My husband and I always get into trouble over trivial things

He's not a man, because of a little thing, he still has a temper with you, he is open-minded, and the most angry thing is that you want to be low, and you are really willing, you shouldn't coax him, it's all a living person.

Whether it is a man or a woman, the so-called bad temper of one party is caused by the other party's long-term favor.

It's normal for a couple to have small conflicts, just don't exacerbate them.

I just want the sand in my hand, the tighter I clench, the faster it will be lost!

You need to enrich yourself and improve your self-worth. The more people have, the less afraid they are of losing.

"Men are used to women, haha, of course, your husband... To tell you the truth, you may never be able to coax him, even if you learn all the tricks of coaxing people in the world, because you are coaxing, he is coaxed, he has already made you addicted from the beginning, and he should let him take the coaxed pie.

It is very likely that sometimes he doesn't forgive you for the quarrel, but it's just inertia, and you admit your mistakes and coax him to get used to it, and he can't be coaxed to forgive you quickly.

So, what you're learning is not how to coax, but how to break his habitual thinking, if you're willing to change.

Hope it helps.

Me too! It's been a long time, and I haven't coaxed him much! It's all a family, and it'll be fine after a while!

Don't think he's still angry with you. In fact, he couldn't lower his head.

If you quarrel, don't take bad feelings to the next day, and don't remember it when you get up the next day.

In getting along, get to know him slowly, and when it comes to topics that he will get angry about, put up with it yourself. Don't contradict, say a word or two less, you can save a lot of trouble.

Small friction is inseparable. Don't worry too much about it!

The fundamental problem is not how to coax, but how to avoid the contradictions caused by small things in life as much as possible.

If it is his fault, you can try not to argue with him at the time, avoid conflicts, and he will know the fault afterwards.

If you can't help but quarrel over a trivial matter, then there's no way to do it, and you do it yourself.

You don't want to have conflicts with your husband, you have to try to avoid them, and if there are many contradictions, your relationship will also be affected.

For example, if there are traces in the mirror, no matter how you make up for it, it is impossible to make the crack disappear, at most it will remain in its original state, and if there is a bump again, the mirror will easily break.

Feelings, like mirrors, need to be cared for, they need to be cared for with foresight.

No matter how good the relationship between two people is, they will always quarrel because of some friction in life, and my relationship with my husband is very good, and there is almost no time when I blush, but sometimes it will be because of some trivial things. If you have quarreled, I will share with you the experience of a quarrel to see if everyone will have something in common in life.

1. Because my mother-in-law crossed the line and had a first quarrel was an eleventh holiday after marriage, my father was going to invite my in-laws to dinner, as well as the other party's grandfather, and the family had a good meal together, my father chose a relatively good hotel and chose a larger boxWho knew that at dinner that day, my mother-in-law directly brought all of his aunt's family. Originally, it was booked for about ten people, but it turned out that five came all at once, fortunately, the package was big enough, but the expenditure was also a lot moreAlthough my dad didn't say much, but I felt very embarrassed, so I poured all my anger on my husband, in fact, my husband didn't know about these things, but because I lost my mind too much later, I said something more hurtful, so he also had a quarrel with me. However, this quarrel was relatively short, and he apologized to me afterwards, saying that he shouldn't yell at me, and I also found my own shortcomings, so the quarrel ended quickly.

2. The difference in the choices of the two parties The second quarrel is also very simple, he and I are going back to my parents' house for dinner, because he is a son-in-law after all, and every time I go back, my mother will prepare a lot of very poor meals. And I didn't really want to make my mother work too hard that day, so I said on the way backLet's find some pickled vegetables to buy some pickled vegetables, so that my mother only needs to prepare some simple ingredients。He agreed, but he didn't stop when I asked him to stop on the wayI drove straight home, and asked him if he said that he should just do a little more when he went home, I was very angry, because I understood my parents' thoughts, after all, he was a son-in-law, and his parents would not say that they would do a little bit simply.

3 My husband thinks I shouldn't be nosy We live downstairs with a couple, and the husband and wife quarrel very much, once I took an elevator with the woman, and found that she was beaten quite badly, andGo home and tell your husband if you want to call the police. But my husband thinks I'm too nosy, after all, it's someone else's business. If I choose to call the police, others may be unwilling.

I also felt very unbearable to see this woman hurt, so the two of them had an argument because of this time.

