What are the taboos of chatting with girls?

Pay attention to chatting with girls: 1. Don't ask her about her past love experience; 2. Don't talk about money; 3. Don't talk about other girls; 4. Don't argue with girls about right or wrong; 5. Don't show off too much; 6. Don't talk about areas that you are not familiar with or that girls are familiar with; 7. Don't talk about pornography with women; 8. Don't talk about disrespecting girls.

Don't say that girls are fat, don't joke about girls' shortcomings, this will make girls think that you are laughing at her, don't swear casually, it will make girls think that you are a person with no quality, don't complain and accuse your parents in front of girls, because she will think that you are not good to your parents, how can you be good to girls?

Never start talking to a girl about privacy issues, such as the girl's height and weight. Don't step on the idols they like, it will make people think that you are very disrespectful. Don't talk to girls casually, it will make you look frivolous.

Don't talk to her about the big truth, everyone understands the big reason. Don't show off too much material, it's a sign of low value. Don't get bogged down in pointless arguments, which can cause friction between the two. Don't mention her emotional experience, it will leave a bad impression on the other person.

Don't keep saying that girls are fat, how do you eat so much, why are you so fat. Say that a girl's face is big, and when I see a girl, I feel that your face is a little big. Don't say anything greasy or offensive when chatting.

Don't be open-mouthed when chatting with girls, and say some ** words, girls don't like to listen to them. Also, don't brag, girls like humble and polite people.

Be gentle with girls. In general, many girls are more gentle. Therefore, at this time, it is more tactful to express her own meaning.

Therefore, you need to be more patient and listen carefully to what the girl has to say. And sometimes, it is necessary to properly express the love for each other. There may be times when you need to explain, you don't have to explain for reasons, what she needs to see is just an attitude on your part.

Don't be really nice to you as a girl. Because sometimes, the reason why that girl chooses to stay with you is not because you are good to her, but because you are attractive to her, so she is willing to stay with you. So sometimes, don't expect to be good to a girl, you think that the girl will definitely be inseparable from you, you want to make yourself good enough, and then enhance your charm to attract her.

Don't be too sincere with girls. Most of the time, you must be sincere when you interact with girls. But if you are in front of the girl you like, then you should also be a little more mellow in Qinghuai.

Don't talk nonsense, don't insult women, pay attention to details.

I don't know if you have this kind of experience, there are always some good boys around, who don't have any quirks or defects, but they don't have girlfriends, and some are obviously scumbags, smoking and drinking, but there is no shortage of beautiful girls around.

I once asked a friend of mine who was like the former, and he said that there were also girls who had a crush on him, but they didn't get in touch after chatting. What do you all talk about, he usually asks me "what are you doing" or "have you eaten" or something like that, and I don't know what to say when I'm done. Actually, it's right.,It's easy to talk to death in this kind of chat.,Girls generally have a good impression of you.,It's hoping to know more about you.,But as soon as you open your mouth, it's what you're doing.,It's okay once or twice.,Once you ask more, no one can stand it.,She wants a boyfriend like a father.,Not to find a father.。

There are a few taboos to keep in mind when chatting with girls.

First of all, you can't look for her all the time, but when she looks for you, you must reply to the message in time, if you don't reply in time, then you must add a sentence before speaking, "I'm sorry, I was just now... Explain that you didn't have time to reply because of something, then her little emotions waiting for your reply will be smoothed out, and then it's best to share with her the interesting things that just happened, and if it's okay, mention the recent interesting things. If you want to know what she's doing, it's best to explain what you're doing, and then ask "what about you?" by the way.

This is equivalent to exchanging information, and she will also feel that you are not deliberately invading other people's privacy.

Secondly, when you find that your chat is at an impasse, you have to learn to speak from somewhere else, such as from her circle of friends, and you can't directly say that you are so beautiful, most girls don't like too straightforward compliments, they will think you are vulgar, you have to learn to praise her from the side, for example, you say that your clothes are really compatible with you, and then further ask what kind of clothes you like, and then there will be a topic. Chatting and chatting about what is delicious and fun out there if you are hungry, and sometimes you can even make an appointment.

And you must not say that they are fat, remember, girls are very concerned about their figure, if you talk about her body type at every turn, then wait for your friends. Try not to repeat a modal word when chatting, you can't say everything she says, but also add your opinion appropriately, and don't say hehe, this is one of the words at the end of the chat, they will think you are very perfunctory. Sometimes they do something wrong and complain to you, but you can't directly say what is wrong, they want comfort at this time, not blame, and guide them to say what they are wrong.

The above is my summary of some of the notes when chatting with girls, of course, it is not applicable to all girls, different girls have different ideas, so you need to understand and interact with your own hearts in order to harvest hearts.

1. Don't have good morning and good night 24 hours a day.

When chatting with girls, don't be good morning and good night all day long; At the same time, don't send a string of messages to girls every once in a while, like a message bombardment; This will make the girl feel like you have nothing to do all day, and she will suspect that you have nothing else to do but chase her.

