What position should marriage be placed for women?

What position should marriage put in for women, in fact, for women, she will definitely be placed in the third position. Why is it third, because for a woman she has more important things than marriage, and what things are more important than marriage, the first child, the second herself, and the third is marriage. Of course, there will be some people who will put marriage first, and children and themselves second, but I think no matter how you put it, you have to know how to weigh it.

Why do I put my children in the first place, because now many women pay special attention to their children's education after they get married, sometimes they buy milk powder and toys by themselves, and take care of all kinds of worries about the baby. And why don't men do it? In fact, sometimes in terms of raising a baby, men don't understand, and they don't want to worry about it, so naturally this matter will fall on women.

So for them, they have to put their children first, because they are more concerned about their children's future.

The reason why I put myself in the second place is because I must know how to love myself in life, so that I can get the love of my husband. In real life, if women don't know how to love themselves, then it is easy to make themselves old, easy to get spots, and easy to wrinkles. If these come, then the status of the marriage will definitely not be guaranteed, so in order to make the marriage more stable, they have to spend more time to love themselves, and only by making themselves better and better, then it is possible to have a status in the family.

In the end, marriage also needs to be managed, so don't take it lightly and put it in the third place. In the process of getting along with two people who love each other, as long as there are no major contradictions, and they know how to tolerate, understand and tolerate in the process of getting along, then there will definitely not be many problems. As long as women are gentle, encourage their husbands a little more, care a little more, and don't snub each other, then they will get along much better, and there will definitely be no less natural happiness.

Marriage is equivalent to the second reincarnation for a woman, and it should be put in the first place, and finding a man who loves herself and can bring happiness to her life is more important than anything else.

In the current era, women can also hold up a piece of the sky, and they can no longer rely on men to live, so marriage can be placed below children, and children are the key to a family.

Marriage should be put in the most important position for women, because marriage is the whole of a woman, and if there is no marriage, women will become very lonely.

Marriage should be put first for women, and without a happy marriage, this life is painful for women.

Personally, I believe that marriage should never come first for women. Women should put themselves first, followed by lovers, and finally marriage.

In an important position, women should regard marriage as more important and manage their marriage well after marriage.

It must be placed at the highest level, and you can also understand that marriage is all you have in life. Because after you get married, most of your life is your husband and children.

Marriage is very important for women, so you must put marriage first, but while managing your marriage, you must make yourself good enough, only in this way will you have a certain status in marriage.

Put it in the position that you feel most comfortable with, and you won't be too compromised, and it won't make both parties feel that there is no need to insist on this marriage.

Marriage is a part of a woman's life, but it is definitely not everything, women should not pay too much attention to marriage, after marriage, women can still be independent, have a job, and have friends.

In a marital relationship, women are generally in a kind of relationshipWeakstatus, because women's identities in the marriage relationship are very diverse, and they also have to bear the responsibility of childbearing, so women are often in a disadvantaged position.

Due to the lack of independence in economic status, or the disparity between the status of men and women is too great, or the excessive cowardice of women in their personalities, they are in a weak position at home, and have long formed the habit of spitting on their own faces, and have turned themselves into nannies for the whole family.

The tolerance of women in the workplace is obviously not as high as that of men, because women's fertility problems are indeed an unavoidable problem, and it takes at least nine months for women to conceive their lives, and it is an undoubted fact that the physical burden of pregnancy makes women unable to compete with young people.

Therefore, after many women get married, because of many problems such as pregnancy or pregnancy, they often choose to be unemployed and work at home, which leads to women being unable to work normally, losing their economic income, and being financially independent.

The economic base determines the superstructure, and women without income** depend on men for their existence, which inevitably leads to inequality in family status.

In reality, many women also have to face the changes in the relationship between family members in marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the relationship between various elders, many aspects are planned and undertaken by women.

With the decline of physical function, coupled with the damage caused by pregnancy and childbirth, women usually age more significantly than men.

Women who focus on their careers will inevitably face the problem of balancing family and career, and women who focus on their families will inevitably face various problems caused by unequal status, which is a universal problem.

Women in marriage are usually in a state of vulnerability, not to mention the existing laws to protect pre-marital property, and women honestly cannot cross their own class through marriage.

In marriage, women generally occupy a more important position, and women need to deal with all the big and small things in the family, while men are only responsible for making money to support the family, and many things are women worrying about.

occupies a very low status, many women are facing a lot of pressure after getting married, they need to do a lot of things, they are physically and mentally exhausted, so now many women choose not to get married.

occupies an important position, and if a girl has a particularly good relationship with her other half, then the status will become particularly high.

Women are dominant, and because women are becoming more and more powerful, and the attention to women is also increasing, so you now occupy a greater position in your marriage.

In marriage, the woman is generally in a dominant position, dominating the economic power of the family, all the expenses in the family must pass through her, and the education of the children is also completely responsible for the woman, and all the big and small things in the family must pass through her.

I think women are generally passive in marriage, because I think women are really miserable in marriage.

1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.

In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.

2. The character of both parties.

Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.

3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.

Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.

4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.

