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''If you want to get good grades, be friends with people who have good grades.'' Because your friend's good grades will stimulate your subconscious mind to study hard to reach the same level as him. If you make friends with people who don't have good grades, your grades will also get worse because you will also lose motivation to work hard when you see that your friends are not doing well.
Inscription In order to let Mencius receive education, Mengzi's mother left a good story of "Mengzi's mother's three migrations", which made Mencius; Qu Yuan had a disagreement with the powerful and political, and in order to preserve his "clean" sentiments, he resolutely chose to end his life "perfectly"; In order to avoid the sycophancy of officialdom, Tao Qian resolutely resigned and returned to his hometown, because he did not want to be in the same stream as the world. This is the so-called "close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black". A flower farmer who grows tulips has cultivated a batch of special seeds after years of hard work, and the flowers are big and beautiful.
In the first year, his flowers sold well, and his neighbors came to his door to ask him for some seeds, but he was selfish and refused to give his neighbors tulip seeds for fear that they would steal his business. In the second year, he found that his flowers did not bloom as well as the first: the flowers were small and variegated.
For some reason, he found a well-known local biologist and told him about his troubles. After listening to his words, the biologist said: Because your neighbor grows a different variety of flowers than yours, and the insects transfer different pollen to your flowers in the process of pollination, there is a genetic mutation, so your flowers will become like this.
The best way to save yourself is to get your neighbors to plant the same flowers as you. The flower farmer gave the tulip seeds to his neighbors to plant, and since then, the flowers planted by the flower farmer and his neighbors have always maintained their original characteristics and the longer they grow, the better. At first, the flowers planted by the flower farmers were in a messy environment and were affected by the environment, so by the second year there were varieties of flowers; When his neighbors planted the same flowers as him, the environment became better, so the flowers bloomed better.
If the farmer doesn't do what the biologist says, his flowers may be relegated to the same grade as their neighbors'. It doesn't stand out what's special. Just like people, what kind of environment we are in determines what kind of person we will become.
Fang Zhongyong is a good example. Talented at an early age, he was in the spotlight; Because of his father's mercenary intentions, he dragged him to do "propaganda" every day, and he lost the previous learning environment, and finally fell from a prodigy to mediocrity. On the contrary, because of the continuous improvement of the environment, Mencius eventually became a Confucian master after Confucius.
In contrast, we are well aware of the importance of the environment for the growth of talents. What kind of environment you are in will be what kind of person you will become. The biggest factor in talent comparison with mediocrity is the environment.
There are many examples like Fang Zhongyong, all of which reveal the same truth: the environment affects the growth of talents. The environment is the guarantee of talent growth:
A good environment can promote the growth of talents, and a bad environment hinders the growth of talents. Don't let the environment become a "stumbling block" in our growth.
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Seedlings are promoted. There is a Song man who is anxious, and he hopes that the rice in the rice field will grow up soon. However, the rice had to grow slowly, not as fast as he thought.
One day, he came up with a clever plan: he went down to the field and pulled every rice tree out of the soil. I'm so tired!
A long day's work! However, the rice in the field is.
In life, people often sigh at Xing You Kai: children have learned Chinese for many years, but the language level is still not satisfactory! Therefore, the reform file called on the leading language teachers to show their abilities and actively explore ways to improve students' language proficiency.
The growth of students is also the same as the growth of Hemo Rang Miao, there is a certain law, and you must not be in a hurry like that Song people.
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