Men looking for a partner. Why not find a woman who is older than yourself? 20

It's all because the macho mind is at work, and he wants to be a protector and give the other party a full sense of security.

I want to spoil her, so I must find a girl younger than myself to be with, and be a sister to spoil her and protect her. If you find someone older than yourself, then you will become a sister and brother love, others are more mature than yourself, and you think more carefully than yourself, then you will lose your sense of accomplishment and appear to be naïve.

Why don't men look for a woman older than themselves? This may be because a person's experience is different, and in terms of emotion, men may be more inclined to the type of little girl. Because in that case, there will be a desire to protect, and everyone has different experiences, and if you look for a partner, it depends on your own preferences.

Most boys don't mind that girls are older than themselves, but girls don't mind very much, they feel that they are older than him, will they always like me and love me, and besides, boys don't need any reason to like someone, like is like, no reason, no reason. It's just pure liking someone. Age, or anything else is not a problem, the question is whether you like it or not.

Why don't men look for a woman older than themselves? Because a man's anti-aging is him. You look at the same age, men are not showing their age, women look very old, not to mention a few years older, it will be even more old-fashioned, so.

It's better for women to look for a few years older.

Not all boys are looking for a partner who is older than themselves, because in real life there are also girls who are older than themselves, so this has a certain relationship with fate, and at the same time has something to do with the individual's personality.

In fact, you don't want older men, but more mature men than yourself.

There are many women in their love life who have such a misunderstanding, thinking that if they find a man older than themselves, the other party will take care of themselves and be more mature in their thinking than themselves. But biological age is not the same as mental age, although some women have found a partner who is older than their age, but the other party has nothing to do all day long, does not understand your needs, so that you can not resist the hope of the future, even if this "male and female" married life is difficult to be happy.

01 Nowadays, sister and brother love marriages have accounted for 4 percent, and more and more women choose the other half not to judge whether the other party is reliable based on the age of the other party, but to see the other party's love level. A truly mature and stable man will understand a woman's inner needs, lead a woman to enjoy a better life, and at the same time help a woman solve the difficulties in life. Men have the ability to lead women, and the love level is higher than that of women, so that even if the marriage of "women are big and men are young", they will be happy and happy, so that women's happiness indicators are higher.

Women are constantly adding value to themselves in order to stand out among young and beautiful girls.

In a sister-brother marriage, some women will worry that they will be easily abandoned by the other party when they get old, and they are more likely to look old when they are older than the other party. In fact, in married life, even if you are younger than the other party, but you don't pay attention to maintaining your own ** in daily life, the same dressing style for a hundred years, so that even if you are young, it will cause the other party to get bored, and the husband is easy to be attracted to the opposite sex in the outside world. 02 "Visual age" is the age of appearance.

There are three types of human age: biological age, mental age, and visual age.

Biological age is based on the body, and it is a specific expression of the length of years that our body has experienced. 03

Mental age refers to the level of mental maturity, and everyone matures at a different rate.

Visual age is an external representation, which has nothing to do with actual age, but only represents a visual representation of age.

Someone is in his early 20s and looks like he is in his 30s; Someone in his thirties looked like he was in his twenties.

That's the visual age.

The effect of "visual age" is prone to "sibling love".

There are many famous "sister and brother love" couples in the entertainment industry, such as Gao Yuanyuan and Zhao Youting, Huo Siyan and Du Jiang, Hu Ke and Sha Yi, etc.

And all "sister and brother love" couples have the same characteristic - similar visual age, which is also the main reason why there are more and more "sister and brother love" in the current society.

There are several possible reasons why a man chooses a woman older than himself:

1.Feminine Maturity: Some men like feminine maturity, which is generally experienced with richness, poise, and elegance, so it can bring them comfort and security.

2.Economic conditions: Some men may want to find a successful and financially independent woman, and these characteristics often match those of older women.

3.Unexpected attraction: Sometimes, a man may feel a mysterious attraction with a woman who is older than himself, which is also a form of attraction.

4.Learning experience: Older women tend to be more experienced and have more knowledge and insights than younger women. Some men may choose older women in the hope of benefiting from their learning experience.

In conclusion, it is a personal choice for a man to choose a woman who is larger than himself, depending on the different needs and preferences of different people. Age is not the only factor that determines the quality of life, what is more important is the mentality, character and mutual understanding of the individual.

This kind of man often wants to feel the feeling of being taken care of, and older women are more mature and mostly have stable jobs, which can make men not have too much pressure.