Is the past really all gone?

The past is just the past.

People must learn to let go.

Start a new life.

Sometimes I don't forget.

Maybe it's a new life lost.

Maybe it can't be said that it's really in the past.

But it's only in the past, at least.

Be at ease. In fact, wouldn't it be nice to make the past (whether sweet or bitter) a good memory?

Slowly let go.

Dare to experience new worlds.

Maybe. One day, you'll find out.

It turns out that there is even better.

More beautiful. Or rather.

More suitable for mine in front.

Hehe. Be happy.

Be happy. Let's do it together!

It's just to go back to the memory.

The heart will. Only, another.

Human Injury. A.

While. The dream came true.

Don't go to the devil, this, go to every eternal evil in there will be people to walk, the road it is far away, on the beauty of the heart, is the dream to return, it will pass you but stay is.

The day you're about to hang up is really over.

Which thought is the cause, the thought went to the center, and it was too primary. If you want you, you will put the fruit and the experience will cut the sky and conceive it is not as good, God! , Obsessed with it, do you want to be aware of it, is it clear that you are obsessed, and it is not proven, you are through, and you have it all figured out.

Brain to cause, you. It is still remembered in the layer, and it is Duan Xinyi who does not remember. Remember you to go to the mill. On the memory, a certain degree can live. There are those who are too big and those who are too much to be destroyed, but for the sake of not one you are saving. Say it will walk in the meeting.

Speaking of the past, everyone's feelings are different, and some people summarize them all with an understatement of "I don't remember"; And some people are diametrically opposed, he can give you three days and three nights of chatter, which will inevitably laugh and cry bitterly.

Is it really hard to get over the past? Why can some people turn a deaf ear to the past and turn a blind eye? And some people live in the past without knowing it, and they also say "I miss the old". If it's a place that you can't forget, it's understandable; If there is an obsession with a person and a relationship, is it a virtue to be stumped?

Not to mention that the person you can't forget and can't let go of is now happy or not, that is, a person has been holding on to it in his heart, if you know from others, there may not be a few people who really think it's a good thing; Furthermore, if others are happy, then your long-term or long-term affection is not a thing that makes people feel appropriate, if others are unhappy, then what does it have to do with you, can you be willing to lend a hand, or give him just the right help without affecting the main theme of your current life?

The past does influence everything about us in our lives, shaping your personality and transforming you into what you are now. But time keeps moving forward, and every step in life is impossible to relive again. Therefore, those who still refuse to come out in the past, I hope that you can have a sun of your own in your heart, which can also give you infinite warmth and light in the haze day, you just need to embrace the warmth in the light to take your next step and start your next journey.

It's gone, it's all gone.

There is only one way to recover from the pain of falling out of love, and that is to learn to accept the facts. The truth is: this relationship is in the past.

No matter how good or bad this person is, no matter how happy those days were, they are now gone. Only by accepting this fact can you forget a person you should forget.

Some people seem to be very sensible, he will keep analyzing why he fell out of love after falling out of love, and try to be friends with the lover who broke up again. She thought she had recovered, but in fact, she had done so many things, but she couldn't accept that the bleakness was gone.

When we still go to save, to suffer, and to find excuses, then we refuse to admit that the other party no longer loves us.

Some people can't pull themselves together and are getting haggard day by day. She grabbed a few friends around her, who were her lifebuoy. No matter how much her friends tried to persuade her, she would only repeat the same sentence:

But I love him so much! I can't forget him. ”

You have a way, it's just that you don't want to. You are afraid that when you forget him, he will forget you too.

Everything is a thing of the past, and that's how we come to life.

Forget about the past. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a kind of sincere gratitude and admiration.

Many times have passed, and things are not people, not just sad. But when time, space, and people do not exist in the same region when they occur, it creates a different experience for everyone, so with the passage of time, the space changes, and people and things also change ......

It's not so much that everyone has a past, it's that everyone has a story. The plot is either sad, or beautiful, or just a relationship, a memory. However, some people desperately want to forget the past, some people want to get back to the past, and some people leave knots or regrets.

Wanting to forget does not mean that the past is not good, and wanting to go back to the past is not necessarily a good thing. Everyone has more or less the past that they don't want to mention, and they want to forget but often think of it inadvertently.

Many people are trapped by memories, or find a replacement for their memories, or find back the regrets in their hearts just to make up for them, but there are still people who are entangled in good memories. But what is past is the past, and is the past really past?

In fact, there are still many people who cling to what they are thinking and thinking in their hearts, and even if they find the answer to everything in the past, they still retreat to safety to maintain the beauty in their hearts. Because once the dream is shattered, there is no fulcrum to be found. So I'd rather live in a woven dream, and in the past, as if I don't touch the ...... and won't break

However, I would like to say that the past is not past, but it is only a part of life, except for the memory that you can't forget, it will become unimportant over time, and even in the end it is just a memory, a fragment. Therefore, we don't need to be tired by life, live for life's sake. Just like some people pursue fame and fortune all their lives, greedy for wealth and wealth, no one has ever lived for pure love, and some people form a family only for responsibility, and pass on the family generation only for the sake of having a descendant, and they are not entangled in whether it is a man or a woman.

Given a sense of mission by this, we must live a different life just to be different from the past. And I think it's meaningless, it's enough to live as yourself in this life, why have those, the so-called burdens, troubles, responsibilities and unhappiness, the pursuit of simple money, rice, oil and salt, three meals a day.

Life has no past. Only one day at a time ......

Those who have hurt you and framed you, they are not alone in harming you, but along with you and every family member, relatives and friends behind you. If you want to easily forgive those bad people, you can't be the master, you don't have that qualification, you have to ask them if they agree.

Why did Guo Degang say in an interview: "If you don't know any situation, you must be generous, you have to stay away from him, and he will be affected by thunder." "Many people think that he is narrow-minded and will be revenged.

But do you know the blows and suppression that Guo Degang was subjected to before he became famous? Do you know how much suffering and even humiliation he went through to get to where he is today? Do you know how many betrayals and failures he has experienced in the past?

Hou Yaowen once said that Guo Degang has not been easy all the way, and he is bound to be jealous and hateful. Hou Yaowen's words can only be said by knowing Guo Degang better than Guo Degang's parents.

Article 7 of Mr. Lu Xun's last words, "Those who damage other people's teeth and eyes, but oppose retaliation, and advocate tolerance, should never approach him." This is exactly the same as Guo Degang's words. It's always the case:

For unknown reasons, without knowing it, people who blindly persuade you to be generous and must forgive are either stupid or bad! Those people, they either close their eyes and talk about some empty big truths, they don't have backache when they stand and talk, or they have ulterior motives!

Or Mr. Lu Xun's last words, "I have many enemies, if someone of the new style asks me, what about it?" I thought about it for a while, and decided that I would not forgive any of them if they were resentful.

As we all know, "a man's words are good when he is dying". Mr. Lu Xun knew that he would soon die, but he still said that he would not forgive those former enemies, was he narrow-minded? No, it's because he understands human nature!

Whether he forgives or not, the bad guy or the bad guy, the bad guy won't change their evil nature just because of Lu Xun's dying word of forgiveness!

If you want to forgive someone, then you have to meet these three conditions:

1. Your strength is strong enough to destroy the other party but it does not trigger;

2. The bad guy has completely lost any ability to do any further evil;

3. The residual conscience and humanity in the hearts of bad people cover up the evil side, and they have abandoned evil and turned to good.

Only if you have these three can you be qualified to say, "Forget about the past!" ”