What is a confidant? Please, 3Q

Updated on delicacies 2024-06-06
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Confidante, that is, we are neither lovers nor husband and wife, but we are very close to each other. Nothing to say, nothing to talk about. Those who have common hobbies, are busy with each other in the face of difficulties, and do not ask for anything in return.

    Confidante, she is your friend of the opposite sex who can be independent in spirit, equal in soul, and able to achieve deep resonance in thought. It's definitely not a trash can for you to talk about your troubles and vent your emotions. Or when you are wronged or hurt, you suddenly think of the nest where the tired bird returns.

    Due to the particularity of the sexes, it is known as a kind of fourth type of relationship that is free from family affection, love, and affection. Her most extreme realm is more "dangerous", and once she reaches a realm that is difficult to control, she is likely to be extraordinary, in order to achieve the goal of being stupid and crazy. A cunning man will let a woman to foil him, and a wise woman will let a man coax him to achieve a pleasant physical and mental pleasure.

    A confidante is not a wife, not a girlfriend, or a lover. But a true confidante combines all the best of these people. Be selfless like a wife, care like a girlfriend, and be in love like a lover.

    At the same time, he will not be as calculating as his wife, he will repay him, he will not turn around and leave without saying a word like his girlfriend, and he will not turn his face and deny people once he breaks up like his lover.

    They have a heart-to-heart with each other, childlike innocence, trust is unlimited, and everything is all-pervasive. But there will be no purpose, and there will always be a gap between them that is difficult to overcome. I believe that although there is no part in this life, I also look forward to a beautiful and pure soul that can continue to be related in the next life.

    Xu Zhimo said that I will spend my life chasing my soul confidant. I am fortunate to have it, but I am not killed. It can be seen that the so-called confidante is like the one that the ancients said, which is difficult to encounter.

    Rising to the soul confidante is more difficult to meet than the average confidant, and if you do, everyone will cherish it!

    A confidante is a landscape in a person's life. The mellow wine is drunk, and the picturesque scenery is a fan of Yi. It is the most precious, the most rare, and the most coveted luxury in their lives.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Those who love you but never embarrass you are called confidantes, those who understand that you are reluctant to hurt you are called confidantes, and those who give but do not ask for you are called confidants. In fact, confidante is a kind of wordless tenderness, an invisible companion, and a person who understands. Like a relative, he can always pay for you silently without asking for anything in return.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I have a confidante, and I can talk to her very well, and I am very happy to have such a good friend.

    First of all, the so-called confidante refers to the boy's friend of the opposite sex, and the two people have resonance with each other and are very close to each other. It just so happens that I really have such friends in my life. With her, I feel very happy, and even many friends think that we are a couple.

    In fact, in real life, although the two of us talk about everything, it is a pure friendship relationship.

    I still remember that when my family lived in the countryside, our two families were very close to each other, and they were both from the same village, so the relationship was naturally good. Both of our parents also have a good relationship, so the two of us know each other. It can be said that they have played together since childhood, and at this time, friendship has been established.

    Later, we moved to the city, and we still had contact, and within a few years, their family also moved to the city, and just like that, we were still able to see each other. This confidant, when he encounters some problems in life, he will share them with me, and some trivial things I encounter will also tell me from my heart. Actually, I like this kind of friendship very much, and besides, we are both single and have no partners.

    Sometimes, however, our friends always match us and think that we are quite right, but in fact, these are just their illusions. Because they have played together since childhood, they know each other too well, and this is just friendship, which cannot be sublimated into love. Otherwise, the previous friendship may be in vain.

    I naturally cherish this confidante very much, because I feel very happy with her. After all, we have been together since childhood, and once she cried, I saw that she was very sad, so I asked why. I only heard her say that she found a partner, and they broke up after talking for a long time.

    Of course, I also remember this incident, but I didn't expect it to hurt her so deeply, and since then, she has never talked about a partner, and she has always been single.

    In comparison, I am more straightforward, and I have never been in a relationship. But enlightening this confidant is enough. So he clarified the stakes, and said that there are many good men in the world, and there is no need to waste all his energy on him alone.

    In fact, her parents also said these things, maybe there is a generation gap. It didn't work as I said, but it didn't work as it came out of my mouth. Maybe I have nothing to talk to about her, and she trusts me more.

    Coupled with my affection and reason, of course she understands my good intentions.

    Today, she is married and has two children. I'm still single, but we've always had a good relationship. In fact, I feel very happy and lucky to have such a friend.

    Without her, I believe I would have become very introverted. But with her, I always have endless words, this is a different kind of friendship, and it has also left a valuable wealth in my life. Now that I think about it, I can't help but sigh that the years have passed, and this confidante, we still keep in touch.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't have a confidante because I am very loyal to my wife, and I think that if I have a confidante, I will betray my marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I have confidantes, I have been with my confidantes for three years, it can really bring more ease and happiness to my life, and we also have a lot of common language.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, my lover and I are very happy to live together, we have a common language, we have a common goal in life, and we don't need to have a confidante.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can only be a confidant and a friend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, confidante generally refers to a married man who is another woman who can talk about everything in addition to his wife.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A confidante is a person who loves you and doesn't bother you, thinks about everything for you, and never destroys everything about you.

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