard-working boy whose fate was very sad, and who had been chasing something but had been repeatedly frustrated, so I became friends with him in comfort.

However, I gradually found that I seemed to fall in love with the person who had a bumpy fate, and even deeply cared for it. Do whatever it takes to fight for time with him.

The midterm exam is coming up and I know what to do. So I dropped everything, even though he couldn't help but intrude into my thoughts.

After the midterm exam, I don't know if I can still stay in the same class as him (the key class is T-person, I'm a little dangerous).

If I stayed with him, I would love him well and tease him, and I would let him know that I loved him, even if he turned his head and left me.

Should I do this? I don't know. Emotionally, I'm always **

Analysis: There is no eternity in love at this age.

In the dialectical sense of confusion, the enthusiasm of the person you once loved has now faded.

In the same way, those who love now will not love in the future.

So don't take it too seriously, don't spend your energy on that.

Read well. After a while, the mood is different again.

Maybe you'll understand when the time comes.

I've always been reluctant to tell people about my past, about my family, and the feelings I once had in my heart.

I am afraid to face the sympathetic gaze of others, and in my opinion, neither friendship nor love should start with pity and sympathy.

Compassion and sympathy perpetuate friendship and love that can feel stressful, inauthentic, complex, and even illusory.

I don't like to live in an illusory world, and I don't like to go to the virtual world with my friends, the virtual world is very colorful, but anytime, anywhere, if you are not careful, it will disappear. I'm a very insecure person, and I'm afraid of that kind of virtual world

It seems that if you are not careful, inadvertently, all the feelings that have just been established will disappear, as if you have been abandoned for the next time, and that feeling has indescribable helplessness.

I know that Mr. Polar Bear cares about me and understands me, and I really appreciate that.

We didn't know each other very well, we didn't talk much often, and I didn't tell him any stories about me or what kind of person I was.

However, he knew me surprisingly, could see through me, and knew my feelings and moods that I had never told in my heart.

But this friendship is very floating, because, the starting point is pity, in the eyes of Mr. Polar Bear, I am a lost penguin, I don't know that there is warmth in the world, maybe, I don't want to tell him, my story, my excuse is, "the eyes are long, because we have to look forward, let the past pass, not necessarily looking back."

Today is full of feelings, some of the mood can not be described in words, Hehe, I chatted with my brother in the evening.

Brother said, my words are some, sad.

Hehe, I also feel that I've always written Zou Zou recently, and I've written a lot of words, hehe, but this is a good habit, maybe a year to look back and turn over what I wrote before, maybe after reading, I will smile wisely, and then say to myself, it turns out that I am in such a state of mind.

A lot of love starts with compassion.

If you love each other, you can say anything, but if you are wishful thinking, I'm afraid it's useless to do anything. The key is that the two are happy and agreeable. Know yourself and know your opponent, and know what you want before you guess it.

Love is mutual, a matter of two people. The point is to have a common language! Understand each other's interests and develop common hobbies. There must be intersection and communication to have development As long as the two hearts are trying to get closer to each other, there will be hope.

If you are in love or married, whether you have a future or not, whether you can be happy depends on whether you can manage this love well. Learn to be tolerant, learn to cherish, respect and love each other, treat each other honestly, sincerely exchange true feelings, and the future will definitely be auspicious and beautiful!

Falling in love is the process of understanding each other, when you don't get along well, there is no common language that is not suitable for each other, there is no need to force yourself, and continuing to maintain it can only be tiring and tiring yourself. Don't get too tangled.

Not to love for love's sake, but to pity others.

That's not love, it's a mistake from the beginning.

No, in this case, you will fall into it, I used to be, and I didn't dare to say that I would break up, and as soon as I said that I would break up, I would die and threaten me, so it is better not to give sympathetic love This kind of life is not good!!

If love, love true.

Otherwise, neither you nor her will be truly happy.

Hope to think twice.

Compassion is not love, it threatens to hurt others and oneself.

Personally, I don't think so, the word "love" not only contains the feelings of two people, but also includes responsibility, responsibility to each other, and responsibility to the families of both parties. Sympathy may make the other person feel better, but when the other person truly understands that your love is only out of sympathy, it will only hurt both sides. Maybe after you are together, you will develop in another direction, and you will get better and better, but there is still a certain risk, and you have to choose carefully.

Sympathy is also love, but it is not love, can it satisfy her thirst for love? No.

No, sympathetic love does not last. In the end, it will only bring harm.

Long-lasting love is in your heart, just like a very bird's answer to Human's often asking whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless sacrifice and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

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Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love a person just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable for the big orange to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, but it's just that we love the wrong person and pretend to be h