How hard is it to forget the person you love dearly, and is it possible to do it?

Updated on amusement 2024-06-17
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Sometimes forgetting may not be the best thing to do! Sometimes, even if you forget, when you meet him again one day, you may remember him again! Because that's just your temporary oblivion!

    You'll be more miserable then! Instead of forgetting and remembering it over and over again, it is better to be indifferent to everything about him and leave his world. On the surface, he looks very indifferent to him, but in fact, he just hides him in his heart, and as time goes by, he slowly forgets, and it is very painful when he forgets, sometimes you can't share the pain alone, you might as well confide in your good friend the pain of forgetting!

    Or you write your pain down on a piece of paper! That would be nice! [Trust me!]

    I'm from here, too! If you really can't forget him, then you don't forget, bury that hobby in your heart, and when you are old, you can reminisce about such love, maybe it will be better! You tell me?

    Hee-hee......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If the five hundred times of looking back in the past life are exchanged for passing by in this life, then I am already very happy when I think about it In fact, passing by is also a very deep fate. The Buddha said: Only 500 times of looking back can be exchanged for passing by in this life.

    You can meet someone in a second, know someone in a minute, like someone in an hour, fall in love with someone in a day, but you have to forget someone for a lifetime.

    Love doesn't have to be forever. What you have may be the best memories of your life. Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers.

    Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

    Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach. For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms.

    Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while.

    Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

    Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

    Hope my answer is helpful to you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be as soulless chic as some people, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, her life state may also affect your mood for a long time, all of this comes from your dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be a girl who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant, let's wait together, okay?

    No plagiarism. Heavy personally!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Deliberately forgetting, in the end, you will only remember it more deeply. You can hide this feeling deep in your heart and chew it slowly. A person you love deeply, why do you have to forget?

    Remember once loved, that is already happiness. When I was old, I remembered that there was such a person who walked through his life, and his regret was a little sweet, and his life was not in vain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's really hard to forget someone you love dearly because there are several reasons:

    First, if you truly love someone, you can't forget it. Even if it's been many years, or if you have a new love. The former lover has always lived in his heart, with nowhere to say, dare not say, and can't say, just like a secret.

    In fact, I never went in at all when I came out of the relationship. And once you really enter a relationship. No, no one can really come out.

    The essence of a breakup is to draw a clear line, and letting go is to deny the presence of this person. So no one can forget more than 18 weeks of affection. Because this relationship can already be unconsciously extracted in your brain.

    It doesn't matter what kind of things you do in life. will accidentally think of him. The only thing you can do is draw a line with him.

    Because if you want to really forget someone, it is impossible at that time.

    Second, those who are in their hearts, those who are emotional, do not forget if they forget. Just put it away. If you can control yourself, what is the use of your heart?

    If love can be self-controlled, why should it be heartbroken. In the world of love, no one can be truly at ease. There are many people who say that they will no longer be in touch, but they are still desperately worried about it in their hearts.

    I couldn't resist contacting him, but I thought he would go crazy. Didn't bother, but my heart hurt so much that I couldn't sleep. It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's really hard to forget someone.

    Third, the person you love deeply, how long you have loved, how long it will take you to let go. To really let go of a person is not to think about him. But when I think about him, there is no more turmoil in my heart.

    It's so good, but suddenly it's strange again. From familiar to unfamiliar, from acquaintance to parting ways. Everything starts with your interruption, ends with my excess, and cherishes each from now on.

    Fourth, it's really hard to forget someone who loves you to the bone. Sometimes the more you want to forget, the harder it is to forget. The more you try to erase a memory, the clearer that memory becomes. So if you can't forget, don't forget, and leave it all to time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is indeed difficult to forget a loved one, because deep feelings are not something that can be forgotten in a moment, and those good memories are also something that cannot be forgotten.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard to say, it's easy to say, time is the best medicine for wounds, love or hate, when you don't have any resentment for the person you once loved, you just let go at that time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on what you think, if you put all this energy on work, then it will not be unforgettable, if you think about these things every day, it must be unforgettable, so the most important thing is to enrich yourself, because the future is greater than love, don't always put your energy on feelings, so you will live very freely.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's really difficult, because I have loved this person deeply and have made myself unforgettable, so it's not easy to forget.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It must be very difficult, because it takes a long time to forget a loved one.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it's really hard to really love deeply, many times you don't feel like you miss her so much, in fact, it's just that you buried her in your heart, and you will think of her once there is an opportunity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Although you are not as brave as you imagined, and you are not very free, but you have done it, you have been sad, you have cried, you have been hysterical, enough is enough, you can start again, you have done a good job, go to the coffee shop you have longed for a dessert, drink a cup of coffee, go to buy that long-desired dress, go to watch a movie alone, it turns out that your life is still wonderful even without him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether you can't keep each other, or you are unwilling to compromise, or limited by family and other factors, you don't need to care about who loves who is more, who loves who is less, what is now in front of you is: it is no longer possible to continue to move forward side by side, but the long road ahead still has to go, so you can't change any third party, you can only change yourself, even if you feel that your whole body is hollowed out, you still have to go on, there is no choice.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Only people who have experienced bitter love know how difficult it is to forget a loved one, and the person who is loved deeply will never be able to empathize with the pain of another person, writing this experience has been after I left that relationship without a crown, and now I see this title, my heart is still filled with bitterness, in addition to being unwilling and annoyed that I have wasted my youth in the past.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    With a smile, greet another person around the corner, people will meet countless people in this life, you don't know that there will be a person at that intersection who will be fascinated by your smile, please keep your original attitude to life, please bring your pride, your smile to embark on another journey, don't let the next intersection wait too long.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Put a pool of hot water, take a hot bath, use fragrant shampoo and shower gel, repair the eyebrows that have been messy, apply a few **, improve your already yellowed **, choose a satisfactory dress, make a beautiful outfit, take a beautiful ** in the sun, and send a circle of friends: if the heart is sunny, why not be afraid of sadness. It's time for you to start over, it's time to say goodbye to the past.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If forgetting someone is really hard and painful, then why force yourself to do something you don't want to do? Time will prove everything, and people who don't love deeply enough will always be carried away by the wind of the years unconsciously; The person you love deeply has been carved into your bones and has become a part of your life, so why force yourself to erase the color and meaning of your life? Since it is true love, since you can't forget it, then treasure this love and memory in your heart.

    Perhaps this love and memory will become a warm memory for your whole life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You need to learn to tidy up yourself, tidy up your environment, you can throw away those old clothes that you are reluctant to discard, you know you are reluctant, but you will not wear them, instead of taking up space, it is better to make room for new clothes, and there are things that have no other choice but to give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some people will always be engraved in their memories, even if they forget his voice, forget his smile, forget his face, but the feeling when they think of him will never change.

    A person always has to walk a strange road, see an unfamiliar scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten like this.

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

    If you want to forget someone, maybe he hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your mind open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it once in a while, this is also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.

    Hope you are happy and happy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

    What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    To forget about a person.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute feelings.

    Or. Find someone worthy of your love again.

    will forget the previous thia.

    Time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy your favorite clothes, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, and then make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find a person worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You'll be able to forget about each other.

    Using a new relationship to forget the pain of a past love is the best solution. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you.

    For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

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