The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.

5. Whether a man has true love for you.

Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.

6. Family atmosphere.

The family atmosphere of a family is too important, if the family is deserted, everyone does not talk, and everyone does their own things, the family will be very depressing after staying for a long time.

Women should play a very important and irreplaceable role in the family. The status of women in marriage should be basically equal to men, is as important as men, marriage is valuable in being able to trust and respect each other, premarital marriage is the need for both parties to pay and cherish, the happiness of marriage is also inseparable from women, in the family women may pay more than men, so women's status in marriage should be worthy of respect and great...

As the saying goes, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of entering the wrong industry. Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, so a good marriage can allow a woman to spend the second half of her life happily and sweetly under the care of her in-laws. But a bad marriage can ruin the second half of a woman's life.

Marriage is not just a matter for the two spouses, but also involves all aspects of people and things.

Whether the husband values himself or not is an important factor in determining the status after marriage。If after marriage, the husband does not pay attention to himself, and even ignores the woman's opinion in many things, he agrees with his parents' opinions. In this way, the in-laws will think that the son does not attach importance to the daughter-in-law, even if the in-laws embarrass the daughter-in-law, the son will not defend the daughter-in-law, so he will be treated unfairly by the in-laws, and even often find faults, resulting in frequent conflicts with the in-laws in married life, and the life is not happy.

Whether or not she has the ability to be tough is another factor that determines a woman's status in marriage. Many women will give up their jobs and devote themselves wholeheartedly to the family because of the reason of giving birth to children after marriage, at this time, the in-laws will think that the daughter-in-law is dependent on her son to raise, and has no ability to earn money, and her son is under huge economic pressure. Therefore, I feel that the daughter-in-law must be obedient at home, and serving the mother-in-law's family can reflect the daughter-in-law's sense of existence at home.

At the same time, women must also have their own bottom line in the daily life of their in-laws, and they cannot blindly tolerate it for some reasons, or even cross their own bottom line, which will make them feel that their daughter-in-law is particularly easy to bully, resulting in the in-laws will not respect the opinions of the daughter-in-law, and will interfere too much in your married life and choices, so that the marriage will produce more contradictions because of the interference of the in-laws.

The determinant of whether the mother's family supports the daughter's marital status. Although as the saying goes, a married daughter is the water that is spilled, thinking that the daughter has nothing to do with her mother's family after she gets married, and will not interfere with her daughter's married life, even when there is a conflict with her in-law's family, they will think that their daughter is doing badly and reprimand their daughter indiscriminately.

Actually, this is wrong. If the mother-in-law knows that the daughter-in-law does not have the support of the mother's family, she will bully the daughter-in-law unscrupulously, and also knows that even if the mother-in-law bullies her, the mother's family will not trouble the mother-in-law's family.

A happy marriage is determined by many factors, such as the husband's care and care, the wife's thoughtfulness and understanding of the husband, and the tolerance of the in-laws.

It is determined by one's own independent ability and financial ability. It's not that the more you contribute to your family, the higher your status, it's how financially independent you are, the more status you have in your marriage.

First of all, the status in the marriage must have a child of their own in the family to have a status, they must have their own work and space, and a woman with a job does not need to reach out to ask for money, so that the status in the marriage can also be determined.

A woman's status in marriage is determined by her own work, and a woman must have her own career, and with an economy, she will speak harder.

It all depends on the woman's own ability and the degree to which her husband pampers her, so first of all, a woman must be self-reliant, preferably have her own career, and also be able to share worries for the family and her husband, so that the status of the woman will definitely be very high, and the members of the family will respect your existence.

The status of a woman depends on her own quality, a woman with high emotional intelligence has a high status in the family, will take care of children, will honor the elderly, and solve her husband's worries, such a woman's family will like you and respect you.

A woman's position in marriage is determined by her own abilities. And marriage is not a woman's shackles, and a woman can also be alone in marriage.

In marriage, women should definitely be financially independent, must have the ability to support themselves, only in this way can they control themselves, the initiative in all aspects, and don't rely on their husbands to support you. In daily life, you can also have your own independent personality in the family, and the economic decision-making power determines the right to speak in the family, which can effectively restrain the filial piety of the Nian family, make the family relationship more stable and stable, and is conducive to the formation of the individual personality charm of each member of the family!

Women should be financially independent, including women in marriage, and preferably financially independent.

Financially independent women have dignity and the right to speak, and their in-laws will not despise them.

Financially independent women will not be slack off in their in-laws' family, and they also hope that their sons will have someone to share the burden of the family, so they will not easily show any dissatisfaction with their daughter-in-law, and they will be very good to their daughter-in-law and attach great importance to her requirements. This high-profile woman has a lot of say in marriage.

Women who are financially independent will have a higher quality of life, more cheerful children, and a stable family status.

Women who are financially independent will not treat themselves badly in life, and they don't need to ask others for what they want to buy, they can rely on others to give, and they can buy it. Under the influence of their mothers, children will not feel inferior, family conflicts will be relatively reduced, get along harmoniously, and the family status will naturally be very stable.