However, these things are basically trivial, and the number of quarrels is not very large, and everyone will completely calm down after that emotion has passed, all because the perspectives and thoughts of both parties are different, which is understandable.

Probably because of the trivial things of washing a dish, mopping a floor, and taking out the garbage, but such a thing will not affect the relationship between the two.

He is relatively lazy in his early work, often does not do housework, and cares less about his children, does not respect my opinions, and often does some special things to offend people, and makes trouble for these little things.

I had a quarrel with my husband because of the interference of my in-laws, and sometimes I would get into trouble because he always liked to play games.

Because of playing games, because you didn't buy what you want, because the other person is late, because the other person is smoking, because the other person is drinking, these can lead to fights.

Because of socks, because of garbage, because of kitchenware, because of plumbing, because of TV dramas, in fact, they are all small things.

If there is a conflict between husband and wife, then brushing the dishes and sweeping the floor can become an excuse for quarreling.

Because he ignored me because he played games, I had a stomach ache and he ignored me, and then they had a fight.

Summary. Good morning, dear! First of all, husband and wife should understand each other, every time there is a conflict, the first step is to think about why the other party will lose their temper because of this trivial matter, and when you can think about the problem from the other party's point of view, in fact, half of the conflict and quarrel have been solved.

What should I do if I'm angry, my husband and I always quarrel over trivial things.

Good morning, dear! First of all, husband and wife should understand each other, every time there is a conflict, the first step is to empathize with each other, think about why the other party will lose his temper because of this trivial matter, and can stand in the other party's perspective to think about the problem of silver dust, in fact, the occurrence of contradictions and quarrels has been half solved.

Dear, in fact, the more Sui Hui judges in front of the people close to you, the more you need to use more communication skills to communicate, this is not to let you put on your mask outside the blue morning to get along with your closest people, but in front of your closest people, after you remove all disguises, you have to communicate your true thoughts with each other frankly and patiently.

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First of all, our mother-in-law is too agitated and uneducated, which leads to more and more conflicts between the two.

Dear, do you live with your mother-in-law? Does your husband listen to his mother-in-law?

Is it in, dear? You tell the teacher about the situation in detail, and the teacher will give you a detailed answer and a set of solutions.

My husband always accuses me every day for some trivial things, what should I do?

Dear, hello, I am a pleasure to serve you, I am a psychological counselor warm, a national second-level psychological counselor, 7 years of consulting work, more than 3000 hours of one-on-one counseling. He is good at emotional forgiveness counseling, love troubles, marital crisis management, emotional management counseling, and personal growth exploration. I am preparing an answer, if you have more information to continue to express, I can better answer for you, my husband will always accuse you of some trivial things.

Can you give me some examples of similar events in your daily life? In this way, you can better analyze and answer some questions, and see how the husband expresses it, and what he cares about.

Summary. Hello, glad to have a question for you. My husband often cares about some trivial things with me, and I can't tolerate it, sometimes I'm in a good mood and ignore it, and sometimes I'm too annoyed to tell him, let's divorce.

My husband often cares about some trivial matters with me, and I can't tolerate it, sometimes I'm in a good mood and ignore it, and sometimes I'm too annoyed to talk to him.

Hello, glad to have a question for you. My husband often cares about some trivial things with me, and I can't tease the source to tolerate, sometimes I'm in a good mood and ignore it, and sometimes my brother is too annoying to say to him, let's divorce.

Haven't been divorced yet.

Dear, this situation is normal. This is a real marriage.

There are many things that no one can see through.

I have said that I have been divorced many times, but it is a joke. Think about the days or go on.

When I entered his house, my mother-in-law and aunt would look at me unpleasantly.

I have said it. Dear, there is no divorce. Reluctant. <>

However, after the age of 40, the relationship between the two improved.

There is a point, all for the sake of both parents.

I'm 32 years old and there are small quarrels between husband and wife, it's normal, don't worry!

At the age of 32, you are at a marriage red light crossroads.

How to choose the future path of life and how to go are all carefully considered.

The teacher gives you advice over trivial things, quarrels. Your husband is in a bad mood, so it's okay to pick up the problem and talk about it.

He is angry and noisy with you, and you are not in a good mood, and the two of them have a verbal fight. Afterwards, my husband coaxed you, and the page was turned.

Sigh, to put it bluntly, sex life is the glue of husband and wife's feelings.

Use a good sex adhesive to make your husband and wife live a sweet, happy and happy life every day!