2. Don't express your own opinions in chatting, and maintain and praise girls everywhere.

When chatting with girls, don't express your opinions, defend girls everywhere, praise girls, and think that girls are right, so that girls will only think that you are patting on the back, and will give girls the impression that you are dishonest.

3. When you just chase a girl, don't raise the other party.

When you first chase a girl, don't raise the girl too high, and praise her all the time, which will make the girl feel that you have bad intentions and bad intentions for her.

4. When the girl will reply to the message slowly, don't keep chasing and asking.

If you are chatting with a girl and she is slow to reply to your messages, don't keep chasing her and asking, "What are you doing", "Why don't you reply to my messages", such a girl is better to wait for her to send a message to you.

First, talking too fast. Women like calm men, and such men can give them a sense of security. Talking too fast is a big taboo when chatting with girls, first of all, talking too fast is easy for girls to not understand what you say, and it will also make girls feel that you are very nervous, you have no self-confidence, and thus ignore what you say.

Many people may have a bad habit of talking too fast, so when we chat with girls, we must always remind ourselves not to talk too fast, so that girls can understand what you say, in order to give girls a sense of maturity and stability, and will like you.

Second, stuttering + mantras. Have you ever met such a person? They say a word or phrase before they speak, such as "uh."

Actually, ""that", "I think" and so on, or talk with a stutter. Would you be comfortable chatting with someone like that? Girls don't like to talk to such guys either.

Why do we say these meaningless words when we talk to girls? Because we don't know what to say next, so say these words first, and then say it when you think of the next sentence, in fact, this is a manifestation of your weak heart, girls will not like such boys, boys and girls should chat slowly, sonorously and powerfully, if you can't think of the next sentence, boys should not say mantras, you can not speak and pause to think of words and then say to girls, so that girls will accept boys' language, girls are willing to communicate with boys.

Thirdly, the boy speaks lifeless and lifeless. Boys should pay attention to whether their voice is energetic, if the boy's tone is dull, it will not attract the attention of girls. How can you keep your business vibrant?

Boys can imitate the voice of a TV or radio host, pay attention to the pitch and speed of his speech, and then try to imitate it yourself, after a few more attempts, the boy's voice will definitely become more attractive and attractive to girls than before.

A girl's interest in a boy is time-sensitive, and you may encounter such a situation when chatting with a girl: the girl is chatting with you very well today, and you have been chatting like this for two days, and the girl suddenly ignores you, and you will be very puzzled at this time.

In order to avoid this situation, the little cousin has summarized ten taboos to help you prevent this from happening in advance

1. The chat is too "funny" to make people feel that the routine is deep.

Although the chat is said to be humorous, but don't run the train with your mouth, the scale of the topic should be just right, the arrangement of the text should be concise and rigorous, it should be stable when it should be calm, it should be lively when it should be lively, and the appropriate use of some routines can increase the harmony of the interaction between two people, but you must not overuse it, otherwise the girl will think that you are a very humorous person, but lack of connotation, although she is very happy, but her you routine is deep, can not enter her heart. (Funny≠ hooligans).

2. Keep bragging about yourself.

Many boys know that girls are not chasing, they are attracted, and then they start to brag about themselves to girls, but they are blocked by girls, while you are bragging about yourself, you can't forget the most basic communication skills, which is to consider the other party's feelings.

Your story, your experience, whether the other person wants to hear it, whether you set up suspense to arouse the other person's curiosity.

How to identify whether a girl is interested in you, the easiest way is to see if the girl is willing to interact with you, and interaction means that two people have questions and answers to each other, rather than one person constantly bragging about himself.

3. Don't release negative emotions.

Some people will tell each other about the unsatisfactory life and work, hoping to get the sympathy of the girl, which is actually a very low-value thing, this kind of behavior seems to prove that they are a very failed person, and they want others to agree with your statement, the other party may only laugh when they hear it, you may think that it has aroused her interest in you, but in fact, people are just having fun. (Don't easily spread your negative energy to others).

4. I don't know how to pretend to understand in front of girls.

When interacting with girls, try to lead the topic to what you are good at, if you talk about Korean dramas in front of girls as a person who doesn't watch Korean dramas, it is death.

But it is recommended that boys know some in various fields, don't pretend to understand very well when you don't understand, you can ask directly, so that you know more about things in one field, the best state is that you know a little bit about everything, you can catch whatever the girl says, if you can't catch it, then the girl may feel that the two of you can't get along, so it is very important to improve your own cognition. (Many boys like military, history, cars, etc., and most girls don't, but if there is something interesting, it can be told to girls as a topic).

5. Don't talk about other boys.

Since you're going to chase her, talk less about the other boys around her.

First of all, it is taboo to ask about other people's privacy directly, and secondly, if you ask, it means that you care about her side.

Taboo chat is too funny and not serious.

It is forbidden to chat and say big things, bragging, and unreliable things.

It is forbidden to chat and say something negative.

Contraindications for glass hearts.

Height and weight And don't be too straight men.