He s going to break up with me because I m always messing with him over a little thing, what should

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personal opinion: He just doesn't have faith in your love and what you say.

    And disappointed in what you've done.

    Words can't solve this kind of thing.

    The only way you can do that is to show that you are indeed changing.

    But don't keep asking him what your relationship is, he is at a loss now, and if you force him to say this, it will only make him more irritable, and may increase his disgust with you. You can be with him as you are, don't you have no objection to going online and eating with him? You will definitely have this opportunity in the future, and you will have to correct the mistakes you made when you were together.

    Slowly, he feels that you are changing, isn't it all better? I think since he said, "What should I do if I still do this", it means that he still has you in his heart, but I am afraid that you will continue to be like the original.

    At this time, you should pay more attention to him, consider what things from his point of view, and don't quarrel about things that are not important in the end, what's the point? For example, if he buys a strawberry-flavored cake and you say you want apples, what's the use of fighting since you've already bought it? You are choosing to say:

    I know that I like to eat apples, and you still buy strawberries, I don't eat them, and then I get angry" or" Why did you buy strawberries, it tastes good, but I still think apples are delicious, will you buy apples next time, and smile, "Now what do you think you should choose?"

    However, everything is two-sided, and it is difficult for people to change easily. If you feel that you have persevered and worked hard, but he still feels that it is not enough, then you may wish to consider giving up, because it also shows that you are really not suitable for being together. Even if you are reluctant to be together, there will still be many problems in the future.

    Have fun.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Well, he forgives you. Maybe you're not wrong. It's normal for two people to have a little awkwardness like this.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He should still love you, put down his face, no one will laugh at you, keep up the good work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A man's patience is limited, as long as you sincerely change your bad temper, you will get his forgiveness.

    He's just trying to teach you a lesson.

    But your boyfriend is too stingy, what girl can not be pretentious when she is in love!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He likes you to be spoiled by him the most, and now he must be very cool, you have a chance, if my girlfriend is like you, I will want to be more spoiled with me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello. He forgives you, work hard and cherish it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is very important to love and tolerate each other, there is no perfect thing for you, and it is estimated that he does not want to share with you, and it is OK to coax too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He wandered at the crossroads.

    But you are unlikely to change your personality.

    I'm sure I'll be noisy in the future.

    If he really is a person who likes to be pure.

    Your prospects are not optimistic.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men don't like girls who are careful. Be generous in everything, and now fight with him for trivial things, how long do you think he can last on the long-distance running line of love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It seems that there is a big problem in your relationship that requires serious communication and reflection. From your description, we can see that your breakup and awkward relationship was brought up by you first, and now he often proposes to break up, which may mean that he is already feeling tired. He may already feel that you often let him let you go, making him feel stressed and burdened, so now he wants to end the relationship.

    In this case,It is recommended that you communicate carefully。First of all, you need to honestly reflect on your actions and attitudes, thinking about whether they are constantly making him feel tired and stressed. If yes, you need to admit your mistakes and try to change your behavior and attitude so that he can feel your change and effort.

    At the same time, you also need to show him your love and care, so that he knows that you really want to be with him and are willing to give for the sake of the relationship.

    You also need to listen to his thoughts and feelings, understand why he proposed to break up, and try to address his doubts and concerns。You can ask him what he thinks of your relationship, what problems he thinks you need to solve, and what he wants your future to look like. Through this communication, you can better understand his thoughts and feelings, while also expressing your own thoughts and desires, laying the foundation for the future of the relationship.

    You need to give him enough time and space to think and decide for himself。If he decides to end the relationship, you need to respect his decision and accept reality. If he is willing to stay with you, you need to take the relationship seriously and change yourself as much as possible to make the relationship healthier and better.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, people are learning at any time, and when you are saying that you are breaking up and deepening the memory of the other person, the repeated actions and words will be absorbed. When the same scene or behavior occurs again, the other person will also take the initiative to do the same behavior and say the same thing.

    If the same thing happens often, just two people change sides, and both of them end up getting tired.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What's going on. There may be certain problems between you, and you may not have seriously addressed them, or he has given up on solving them. You can sit down and have a serious chat to see what is causing such tension in your relationship, and try to resolve these issues to make your relationship more stable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is because in the past he had to love you, he was reluctant to give up you, he was afraid of losing you, but now that your status has been reversed, you are afraid of losing him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feng Shui takes turns. He's tired. I don't want to keep making ends after you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Shouting "the wolf is coming" every day, yesterday you shouted, today he shouted, but the wolf never came Knowing that you lied to him, he lied to you, this kind of game has been played for a long time, can you not be tired? ~~

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