My husband often likes to drink with those alcoholic friends and don t come home, should I get a div

You should get a divorce, but first you have to communicate with your husband, don't talk about divorce easily, after all, this is a big thing, especially after having children, you can't divorce easily, you have to communicate with him, and I hope he can correct it.

Divorce or not, it's up to you. But he wasn't like that when he got married, if that's the case, then I don't think you would marry him. Think about it, think about it more, and then talk to your husband about it, and say that if he corrects it, then it's okay, if you don't correct it, then you can't stand it and divorce!

Marriage is not easy, if you are already married, you can not divorce as much as possible, your husband has bad habits and wants to change him or limit him, reduce the frequency first, and then think about letting him quit.

If the husband is responsible for the family by drinking, drinking is just his hobby, and he can be corrected, and divorce will hurt the children too much.

can be divorced, explain the situation, no one can stand such a family

If he is a sociable person, eating and drinking will become commonplace. You have to say to him: Think about it, if I am as selfish as you, I only care about my own well-being, and I don't have a home all day.

Are you happy or not? I have a few sisters who also want to go, so let's implement a rotation system, okay?

If he's nothing, he just likes to join in the fun. You ask him: You take advantage of your friends every day, why don't you bring them home? When will we let our mother and daughter get together with you?

If communication doesn't work, set a time limit to get home. Tell him: I will be sleepy at x o'clock, and I will lock the door for safety. Please understand, don't say I didn't tell you!

I think you can communicate with your husband well, this is not a matter of principle, there is no need for divorce.

Some men are like this, they always like to go out for a drink with a group of fox friends and dogs, and then go to the mountains. When I came back, I smelled of alcohol all over my body, said some nonsense, and did some nonsense things. I don't think a drunk person is completely irrational, and you must not take this kind of behavior to heart.

Especially when you say it, you don't have to take it seriously.

Of course, there is one exception, if the other party is drunk and then commits domestic violence against you. Then I think it's unforgivable, no matter what the reason, you can't do it to the person you love the most. If there is domestic violence, then you can call the police directly and call the police to deal with these things at that time.

There are also many such men, who dare not go wild outside after getting drunk, but they are angry with the people at home. Such men are often in the nest and have little ability.

Therefore, it depends on the degree of his drunken madness, if it is a general behavior, then it should be well persuaded. Many people go out to drink because they are too bored, and then vent some bad emotions in their hearts. I think you should communicate with your husband well, attract his concentration, and focus more on other hobbies.

If the other party is willing to change, then it is the best, after all, the child needs a complete family. If you have been unwilling to change, two people can separate for a period of time to see if he has changed? If it hasn't changed, and you can't accept his behavior, then you can only divorce.

Of course, drinking alcohol is not a matter of principle? As long as it can be handled properly, it is not a problem at all.

Divorce is not the solution to the problem at all. There are many things that husband and wife should communicate more about, so that it is easier to deal with problems.

If your husband is always out drinking with his friends and comes home with a lot of drunkenness, you should divorce him. Because such a person will hurt you more later, and a performance like him doesn't particularly care about you, it's best to make a decision early so that you can pursue your life.

Personally, I think the key depends on whether you can tolerate her temper, if you can bear it, then choose not to divorce, if he can accept your opinion and correct this problem, you can also choose not to divorce her, if I really can't stand it, then you can divorce him.

Of course you need to, because your husband can't control himself at all and is also a very irresponsible person, so you should divorce him.

This kind of man doesn't have a sense of family responsibility, of course he should divorce him, regardless of his wife and children, he always goes out drinking with others, and a man who loves his wife and children who understands each other is not a good man.

It is advisable to leave.

xx stands for alcoholic husband.

In view of the problems that occur in the life of the husband and wife, in order to better face a harmonious life in the future, the two parties hereby enter into this agreement based on the principle of mutual consultation.

1. In order to prevent the recurrence of irrational behavior in the life of the couple, in order to be responsible for the family and their own body in the future, XX must abstain from alcohol after 2012-10-22 (abstinence explanation: do not drink alcoholic beverages in one sip).

2. For the sake of the health of the family and themselves, in line with a responsible attitude towards the family and themselves, XX and 2012-10-22 must quit smoking after 2012-10-22 (quit smoking explanation: do not smoke nicotine and drugs containing substances).

xx In case of violation of the agreement in Articles 1 and 2 above, voluntarily accept the processing method:

1 Financial penalty: RMB 500 for each violation (taking a sip of alcohol or taking a puff of cigarette), calculated in a doubled manner.

2. I voluntarily accept all the sanctions imposed by my wife, except for the pre-marital property, and voluntarily compensate my wife 100,000 yuan after leaving the house, which violates the agreement.

3 The above two processing methods can be executed together.

3. The contradictions in the life of the husband and wife of the two parties shall be resolved in accordance with the principle of mutual understanding and mutual concession, and the problems of handling life shall not be affected by the parents and their families (including beating, disrespecting the parents, head-on conflicts, etc.), such as divorce by default agreement, and the defaulting party shall bear all the consequences and divorce unconditionally on its own.

4. As a man, he should take the responsibility of being a husband, not fight for the trivial things in life, be magnanimous, communicate in a timely manner, both parties should understand each other more, establish good living habits, lifestyles and ensure work and rest time, and deal with problems calmly and rationally. Build a harmonious and happy family without quarrels. If there is a breach of contract, after the communication is invalid, the other party can choose their own lifestyle, and the defaulting party will provide 200 yuan per day for living expenses until the problem is solved and the time to live together.

Five xx after the problem should first consider their own mistakes, and then correct them in time, avoid the expansion of things, don't always find other reasons, intensify the contradictions, make the situation uncontrollable, think about each other, don't hurt each other's hearts, run a good business together, and cherish the current family. Don't do things that make the other party unacceptable, don't say words that hurt feelings, don't damage things, and don't hurt the other person's body. If you violate the agreement, apologize to the other party and be fined 5,000 yuan after being forgiven.

Establish a special account, which the defaulting party has no right to use.

Both parties sign a sub-agreement on a voluntary and equal basis to ensure a harmonious life.

Disclaimer: This agreement has legal effect as evidence, and if there is a violation, it will be executed in accordance with the agreement.

This Agreement shall be executed in duplicate and shall enter into force upon signature by both parties.

Contractor: Contractor: Date:

No, mix it with water and give it to him.